by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 26, 2024 |
There are moments in life when everything shifts, moments you don’t see coming but can feel deep in your soul. Today, I experienced one of those moments. Unexpectedly, I found myself releasing pain and hurt from decades ago, things I didn’t even know I was holding onto. It wasn’t a decision I made consciously. It felt like God stepped in and said, “It’s time.”
I suddenly had a vision of leaving work, standing on the bus stop, to head to pick my son up from daycare. My son’s father had called earlier telling me that he and his girlfriend would be at the bus stop waiting to beat me up when I got off work. Not only did this man make me a single mother, but he was also upset that I didn’t want to be with him. A cheater, emotional abuser, and an inadequate father. He did so many things to me. It wasn’t allowed by me. It just was. God showed this to me and release me from that bondage.
Realizations That Changed Everything
I’ve spent so many years in survival mode, carrying the weight of betrayal, heartbreak, and abusive relationships. I thought I’d moved on from these things because I wasn’t actively thinking about them. But the truth is, they left an imprint on me. They shaped how I saw myself, how I navigated life, and how I interacted with others.
I realize now that survival mode wasn’t my fault. It kept me safe, kept me moving, kept me alive. But survival mode also kept me small. It built walls around my heart, barriers around my mind, and limits around my potential. And while I didn’t realize it at the time, it kept me from fully embodying the woman I’m called to be. After all, most of these things happened to me before I even turned 21.
God’s Divine Timing
What struck me the most about today’s shift is that I didn’t ask for it. I wasn’t praying specifically for healing or doing shadow work. I was simply living, and God decided it was time to intervene. It felt like a divine release—like God was saying, “You don’t need to carry this anymore.”
I cried. Not because I was sad, but because I finally understood how much these old wounds had weighed me down. I felt gratitude for the survival mode that once protected me, but I also knew it was time to let it go. To move from surviving to thriving. To leave heaviness behind and step fully into my next level.
Humans Are Dealing With So Much
This experience reminded me of something profound: people are carrying so much pain that they don’t even realize. We’re all trying our best, navigating life with invisible burdens that shape how we show up in the world. I’ve always known this, but today, I felt it deeply in my own spirit.
The healing I’m experiencing isn’t just for me. It’s for everyone I’m called to lead. It’s for the women who look to me for guidance, who are walking their own paths of survival and transformation. It’s for the next generation of leaders, who deserve to know that life doesn’t have to be heavy, that healing is possible, and alignment is available.
Walking Into My Next Level
I feel lighter now, like a layer of fog has lifted. I’m walking into my next level with clarity, confidence, and a deep sense of peace. I’m no longer tethered to the hurt of the past or the habits of survival. I’m stepping into a new version of myself—one that is free, aligned, and ready to lead.
If you’re reading this and it resonates, I want you to know that healing is possible for you too. You don’t have to carry the weight of the past forever. Sometimes, God steps in to heal what you didn’t even know was broken. And when that happens, it’s not just a release…it’s a rebirth.
What’s Next
This journey of letting go has shown me the power of divine timing and grace. It’s reminded me that life isn’t just about doing—it’s about being. Being present, being open, being aligned. And as I step into this new chapter, I’m committed to sharing this light with others.
If you’re ready to step into your next level…to release the heaviness, embrace healing, and rise into your highest self—I invite you to join me. Let’s walk this journey together, knowing that the best is yet to come.
This is more than a blog post…t’s a testament to the power of healing, the beauty of alignment, and the limitless possibilities that await us when we say yes to the journey. 💜
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Apr 19, 2024 |
Don’t pay too much attention to content creators who tell you they’ve made a ton of money on FB and know something special. What they don’t know if that the ALGORITHM was in their favor because FB gave it to them, and then after a while FB shut them down. That’s how it goes.
As someone who has been creating content for years, and making a ton of money consistently, I do know the secrets of breaking the algorithm. But obviously that’s not my big message.
The thing is I see people trying to flaunt money and make others feel bad and less than, when seriously it was simply LUCK on their side.
But when it comes to making money as a coach, author or consultant, now that takes SKILL.
What most people need to win online is a 1 o1 1 coach or group coaching program.
You need coaches for social media strategy, motivation, accountability, clarity, confidence and expansion.
A part of becoming good at sales is transforming your mindset and becoming your highest self.
It also comes down to increasing your self-love. Last night I was going through my IG. I hadn’t really posted in the last 2-years except recently. I was deeply into my healing journey.
I looked back and see that I’ve really changed. I made it. I transformed myself! I healed. I AM WHOLE.
It’s not something that can be seen in the physical, but something that can be seen in the spirit.
I am the embodiment of gratitude, calmness, love, fearlessness, abundance and strength.
I had to learn to love myself a little bit more by changing people’s access to me.
