by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 22, 2020 |
When it comes to your mate, listening to your friends can talk you out of the greatest blessing of your life.
When it comes to my mate, I’ve never listened to my friends, except when they tell me how I can IMPROVE or treat my mate better. I have a habit of admitting what I’ve SAID to people. I consult with friends who will tell me “Kissy you’re doing this wrong. That’s not right Kissy. You can do better. Try this way. That’s not way to talk to a person.”
This comes because I am always clear in making sure I admit whatever I’ve said in response to me feeling someone has wronged me.
The ego is so amazing, and how it reacts to perceived wrongs against it…
Usually when my mate does something to me that I don’t like, I avoid even telling other people about it, because I know they will only look at them through eyes of judging and believing him to be wrong or bad.
But seeing as to how I am the one sleeping with him, I know him a lot better and have a better understanding of some of his actions and why he may have done that.
For instance, a man can tell me that he’s busy and doesn’t have time for something. I could allow that to hurt my ego and my pride, or I could simply accept that maybe he really is busy and believes he doesn’t have time.
Because I am a work-obsessed woman I can also understand someone feeling that way. I could even understand that people make time for what’s important to them. But I also know what’s important to a person often depends on where they are in life. You can be not important to someone one week, because they are IN A RUSH to accomplish something, then next week when they are done, suddenly their mind will free up and have time to find you of some importance.
At least that’s the way I am with many of the men who seek to date me. Most are not going to pay my bills, so no, I don’t find it important to stop working in order to get to know them. It’s nothing personal against them. It’s simply me handling my business so I can keep up with my lifestyle.
Others right away set themselves up as a provider, so I’ll give them a little text time, and set a date for the future. I will make time to get to know a man who shows he may be interested in investing in me. This is the way most boss chicks operate, but most men don’t understand it. So they show up not offering her any sense of safety, while wanting her time.
The average entrepreneur is constantly rushing to complete something. The average life coach is constantly in a cycle of completing a launch. Most people are in a rush, look-up and realize they did not enjoy the journey.
Enlightened souls have this understanding.
However back to the outside perspective, people would take high offense to a man telling a woman he doesn’t have time for her. They may not see that he’s bought into the perspective that a successful man doesn’t have much free time for anything other than work. They may not understand that the man believes that women take him off of his focus. So they would tell the woman “Phuck Him!”
In my history with men, I noticed that they would always go to their friends to complain about me. Their friends would try to tell them how to deal with me. But none of their friends had a woman at home who was anything like me. So of course it’s no surprise that all of their advice failed and I broke up with them.
See most men don’t have friends who tell them what THEY are doing wrong in relationships. No one tells 50/50 men that half of their problem and lack of receiving respect from their woman is due to him not being a provider. Therefore he catches a lot of lip and talking back. His woman can’t help but to display some form or disrespect for his masculinity.
As a woman is encoded to desire a protector and provider, no matter how much a feral woman she may be.
But this isn’t about that. This is about people discussing their relationships with their friends who don’t make a habit of seeing both sides and holding both people accountable for the miscommunications in the relationship.
A man who is not a provider needs to accept that YES, he may experience some forms of emasculation. That’s what he signed up for. In order to stop it, he has to lean in and treat his other half like even more of a Queen. After all, she is showing up in life just as Kingly as he is. Just because he has a d*ck, doesn’t make him superior. Activating his God and protecting and PROVIDING for his Queen makes him superior.
A man can not hold a title without actions to back it up.
A woman who operates in masculinity must also accept that her man will often treat her as such. She has to take account and dive deeper into her femininity to get a different result.
Most people’s mindset tells them to get rid of people. After all there are billions of people on the planet. Quite naturally people would feel like people are easily disposable.
I felt like my mates were more valuable than that. But that’s not to say my way is right. I simply value my relationships more than average.
Anyway, once you get to pulling people into your business, you may as well accept that if you stay with your mate, or go back to your mate, your friends and family now don’t like them.
