Why Becoming A Spiritual Life Coach Is The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Done

Why Becoming A Spiritual Life Coach Is The Hardest Thing I’ve Ever Done

There are 3 different life coaches.
 
1. A regular life coach
2. An enlightened / spiritual life coach
3. Someone who becomes a life coach or creates a course just to make money.
 
One and three have a very easy job. They are easily able to detach from the results of their clients.
 
But the spiritual life coach, almost seems as though that person willingly casts themselves into the fire in the name of helping others. For the spiritual life coach, the money is just one aspect. The deeper aspect is that they feel called to do this work and responsible for changing lives. They walk around with great heaviness. Many even walk around without hiring millionaire spiritual coaches to help them through the process. (That’s insanity) They think they will figure it out themselves… And they just may after 20 years of going in circles.
 
This job is no joke.
 
First you have to submit yourself to God, or source if that’s what you want to call it. Me personally regardless of what the world says and how they try to strip everything down to science, at the end of the day it’s pretty much common sense that there is a God. You plant a seed and trees grow. Flowers blossom. The sun comes up to shine every morning. Humans have sex and create little babies that grow into adults with complex organs and multiple things going on in the body… Obviously there is a high power operating in this Universe.
 
And because I once cried out to God on the bathroom floor and started making 6 Figures the next day, you can’t tell me God doesn’t exist. I’ve also prayed many times and he came through.. When he didn’t come through when I wanted him to, I didn’t like that very much. But Tis life. I’ve learned that the delay is simply due to me needing to learn more lessons first. God loves us and does things for our good.
 
I’m not trying to explain bad things that happen.. Cause obviously some things just happen and no it’s not to the good. But that’s not my lane of speciality.
 
Now back to what I was saying. Becoming a spiritual life coach is like willingly punishing yourself in the name of humanity. It’s like allowing yourself to be crucified, later to be risen from the dead.
 
Your DNA is literally broken down and upgraded. Your mind is recoded. Process after process. Your heart becomes more empathetic. You start seeing life a new way.
 
You go from communicating by words and actions to communicating by energy. Many times you vibrate so high you don’t even realize what dimension you’ve warped into.
 
I looked up one day and I was surrounded by brilliant people. We’ve gone way past the nerd stage and the smart stage. The way our brains download from source, compute and process at warp speed is quite remarkable.
 
Often I talk about myself from the inside in.
 
As a Spiritual Transformation Coach / Manifestation Guru / Social Media & Branding Goddess and all of the other things that I am, I find myself coaching some of the most amazing people in the world.
 
They are doctors, lawyers, psychiatrists, brilliant millionaire coaches, pastors, and very powerful people.
 
Wealthy, powerful people are drawn to me like moths to a flame… What do I do to attract them? Not much other than simply be myself.
 
People often inbox me and ask to send me donations… They ask me if they can get a consultation from me for things I don’t even advertise. People literally ask to pay me every day. (It took an insane amount of work and consistency to make that happen amongst other things.)
 
When I help people it’s as if the clouds of confusion are lifted. They see life differently after speaking to me or working with me. Their belief level increases. Their confidence increases.
 
Even the people who don’t work with me and just watch me on social media or join my free groups become altered by my presence.
 
I’m a healer. Simply being in my frequency heals souls. But I realize now that I must be responsible with my super powers. For some people who don’t work with me, end up watching me and get overly-confident.
 
So they never buy in, because they think they have it all figured out. But it doesn’t work like that. You literally HAVE to get a coach and do the WORK. The work of recoding your DNA and getting new wealth download codes.
 
You see the spiritual coaches who suffer the most are the ones who are pinned down by religion and poverty mindset. They believe that God put them here to be poor. Chances are they’ve never read the bible for themselves. I’ve read it several times and once I realized that the Kings wore royal purple garbs, had jewels, property, and all the money they wanted on top of blessings, well I just knew I belonged to that royal family. So the parts of the bible in Ecclessiates that says someone has to be poor, well I just knew that person wasn’t me. However so many people claim that “story.”
 
Anyway, most coaches never break the 6 Figure mark, let alone making 7 figures. It’s all due to not having their belief system upgraded and not clearing their money mindset. 

Coaching people is super easy for coaches like me. I can literally give people a life altering transformation in an hour. But I want to give them more than that. I want to equip them with a system to gain wealth and live in their purpose at the same time..  Which means becoming a life coach for most. 

Lately I think one of my purposes on earth is to help the life coaches and come up with an easy, step by step process to help them spiritually transform, transform souls and become an online marketer at the same time.   While it sounds so simple THAT IS A LOT! 

Before entering life coaching you may actually feel like you’re as close to perfect as they come. You enter the world thinking it’s about to be easy, breezy and then lo and behold you are called to face your shadows.

Your shadows will make you cry like a bish! You’ll say, BUT, BUT, BUT… Then you’ll suffer going against it, fighting against the necessary change. Until one day you just give up, and suddenly you’re in the flow. And you laugh…  Was it really that easy the whole time? Maybe. Maybe not. 

I’m thankful for all of the insanity I went through, so that when brilliant people come to me wanting to do a million and one things like become a life coach, start a blog, grow their following, develop world-wide influence, speak on stages, write a book, spiritually evolve and build a million dollar brand, I can actually help those multi-passionate people do all of those things. 

