I am so tired of watching black people talk bad about Oprah Winfrey & Tyler Perry

I am so tired of watching black people talk bad about Oprah Winfrey & Tyler Perry

I remember watching Oprah Winfrey as a little girl, seeing her come on television and actually talk about positive things that mattered to people.

I watched her bring on guests and create memorable moments like that time Tom Cruz jumped on and down on her couch because he was in love.

We all remember when Oprah gave everyone in the audience a car.

A random Google will bring up videos of Oprah telling you how to manifest your best life.  She’s constantly doing graduation speeches.

And then there’s reality tv where black people get paid to fight and act ignorant. And young girls want to be stars so they follow suit.

But I follow in Oprah’s footsteps. Because of Oprah I believe that I can be wealthy by creating positivity in the world.

Sometimes I feel like black people simply don’t like positivity.

I remember watching several of Tyler Perry movies and being awed at his progress. Madea is very entertaining, but his movies over the past few years have been truly touching with the stories he tells.

I noticed how many black actors careers he revived. I notice how he gave Idris a role that was outside of the street role that I first saw him on and fell in love with his actor.  Only to later see Idris talking bad about Tyler.

Tyler too is constantly giving graduating speeches inspiring people.  One day I was on Youtube and saw this very powerful video about ANXIETY that Tyler did at a church. I was touched by his preaching abilities.

I know it must be really exhausting to be both Tyler and Oprah. No matter what they do for the black community, many in the black community talk bad about them. They can never do enough.

Tyler Perry has an entire black studio, and Oprah has an entire school in Africa.

I just wonder what more does a person have to do to receive some love and appreciation in this world.

And the people who talk bad about them are usually people with a 9-5 job. They are not even entrepreneurs who work hard to create impact and change the world.

I am so disturbed by people that don’t appreciate greatness, that if you tell me you don’t vibe with Beyonce’s brilliance as an artist I can’t be friends with you. It’s truly that serious.  I don’t vibe with people who don’t recognize greatness.

Anyway, that’s my rant. I just had to get that off my chest.  Now I’m looking at this post noticing how many sentences being with the word I, and how that looks so EGOIC to people.  But hey, this is how I feel. I wish people showed this inspiration greats more love and appreciation for the mere hope that they install into people, simply by existing.  Oprah has never gave me $1 but she has changed my life.

I’ve never met Tyler Perry but his ANXIETY speech, really helped me learn to pray better and relieve anxiety.

Wisdom Can Come Disguised As Trust Issues

Wisdom Can Come Disguised As Trust Issues

Let’s be honest, a lot of people don’t have “trust issues”. They have “I’ve seen this pattern of behavior before, and I’m not about to go through the same crap again” issues.

It’s called Wisdom. Wisdom recognizes patterns. 

wisdom in trust issues
Yet what wisdom often forgets to do is ask itself why is it experiencing the same pattern again. Lots of times the issues you experience through others are a reflection of unhealed, unconscious patterns in your own life.

Ask what you did to attract such a person. The people you attract are spiritual lessons and blessings.  So don’t be so quick to look at them as darkness. Look at them as reflections of your own darkness. 

However there are limits to this. Beauty attracts both flies and honey, and so does the light. 

Also no, it’s not up to you to fix anyone, but sometimes if you tell someone their patterns are unhealthy, you can get them on the road to recovery. Many people pass up on great people over minor issues that can easily be fixed.

No matter what you will have to help your mate heal. No one is going to be absolutely perfect.