At some point you will then have to choose between your friends and family or your mate. Because your mate is not going to bow down to any of them or care that your other people don’t like them.
Here is also something else. The way people act and react are deeply connected to childhood wounding and past experiences.
Most of the time when someone says or does, it’s either because they believe the behavior to be okay or they are responding based upon their own drama and past experiences.
Learning how to relate takes a great deal of work. Learning not to lash out and return the hurt takes healing and removal of the ego.
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 6, 2020 |
A wise man simply can’t sit around blaming a woman for not “acting right.”
Men lead. Women follow. When a man shows up as a woman’s Dream Man, she then feels comfortable and submits to his LEADERSHIP.
The first thing a woman looks for is safety through love and financial support. A man who shows up without PROVIDING those two things, is asking to be unloved and disrespected.
Many a low vibration man complains about not wanting to meet a woman’s standards, and then saying she’s the one with the problem because he has to reach too far. He dislikes the fact that she feels too highly about herself. Which starts the process of dimming her light and asking her to come DOWN to his vibration.
A wise man would never waste his time with a woman that he is not wowed by. A wise man knows that a woman he’s not wowed by, will eventually cease to be wowed by him. It’s nearly impossible for a man to keep a high value woman, if he doesn’t value her.
However many man believe that he can. Many men approach women as “Friends” then expect her to fall in love with him. Instead a high value woman will date other men who set the INTENTION of actually getting to know her in order to date her.
Being friends first is a statement that many don’t quite understand. When you meet a man, there should be some type of sexual chemistry present. A woman simply can’t marry a man because he is “nice” or for the simple fact that he is a provider. Although many women do just that, they are blocking themselves and their partners from experiencing divine love.
It’s a must that you be WOWED by your mate. It’s a must that you be turned on by your mate. Lack of sexual attraction leads to lack of a pleasurable relationship. It’s not all about pleasure but ATTRACTION plays a major part in maintaining the relationship.
How can one expect to maintain a relationship that they don’t value?
🤷♀️ Many men avoid the mirror of truth, while only noticing that women avoid their own truths.
The truth is no one roots for a woman with a settle for less man. The minute a woman ends up with a man who doesn’t treat her like a Queen, she essentially must take her crown off, and lower her self-esteem.
It’s embarrassing for a woman have a man that she can’t brag about. She would be lead to to hide the fact that her man encourages her to feel less than, by not showing up for her.
This is why little boys need to see their mother being treated well. Men from households who didn’t see their mother’s loved, often call women wounded, not understanding that all that woman is doing is reflecting his same trauma back to him.
People literally must address trauma head on in relationships and learn to work through it.
Instead of a man looking at a woman for what she’s doing wrong, he should look at himself to see how he can fix what’s wrong inside himself. He should analyze his own leadership or lack there of.
It’s quite selfish for a man to chase a woman, expect her to commit and submit to him, if he isn’t interested in doing the work of being her dream man. Such a man’s deepest desire is to date a high value woman who doesn’t love herself, enough to get what she wants. Such a man wants her to climb down off the top, because he doesn’t feel you’re strong enough, or feel that she is worthy enough of the chase. Yes he wants her presence in his life.
Doesn’t that sound confusing? Yet such a man acts surprised when the woman becomes confused and pulls away from him.
Why go after a woman who doesn’t inspire you to be a better man? What do you want her for then? To cook, clean and sex you? Women are not robots.
Why chase a woman who you feel is not worthy of your best? Why are you so okay with not being your best? Who raised you to show up average or mediocre? Sir, money alone does not make you a good man.
In that case why not you go first and settle for less, by marrying a woman who doesn’t know how to read…
She’ll feel like less than you, so yeah, you won’t have to jump through hoops.
You’re never going to win as a man fighting for your limitatons and being okay with being NO ONE’S dream man.
Don’t you want your woman to love the very soul of you?
Why would you be okay with your woman watching other women with dope men… Meanwhile she has to come home to you and know deep down in her soul, the she settled for less, and her husband is not all that.