Because I’ve been a thought leader since I was like 6 years old, was the black sheep fo the family, and have been on the internet forever, I was quite accustomed to dealing with abuse.
I was very understanding of people not liking my thoughts and ideas. Especially when they are bold and honest. I have a deep understanding that we are all different and put here to do different things on this earth. We are not all meant to think alike.
In my personal life I would quiet myself and accept everyone for themselves. Even if they were difficult to get along with I still loved them for them and accepted them without judgement.
But most of them did not give me that same unconditional love and acceptance in return. Instead they got upset at me if I gave them good advice. Because I interrupted their belief system. Many people want to play victim, instead of taking full accountability for their lives.
Recently, I decided to give those types less access to me. Period.
I get to love, value, accept and appreciate myself and the power of my thoughts, just like I give to everyone else.
I AM BRILLIANT.
That’s a big thing with heart-centered, Godly, anointed people like me. We need to wish for ourselves the same greatness, confidence, love and good life that we wish for everyone else.
We make excuses for everyone else, and then we turn around and be hard on ourselves. I’m not like that anymore.
On Instagram today, I happened to catch a notification of someone saying something, and I wondered which post they were commenting on because a few of my posts are currently going viral.
It was a post I made last year. One of my personal videos were I guess I offended people for saying that beautiful women don’t get all dolled up to go out for coffee dates.
That comment was attached to some thread of a woman saying that I wasn’t pretty and that my looks were all filters and the usual of claiming that I’m unmarried with no man and blah, blah, blah.
Anyway, it’s the same thing I’ve heard on the internet for years. Always something about my looks or my relationship status.
There were 3 such comments and I noticed that all 3 women were actually FOLLOWING ME.
I was like “Why are they following me if they don’t like me? That’s weird.”
So I blocked them.
They won’t have access to my content, my vibration nor my brilliance anymore. They are going to miss a shift because they are now blocked.
See my new level of self-love says that I choose a life filled with love, peace, prosperity and abundance. I don’t even feel any type of way about what people say about me. But at least now I feel worthy of blocking them.
Like I said, I notice how accepting I was of abuse. People not loving you, but being close to you is ABUSE of SELF if you allow it.
They give you little room to see your own greatness.
Many of you are gifted. But because your family members and friends don’t see it, you doubt yourself.
This is where I effortlessly change lives. I help you see who you truly are and embody the woman that GOD called you to be.
Complete Goddess Activation and transformation.
Anyway, that’s my ramble.
P,S. I also get to be kinder to others and less judgmental… See, the more you love and accept yourself, the more you will love and accept others. By loving me I get to help people at an even greater level.
Message: Embrace your journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Invest in yourself, seek guidance, and cultivate a mindset of abundance and self-love. Remember, by valuing and accepting yourself, you unlock your true potential to inspire and uplift others. Take the first step towards your transformation today.
Ready to unleash your potential and step into your power? Reach out for personalized coaching and guidance to embark on your journey of self-discovery and empowerment. Let’s elevate together, creating a life filled with love, peace, and prosperity.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Aug 19, 2023 |
I’ve been trying to get this file to upload and it won’t. Spirit told me to WRITE a blog and then it would upload. So here I am.
Today is a very special day in my life. I’ve embodied understanding and implementation of God’s greatness.
But this isn’t about me. This is about you.
I’ve been on this spiritual journey for 5-10years now. It was hard!!!! All of the toughness and resilience I’d built up over the years, I needed every ounce of it to keep going. God built me for this life, but at this moment I ask to be equipped better to withstand it.
Only the strong survives here on this earth.
Things are going to happen in life that you don’t like. Don’t take it personal. It’s not a sign to stop or give up. Unless you’re intuition is trying to stop you from doing something that really will hurt you. Hint: It’s out of alignment with your CHARACTER.
Self-Love is important AF. Just as important as work.
Your relationships are a reflection of the relationship you have with self. Nearly every judgement really does reflect you or show you how to stop judging.
You can’t do it all alone. So you may as well let Go and Let GOD.
God got you. Ask for what you want with reverence and expectation. That’s actually way easier than working hard. But easier said than done… Done cause God already said it’s done, but the work is believing it, in order to achieve it.
If you want love, go ahead and be love. No matter what, walk away from a person who can’t receive that REAL LOVE from you. Boundaries are everything. If you feel they are worth staying for, then you should have a good strategy and get assistance from someone like me. Your relationship problems WILL NOT be solved on it’s own without help. If they would, you would have the mate you want by now… Some people are a little more broken than others. Meaning you had a big heart and you got hurt. Or something in life hurt your soul and changed the way you feel about you.
Love requires worthiness. It’s really that simple. It also requires showing up for your person, because only your mama unconditionally loves you. Everyone else loves on condition that you fulfill their needs.