As a visionary and a Prophetess (yet another title) I get so many downloads to help my clients… 

Just to touch on the title thing, I dislike titles. But people identify with titles. It’s only a problem when you’re like me and one title simply isn’t enough to describe you… Like people also called me Queen and Goddess. I am definitely the Goddess of Love, yet I’m so much more than that, while at the same time it’s the core of what I stand for. 
 
I love my clients like I love myself. I want the best for them.  It’s best when you become a life coach that you find your niche whom you understand so that you can love them into divinity.  For it actually takes love and nurturing to transform great souls who want everything they came here for. 

Anyway, as a blogger (and people often ask me how to get started blogging) this is one of those blogs that I just randomly typed out my thoughts. I’m throwing it out there on the inter webs where it will sit. Maybe this blog doesn’t make sense. Maybe it does. Maybe it’s one of the most powerful things I’ve ever wrote. Maybe it sucks. I don’t know and don’t care.  I just write. That’s how you get started on anything. You just do. 

However I have also mastered my craft. So if I really wanted to intentionally write a dope, mind blowing blog I could do just that.  But it’s not about being serious all the time. Sometimes it’s simply about flow. 

But sometimes I just write. It may help someone.. 
You see even when I’m writing about me, it’s not about me… 

So now that I’ve finally got through the valley of the shadow of death, I will say the the process of transformation from caterpillar to butterfly is not for the weak. But when you make it through omgosh, you become such a beautiful soul. Your light shines so bright that people can see it from miles away.  When you make it through and bring other souls with you, nobody can tell you nothing.  You’ve officially became a great master and learned how to control your life and give life to others. 

The entire process has made me extremely grateful. Sometimes I find myself crying happy tears for how far God has brought me. How far I’ve brought myself, and how God amplified the vision 10 times greater than I could ever see. 

One thing for certain, you don’t know what God has in store for you. But if you are smart you will put one foot in front of the other, and go find out. 
People will always hate you for being great

People will always hate you for being great

I’ve been on the internet so long, that I could be like good ole Bush and say I invented it.

I’ve been a model, a Facebook advocate, a celebrity blogger and now a life coach. In each position my purpose was and still is a a great desire to help others live their best life.

But no matter if I showed up as my bold, brave, super-confident, feisty self, or remained cool and humble, there would be haters on the other side. Now that I’ve ascended to light, I feel some empathy for the dark souls who attempt to tear others down or stop people from having an opinion.  At the same time, I don’t. For while I can take all the sticks and stone thrown at me and have built a beautiful empire with each cherry brick, other people aren’t so strong.

I watched a coach in my friends list break down crying last night, because of someone online bullying her. This woman is beautiful on the inside and the outside. She speaks of God, and has a mission to uplift others.

I made it my business to uplift her and tell her she’s awesome.

I get attacks too. I ban people from one Facebook page and they then move to my other pages, and then create fake pages to pester me after that. It’s insanity. You would think I was a celebrity on tv already.  Sometimes they even come back years later like  “Hi Kissy.” trying to be friends. You know why? Because I never stop slaying. I rise!

I still remember my first obsessed superfan. He would send me thousands of dollars and go out of his way to spy on me online. Good ole Tonio… At the time i wondered why anyone would be so obsessed with a normal human being. But people being obsessed with me became the norm over the years. You don’t have to be a celebrity or be on tv to be great. You already are who you are. All a celebrity is, is someone who has millions of people who celebrate them. However social media influencers now have that same power.  You’re not great if it doesn’t come with hate.  Beyonce gets hated on, so does Oprah, Ellen Degenres and Jesus. Why should you be any different?

Take it from me, there is no point of being super nice hoping people will like you. People who are for you will love you regardless.  Your true tribe recognizes your value.  My following is cult-like. If you mess with me, that might come for your throat. They don’t play about their Kissy Denise.  You see on the other side of specs of hate are loads of love from people who live, value and appreciate you.

Stand in your power. There is no other option. Even if you try not to, the universe will smack you. Please stop wasting your time worrying about what these people think of you. Please stop hiding your gifts because you’re afraid of the attacks. God gave you a voice, a vision and a purpose. People are crying, on the bathroom floor crying, stressed out, looking for answers that God has placed inside of you.

The moment you stop being afraid to speak truths they need to hear, yes haters will come at your throat, for forcing them to think and see a new truth, that goes against who they believed they  were. Opening people’s eyes causes them to become furious. It’s a fight or flight defense.

Being a public figure light worker is a humble job. It almost feels sacrificial. That’s why you must have bullet-proof confidence before you step out into the battle field to do the job God called you to do. Submit to God, not to the haters. Don’t cower. Become more powerful. Otherwise you will allow them to talk you out of your destiny. (It gets better.)

Every time I even try to humble my ego like society says, people start picking at me, reminding me of who TF I AM.

Social media is my playground. Brand after brand, after brand. No matter what brand I build, they will come, because I stay authentic. I honestly thought I would be mostly ignored by haters as a life coach. But greatness is never ignored darling. 💜 A star is a star no matter what you do. You can never stop being you.

Your power and gifting is 100% inside of you. It’s not outside of you. Make yourself so irresistible that even your haters can’t get enough of you. Star power is money power. You create wealth by being your brand.

Keep slaying  with knowledge, love, light and truth.

Everything you go through, is all preparation…. Preparation for a bigger stage. It’s not happening to you, it’s happening for you and will serve your greater good.

And remember: Everything you want is on the other side of fear. I promise it’s better on the other side.

Written with Love,

Kissy 😘

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