Couldn’t be me. I’d rather the MVP.
Some of ya’ll want trophy performances in bed, yet you’re not playing to win. Get the Book…. Learn the way of KINGS.
I think every man should find a woman who adores him, and just outright be a good man to her and see how that works out for you.
But remember it’s all about what she wants. Would you go in the Louis store and expect to walk out with a new pair of sneakers for a discounted price?
Nope you wouldn’t… But somehow you expect to get a good woman with a thrift store mindset.
Self-Accountability for women includes only dating men who are serious about you. If they want to be friends with BENEFITS, then a woman needs to tell him the benefit SHE WANTS.
Nothing feels more embarrassing to a woman that dealing with a man who doesn’t want to be with her. So why do that to yourself? Why allow a confused man to dim your joy like that?
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Mar 6, 2020 |
As a woman it’s important to PROTECT YOUR ENERGY.
Sometimes you’ll meet men who will randomly give you advice without you asking. Then they turn around and EXPECT or ALMOST demand that you give to them.
That’s spiritual robbery. A Goddess is a blessing to all those who encounter her.
You bless people simply by ALLOWING them to talk to your. What you value from a man is something you can hold in your hand and SEE. That multiplies your desire for him.
When you’re in this natural RECEIVING state is when you operate best. Men who can’t RECEIVE your divine energy drain you, because they want you to give to them. Other unaligned men drain your energy because to increase their own vibration. When you were with such a man suddenly things may have stopped going as well for you. You probably blamed it on life circumstances, but it was HIM. A man holds more density than a woman does. One who isn’t feeding life and love into you, in order to prosper you will drain you, and is also wasting his time. A man gets from a woman exactly what he puts into her plus 5 times more.
When you’re a spiritual woman he gets your ENERGY & ABUNDANCE regardless. That’s the magic of you. You multiply a man times 10, not matter what.
Then when you let go of a man who doesn’t treat you like a Queen, you drop dead weight and rise even higher. Because you now fly FREE. The man for you wants to see all of your dreams come true.
In addition, no one has to tell me you give back to them. You are a natural giver. You love to give and receive.
What people often don’t realize is that sometimes you just play cute. You are real life brilliant. However when you have a conversation, you simply don’t feel a need to show it off. You just talk and ALLOW people to converse with you.
Personally you would rather someone do for you because they want to. Not because they feel like they owe you something.
You truly understand the art of giving and receiving. But what people don’t understand is THE ART OF DEALING WITH A GODDESS.
You have recently been forced to step up and truly own the fullness of your power. You’ve learned to stop over-giving to people and blessing them with things they can’t even comprehend.
For instance, the other day I was at the grocery store… People just stop in the aisles and talk to me. I am aware that I have a healing presence. So when people talk to me I smile and allow them to talk and be in my SPACE. I didn’t fee like that was harmful to me in any way. People leave my presence so happy, delighted and in HIGH spirits. 😉
Later on when I got home, I noticed my energy was DRAINED. I finally noticed that I was giving my spiritual energy to perfect strangers with nothing in return for it, other than to see the joy on their faces… I was sacrificing myself for perfect strangers and believed that to be a “good” thing. People really can sense LIGHTS. You have to protect your energy, and sometimes you may have to ignore people, even though you really want to respond.
Before you give your energy out, ask yourself if it’s worth it. I’ve learned to keep my cup full and disperse my VALUABLE energy to friends, family, loved ones and clients who need me.
Chances are it’s pretty difficult for you to own your worth like that. Chances are you still believe you must DO, in order to be a valuable woman. That would be you blatantly ignoring your gifts.
We don’t all live in the same realm. 🔮💎🧬 You know this, but for some reason, you want to fit in, and be normal. 💜
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Feb 28, 2020 |
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 14, 2019 |
If you’re in a relationship DO NOT go telling your mate “That seems like a problem with self,” when they question your love for them or how you feel about them.