In fact, loving unconditionally is a sign of lack of SELF-LOVE.
No matter how far down the rabbit hole you go, or what your aim is, I’ve learned that it still and always goes right back to God.
In this second I must pause just to take it the grandeur of that statement. He really is all knowing and all being. Magnificent, like no other.
Do what you say you will for YOURSELF. Your word to YOURSELF is everything. You are worthy and deserving of keeping your word to treat yourself, well.
God bless.
Also, the lord told me to JUST STOP PROCRASTINATING today and I actually received the message.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Aug 19, 2022 |
This morning as I took some time to clean up my Facebook profile, read some of the comments from the more viral posts, something dawned on me.
Some of us spend so much time trying to help the poor. We start these missions to help the poor. But it’s the poor who rejects the wisdom and knowledge.
They say you can’t get rich by studying the poor. It is the wealthy who seek wisdom, knowledge and understanding.
Anyway, I suppose I had a bit of a Jesus syndrome. I imagine helping 22 million people and come up with all kind of creative ways to help people and to reach this number of lives changed.
For the past few months I did $33 LOVE calls instead of FREE strategy calls. It was genius to me. I booked more calls that way.
Anyway, I’ve been splashing the internet with knowledge for about a decade now.
I realize that 1. I’ve been creating my own strategies ever since I became a “life coach” instead of simply listening to God and implementing those strategies.
2. The revelation I received today is that it’s okay to be high ticket and expensive. For some people it’s simply not meant for everyone to access you. You deserve to be surrounded by only the best of the best.
This is such a cool learning process.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Dec 24, 2021 |
Yesterday I logged onto a few platforms to be helpful, and it was like it was Christmas.
Instead of me feeding into others as I intended, people fed into me. They thanked me for showing up and for everything that I do.
I’ll be honest. I needed that yesterday. I am an introvert who has always been very popular on the internet. In real life people are also drawn to me. I never TRIED to be popular online. I just was. Because I am always my authentic self, blazing with my heart first.
Over the years it wasn’t always easy to be me online. Many of you have seen the things that go on. I thought once I started to engage more positive people with purpose that those behaviors would be left behind.
But yesterday I came into a great deal of clarity about ME, due to the behavior of others. I’m the star. I always have been, probably will always be. It’s the way God created me.
When people see me, they want this crown. They want my power. They want my anointing. They want the GIFT that God gave me. They want this K.I.S.S.Y MAGIC. ✨ (Keep It Sexy Saavy & YOUnique)🔮 It’s okay to want those things, but the problem is some of those people try to compete with me. That’s when their character shows up. YOU’LL NEVER GET REAL LOVE FROM PEOPLE WHO WANT TO BE YOU. In fact, they will only get upset with you, because of it.
So now, me being an introvert makes perfect sense. I avoid people in order to keep my peace. For there is no one I would rather be than the highest version of Kissy Denise.
My journey as a WRITER, is my journey. I do the discovery part FOR ME. Not to impress others. I simply motivate you, because I want you to find your love, joy, happiness and prosperity too.
This message landed in my inbox this week. I want to say THANK YOU to everyone who continues to give me remarkable feedback. You keep me going and showing up for you and all of the lights who are being called, but having to shake some things off.
Sometimes us lights need warmth fed into us, the same way we are so wiling to feed it into thousands of others.
THOUSANDS….. I’ve changed thousands of lives. I don’t know if I ever dreamed of doing that when I was a little girl. All praise to The Most High.
Written with Love,
Kissy 💖✨😘
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Dec 16, 2021 |
GROWTH: Sometimes I write the most beautiful, motivational messages in the world, and some basic looking girl or man who hasn’t even hit 6 or 7 Figures will comment on my appearance.
I no longer respond. I simply hit block. But what’s hilarious, is that people actually expect me to be bothered by them attacking my BEAUTY on posts that were written to inspire them.
Sh*t. I dreamed of looking this damn fine as a little girl.
I guess others dreamed of looking basic, homeless and not noteworthy perhaps. I dreamed of being a famous author who wrote books that everyone loved.
I had my heart broken and got off my path so many times. So grateful to God and the people who spoke life into me and helped me get back on my path.
It’s weird though, you know, I say “Hey. I have a manifestation secret that will change your life.” Non rich people are like “FU B*Tch, you look good. I can’t stand you.” Meanwhile people who already make 6 and 7 figures be like “Kissy, where is the buy in button? How can I pay? Let’s Go!”
Basic looking people have this whole belief system that they love themselves more than others simply because they don’t look as good as others.
This is also why I don’t get along with men who don’t dress well. Give me the King who dreamed of having a tailored suit with pretty white teeth as a kid.