That response is not love based. Men and women who are accustomed to dating emotionally unavailable people tend to respond in such a way. They’ve trained themselves to totally avoid the EMOTION of love. Therefore even when they desire to, they have a difficult time expressing their love to others. To others their behavior and words often don’t come off as words of love. And it’s not, because people can clearly see their lack of caring in ACTION.
When someone is in love YES, they are quick to reassure you and let you know they care about you. There is no light, love and go play with yourself and go phuck yourself. If you don’t expect yourself to have sex with yourself, why expect your mate to work through doubts by themselves? People want a relationship without any effort of playing as a team.
Sometimes people actually DO suck as a mate. There are only so many things a person can do to work on themselves. Going within doesn’t always mean your mate is going to reflect that back to you. For instance, if a woman wants a Bentley, that doesn’t mean that if she goes within, becomes feminine, pleasant and sweet, that her man will now buy her a Bentley. If he doesn’t care about Bentley’s himself chances are he won’t care if you have one. Therefore your frequencies don’t match up. You may be an abundant woman who can afford her own Bentley. Doesn’t mean your man is going to buy you one either. Sometimes the problem is simply incompatibility.
The Light and love world blames people for too much, and will have you go in circles trying to heal and fix yourself, when the whole time the problem is maybe you just need to let go. The truth is some people are not compatible with your value system. Some people are not equipped to love you at your level.
A lot of men are single, simply because you have no idea how to connect to the heart of a woman. Then you go and chase badd azz chicks, which makes it worse. Such women require QUEEN treatment. So now you don’t know how to connect, you don’t know how to treat a woman like a Queen and you actually don’t seem to care. Then you’re confused on why she doesn’t value you or want to be with you.
It amazes me that so many men are cool with their woman not being Queen. Yet you chase women online whose social media profiles clearly show they are Queen. But here you come with the habits you learned from dating a basic bish, thinking that should be more than good enough.
Here you come with the appearance that most high value women would laugh at, but you want this high value woman to love you for you. Yet, you don’t even love her for her.
MONEY will definitely get a man access to lots of women. But it won’t keep a valuable woman. MONEY is a norm these days. It’s not a plus. It’s a must. So now that’s out of the way, what else do you as a man have to offer this high value woman that looks good on your arms?
If you’re a man who says looks don’t matter, chances are it’s because looking at you, you’re not a good look for a beautiful woman. You are only a good look for her if you look like a model or you take care of her, provide for her, and treat her like a Queen.
Any man who actually is valuable already knows these things.
Now let’s get back to the point of meeting someone new and things are progressing well. Good for you. You feel like a grown-up, you’re doing all the “right” things and suddenly, you feel that pit in your stomach. It’s doubt.
Doubt in relationships, is a common, normal often sudden fear or uncertainty about the person you are with. It is inevitable and is not necessarily a bad sign.
Doubts can be scary when they first surface. And, doubts typically raise their heads right when the high of falling in love meets the truth that you and your partner may not exactly be made for each other, you know, like two peas in a pod. You are actually two separate and different people.
But doubt can also mean that your relationship is moving to another stage of commitment where differences are worked on and growth happens. This scares many people because they’ve never worked on differences before. They simply went blindly into relationship sin the past.
Here are some tips about doubt from the GoodMenProject:
Doubt is a normal response to change. Sometimes we doubt a new job or moving on. Doubts arise in relationships when things progress. Doubt is very common when relationship talk graduates to moving in together or marriage. Simply talking about these changes with your partner can relieve the stress; you may find he or she feels the same. Without actually sitting down and talking it out, it’s difficult to move forward.
Some doubts are a stress response. They can be our way of preparing for new challenges. These doubts sound like: What if I screw this up? But I don’t like his or her friends all that much. Are they really my ‘One’? Are we really a match sexually? I am not sure about the way he or she manages their finances. These are perspectives rather than things set in stone. They are issues that can change over time, or are often only one side of the story.
But doubt can also mean that your relationship is moving to another stage of commitment where differences are worked on and growth happens. Unless you let doubt get the better of you. So, why do we doubt the ones we love?
Doubt is a normal response to change. Just as we doubt what a new job or moving might do to our lives, doubts arise in relationships when things progress. Doubt is common when relationship talk graduates to moving in together or marriage. Simply talking about these changes with your partner can relieve the stress; you may find he or she feels the same.
Some doubts are a stress response. They can be our way of preparing for new challenges. These doubts sound like: What if I’m still attracted to other people, is that a bad sign? But I don’t like his or her friends all that much. Are they really my ‘One’? Are we really a match sexually? I am not sure about the way he or she manages their finances. These are perspectives rather than things set in stone. They are issues that can change over time, or are often only one side of the story.
On the other hand, are your doubts really about your partner’s actions and behaviors towards you? In some cases, doubts are your issues in disguise and are not healthy for you or the relationship. But you can still grow from your doubts, and so can your relationship, as long as you face and recognize them.
Doubt can hide fear. Often doubt comes up when there is a fear of intimacy. If every step towards greater commitment has your doubts rising significantly, you might want to think about what you are scared of. Even a few counseling sessions, talks with your partner or a self-help book might be of some guidance.
Doubts can be sabotage. If you do fear of intimacy, doubts might be your subconscious pushing your loved one away. This doesn’t mean they’ll leave. If they love you, and you love them and want to work on your issues, who is to say you can’t get past this? No one. It’s all about awareness and honesty.
Sometimes we think we doubt our current partner when we are really assuming certain things based on past experience. You might doubt your partner truly loves you if in the past you dated someone who was emotionally unavailable.
At the end of it all, doubt is rarely the real problem in a relationship. It’s a lack of communication that tends to be the true issue. If you have doubts that you feel you can’t talk over with your partner, the question might be why you can’t communicate them. Do you fear upsetting them? Why? Do you know how to navigate conflict, or do you not trust each other enough to be vulnerable around each other? These are issues worth looking at, alone, or with a couples counselor.
Steer clear of talking over your doubts too much with the wrong people. Doubts are often just garden-variety fears and anxieties. Talk about them too much with, say, your friend who is jealous of your relationship, or your mother who never likes anyone you date, or people who don’t know or understand the depth of your mate, and they may help you turn those doubts into real issues. Try sorting out your doubts for yourself first, then talk to someone you truly trust, or even to a relationship coach.
Balance your doubts with an equal focus on what is working. Many of us have brains that are trained to focus on the negative. Try spending time each day thinking about five things that are going right with your relationship. Or keep a list you can review and add to about all the ways the relationship works and how your partner is just what you need.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 5, 2019 |
LIFE has a way of beating the hope out of people. When the evidence of true, ever lasting love isn’t present, people give up hope.
Are you afraid of to hope? Because if you hope, then you are committing to getting up and trying again. When you hope, you are magnetically pulled in the direction of something more. A place where there might, just might be the thing you are looking for. And then what? When you move into the direction of your dream and your longing and your deepest desire, then you have to believe. You have to risk. You have to trust and go with it.
There is bravery in being unafraid of being hurt because you believe that your person is out there. I believe there are many people out there for us. Each one serves a purpose, teaches us a valuable lesson and stays with us for the just amount of time for us to learn it. The lessons come from soulmate connections.
Each soulmate teaches you something that helps you heal enough to deeply attract THE ONE.
But after a series of soulmate connections not going right, people become afraid to get hurt. They become too afraid to HOPE. They don’t want to HOPE the relationship will work out. They’ve backed up and are leaving everything to the Universe or say they’ll commit to whoever says YES.
So I must ask, how did we go from being unconscious and hoping to experiencing the greatest love to fear of hope.
This is especially not good for men. Cause men get to the point where he’s so tired he DECIDES he’s not going to chase any woman. But once again, the game is cat and mouse. A man finds a wife. She doesn’t find him. But instead many women are waiting to be found by the right woman. But half the time women barely ever know what they want, until he’s in front of her, and the he that’s in front of her is probably 10X better than what she desired in the first place.