That kind of man can appreciate a Goddess. And the women who hate….. It’s amazing that their kids wake up to look at them every day as an average mother, instead a mother who despite all odds went after her goals and dreams.
People who truly love themselves want to be something greater than you are. You can’t sit still. You can’t remain the same. Average just won’t due.
People want to look at people like me in anger, not seeing that it’s their own black heart in the way of their success. Meanwhile, despite being beautiful, I maintain a beautiful, pure heart, full of the greatest love.”
People choose to not be love, when it’s the easiest thing in the world to choose.
Anyway, rant over. Message me to work with me 1 on 1 to show up authentically on social media, develop divine confidence and stop caring about what people think of you.
Working with me will heal your heart and change your life in ways you can’t even being to imagine. Doubling your income is only ONE of them. 😘
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 14, 2021 |
Just got done with a 2ND VIP HOT SEAT SESSION for my first ever Masterclass, $10K in a day or the $10,000 in 30 Days MASTERCLASS. It’s my first masterclass and I almost cried.
Why did I almost cry? Because I happily saw the bright future of a room full of beautiful divine feminine souls who are already changing, impacting and prospering millions of lives on this earth.
The international speaker and author Dr. Amy Rucker came through and gave out $100,000 business strategies.
I read a post by @Katrina Ruth too and got over about the last of my b.s. about showing up. I get this SHOW thing now in a whole new way.
So much so that I came over here to write a blog, for my loyal readers who read everything I write. I apologize for neglecting you as I apologize to my soul for rejecting my craft.
You came into this world to coach, speak or write. But half the time you don’t know what’s right. Even though it’s always right or whatever, because you really can’t lose with God, when you’re on your purpose. You only have to get it done.
As I help many other women get things done, I think about the women who help me get it done. Women should be kinder to female coaches, speakers and writers. Especially those of us who aren’t trying to compete with you, but instead greet you and help you see how good life is. We’re changing the world, as we change ourselves into better leaders of today and tomorrow.
Anyways, I’m getting more into the THING that I came here to do. The vision is getting clearer and clearer. I’m happier and in a state of gratitude.
The picture be the picture the whole time. That part doesn’t change. You only have to change how you implement, when and how much, and in what direction your energy will flow.
Right now my energy is flowing towards a paid vacation.
My gratitude right now is this Kissylation “Stop working so hard for the wrong things. Of course you’re going to put in the work. But work on the right things.”
Gratitude for the revelation. 🙏
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Oct 17, 2021 |
Today is Sunday October 17th of the year 2021. I buried my little brother 2 days ago, and nothing has been the same since.
The past 3 years I’ve went through year after year of body shocking awakenings to who I am on this earth and what’s going on. But after my brother left, I shifted into a new deep, divine state of awareness.
This time it’s so pure and vivid the realization that I wonder how have I been on this earth so long without knowing these things…
These things that divine masculine men and my divine feminine mentor/bestie have been guiding me into for oh so long.
Today I woke up and I knew I was home again. Back in the castle with God where I feel safe again. Where I have clarity and know exactly what I’m doing and WHY.
But before we get into the WHY, I want to say something to you.
You don’t have to go to die in order to go to Heaven.
Sometimes you can and will get tired of your earthly experience when sh*t isn’t working out for you. Sometimes it seems like you’re at a dead end and there is no turn back. That’s when you’re caught in the 3D world. In God’s world everything is figureoutable.
Losing your WHY or getting off track, will decrease your DESIRE in the right area.
Lack of FAITH will have you off your WHY.
Being off your why will have you lacking in gratitude, wasting your time in dead-end relationships, not knowing your worth, being open to listening to too many others, throwing spaghetti at the wall and getting frustrated with God likes he’s the problem, and really it’s all you.
And even though it’s all you, the whole time God is constantly giving you hints putting you back on track to what YOU SAID you WANT.
It’s your dream, yet here God is helping YOU to manifest it.
When we as divine humans lack gratitude it’s because we are deeply disconnected from God, even if for a brief moment.
Anyway, my WHY finally became clear to me this morning, and I remembered two important moments in my life where I made decisions.
I can see now how God is always giving us exactly what we want. We simply get off the path.
Today ask yourself WHY do you want to do that? Then ask yourself WHY again, and again, and again.
Let the Universe take you where you want to go. The answers are always there within you.
To get help on accessing your divine clarity, tap in with me.
Sidenote: I feel very proud of myself. I am proud of myself. This is more healing for me. As I am a perfectionist, and have battled in the past with feeling like I am doing enough. I am proud of myself for finally hearing God’s voice enough to clearly see the direction he’s been guiding me in.
And I can also tell you that many of things that happened to me in the past, many of the mistakes I made or the roads I went down, had to happen, for this very moment, to be prepared for the job God has called me too. It’s really unique and only I can do it.