Most women will never make up their mind on a man, so a man who doesn’t have his mind made up about her definitely won’t due.
Then there is still this whole thing of soulmate connections. What do you do, when you begin to vibe so high, you attract lots of soulmates?
For a woman, she has to recode back to Queen DNA and remember what dream man would do for her. Pick the one who does ALL of that. You must pick a man not for is potential, but for who he is showing up as right now. Loving him for the man he COULD BE, will keep you from loving him as he is. So don’t pick a man unless he’s showing up as King in your life. You can not pick the Prince and get made later that he didn’t become the King you hoped he’d become.
For men, you have to remember what your Dream Girl is composed of. Can you add some sparkle on her, drop some knowledge in and get her to become that? A woman is rarely ever going to be 100% perfect for you. God left some space for a man to make his personal improvements and make a woman just right for him. I suspect one of the traits she must have is that she be submissive to you. I suspect this may happen quite naturally. But I’m not for sure.
What I do know though, is at some point, you must DECIDE. I think we get lots of soulmates and we get to pick the one we want, and depending on the timing we know how to make the relationship work or maybe we don’t. I think if we are simply to stay in flow of a never-ending river, that if you don’t decide to get out of the river a certain location, then it will continue to lead you towards something, better, and better, until you decide you’re ready, I suppose.
So many conscious people start moving in the “Don’t move too fast,” “Gotta be careful” “Don’t have any expectations” type of direction. It makes me wonder how hard that may be making it to find true love.
I don’t know if one can experience a deep love connection without loving yourself enough to be willing to vulnerable.
If you want that dream love life, you must stay committed to it. CHOOSE LOVE. You were wired for it anyway. Sacred union is a must. So if you have FAITH that love will find you, move accordingly.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 3, 2019 |
It pains me when I see people who’ve given up on love. Women who say they never want to get married, even though they really want to, but believe it won’t happen for them.
When you give up on love, you close off part of your heart. Life is a dream. We get some areas right, and other areas we have to work on.
Love is easy. What’s not easy is getting into a relationship with someone who isn’t crazy in love with you, or someone who is not heavily invested in the relationship working out.
Women get so tired of dating, and become so unconsciously desperate for love, that the settle for what a man says is good for him. They start living through the eyes of fear. So when he says he never wants to get married, she slowly comes to acceptance of it.
But if you’re not going after your dreams you’re not really living. Without pursuit of your dreams you’re not challenging yourself. Because the challenge is always figuring out what we need to change about ourselves in order to get what we want.
We need to change the vision. I understand women fall in love and you want that man to be your dream man, but he doesn’t want to. So you conclude that fairy tales aren’t real and you lower your expectations to basically nothing. And that still doesn’t work.
And guess what else you end up doing? You don’t expect him to pay bills either. Cause you become too afraid to ask for what you want. You’re too afraid to feel worthy of more. You’re moving into the realm of mediocrity. And you’re going to fall back asleep.
And guess what else? You’re probably slacking on your goals in business. When you refuse to ask a man for what you want, or admit that you want a man who truly values you like the Queen that you are, it affects every part of your life.
I don’t know why you think God sent you here without making a mate just for you. The right man for you is looking for you. He wants to give to you. He wants to be the man to put a smile on your face and make you happy. But you feel you need to solely make yourself happy, and only depend on a man for d*ck. Cause you know he LOVES to give you that.
Past relationships have lowered your ideas of self-worth so much. You probably don’t even feel pretty.
It feels so good to have an amazing man who treats you like a Queen. You wake up with a natural glow. Abundance touches every part of your life, including business. You’re way more helpful to other women. You’re more powerful. You’re more feminine. You’re full of love. You’re grateful that the past is what it was.
You deny yourself of so much joy when you let a man talk you out of your dreams. The truth is, he would be better off coming your way in the first place.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Oct 20, 2019 |
Saw a discussion on Facebook today and the post centered around “Pick Me’s is very interesting.
A man named Christoper wrote:
His post makes perfect sense.
He was attempting to explain that there are lots of single women chasing high value men, while women on the other hand are being used for sex, taken for granted and tossed to the side to continue the chase. He also stated in the comments that women need to put in EFFORT to be seen, especially online when a man has 2,000+ Facebook friends.
I understand where he’s coming from. Yet, I must call it like I see it, from my level, and shed some light on the situation.
A King in divine masculinity, sitting on his throne, always gets the woman he wants.
Lions go for what they want. Until a man activates his divine King throne codes he will continue to take whatever woman is nice to him and chases him. A divine King gets the woman he wants. He knows he needs a woman who is an asset to him. Therefore, he’s not distracted by 2,000 other women, because they won’t due for him. He’s focused, and not lost like other men. He’s looking for her. HER is at the top of the tree. He’s not about to be like the other men who are on the group picking up the apples that are laying around. Those guys have limited vision. HE sees what he wants at the top. He’s brave, he has his heart and sights set on her. So he gets her.
A divine King knows what he wants. Therefore when he finally meets her, he shuts sh*t down. He’s a winner. It’s always chess and not checkers. I’m not saying he doesn’t move in smooth and gracefully, but what he does is set his sight on the target and start luring it in. The dance begins.
If a man is expecting a woman to chase him, that’s not divine masculinity. It’s feminine behavior, and I know for a fact, Goddesses like me, are attracted to testosterone and men who are confident enough to stand tall, ball tall, and vibrate high enough to get a woman of our caliber. Because we ain’t going for just anyone. Especially not a weak one who doesn’t know how to catch his own damn fish.
Some men literally have to be told it’s time to let their mama’s titty go. Women are not here to chase a man and do everything for him. Her help is not in the DOING. Doing is your job. She’s there to simply BE. #LevelUp
That is why I wrote my new book “You Can’t Force A Man To Value You – Becoming a High Value Woman & Getting The Man Of Your Dreams.”
Getting the man you desire, requires that a woman work on herself, not go to work to get a man. That’s backwards. You can’t chase a real man talking about “Pick Me,” even if he does pick you, it may because you wore him down, he felt guilty or simply never vibrated high enough to get what he truly wants.
If a woman wants her relationship to last, she must pick a man who is totally in love with her. It’s okay for a woman to flirt with a man, and make him aware of his presence. But once he sees her, he knows. It simply doesn’t take much more EFFORT than that. Most of the effort before meeting a high value man is done on herself. Once she becomes the highest version of herself she will then attract men who like her.
Dating is a game of “How Can I Get This Woman To Marry me?” When it’s played any different than that, the results don’t tend to work out in the long run.
A woman can’t put forth EFFORT to try to prove herself in hopes that a man chooses and picks her. That’s feminine on his behalf and masculine on hers. It’s up to a woman to become her best self, let the men show up, and pick the one she wants. But even in her head she too should know what she wants well before he shows up.
Then when the two come together, it’s more like a match made in heaven, because the energy connects. Soon they realize why they were brought together.
Men are hunters by nature, not receivers… That’s why they have penis and women have a womb…
It’s not up to a woman to chase a man to get him to see her, value her or want her.
I should also mention that some of us women, although we are spiritual, composed and feminine, we are equally balanced in the masculine. We are fierce warrior Queens. We are what most smart, successful men actually need, cause YES, men want their businesses to flow smoother. Being around our brain and frequency sets him up for easy wins.
But knowing that, we’re just not about to hand ourselves over to just any man. He must have a LION in him, roaring, taking life by the balls and making things happen in his life. We’re turned on by winners. We don’t want the man who will just take any woman.
A man who will take anything, will never treat a woman like she’s special. Cause she’s not. Plus what woman has time to be trying to convince a man that he can win, when he didn’t even have the balls to win her heart..
