Why You Should Never Let Your Man Walk Around With A Big Belly

Why You Should Never Let Your Man Walk Around With A Big Belly

Ladies, if your man is going out into the world, working hard, paying all of your bills, loving you, being kind to you, and being faithful to you, and he’s MARRIED TO YOU, you are responsible to cook healthy meals, or hire a dietician, motivate him and encourage him to go to the gym, get a personal trainer, and eat healthy.

This is a human life we’re talking about. Don’t forget to not only be his lover, but also be his friend. You want to keep him around forever.

HEALTH IS WEALTH.

You really are his SEEING EYE. 👁

Real love is doing right by him. Not just feeding him what he wants. Get creative. This is also why 50/50 relationships tend to backfire and so do matching bellies. Too busy focused on SELF. Not enough time to commit to HE and WE. ❤

Serve his SOUL. Not just his heart and mind.

I mean you’re the closest thing to him.  If he doesn’t have you to look out for him, what does he really have?

MEN, this is HOW you mess up. The woman who is on your azz loves you at an entirely different level. It’s not about HER. But you run from her, because she challenges you.

Why catches husband kissing another woman while on vacation.

What are your thoughts?  Drop them in the comments. 👇👇👇

Here are the comments that inspired this post. 

big belly stomach man

Now, before you run off being a good woman, taking away his salt, and replacing it with sea salt or a powder.  That does NOT mean that he will appreciate it.  Some men will go off if you try to adjust his dietary intake.  Which is really a sign of something else.

Wife catches husband kissing another woman, while on vacation

Wife catches husband kissing another woman, while on vacation

The saying is don’t cheat yourself, treat yourself.  But in this case the husband must’ve thought the saying was don’t cheat yourself by not treating yourself.

A husband was caught on camera cheating, treating and having the best time ever, while his wife was on vacation.

A TikTok user says she caught her husband cheating on her after inspecting footage taken by their doorbell security camera.

Kaylie Kristina — known on the social media app as @kaylie271 — shared shocking footage from the camera purportedly showing her spouse sneaking his scantily-clad mistress out of their marital home back in October.

“When your husband is too sick to go on the family trip you planned,” Kristina captioned the initial clip.

@kaylie271#cheater #garbage #fyp♬ original sound – Kay

The black and white footage, taken slightly after 10 p.m., suggests that the man and his mistress have just enjoyed a secret tryst inside the family residence.

The man is seen bidding the woman farewell on the front steps of the home, sharing a tender kiss and squeezing her derrière.

The woman is wearing only a t-shirt and a tiny pair of shorts as she holds her car keys and waves goodbye after locking lips.

Kristina added the hashtags “#cheater” and “#garbage” to the incriminating footage.

The devastated wife first shared the footage to her TikTok account two months ago, where it quickly went viral and was viewed more than 5 million times.

“He thought the camera was disabled,” Kristina wrote in the comments section, explaining her husband’s brazen behavior. She added that her beau had even installed the security device himself.

“Locks have been changed and he no longer resides here,” she posted several days later.

Kristina hasn’t let her spouse back in the house in the intervening months, recently re-sharing the doorbell camera clip.

She also posted a video update in response to a follower who asked whether she has forgiven her unfaithful husband.

“Yes he has been apologizing to me, but I don’t think any apology is ever going to be good enough,” Kristina declared. “I don’t think I can ever be at a point where I can be like, ‘It’s okay,’ because it wasn’t okay.”

Well ladies, we have a revelation. If the n*gga ain’t going on vacation with you, cause he faked the flu, then boo boo, let your doorbell camera beseech you.

Most Women Are Okay With Not Being A Man’s Dream Mate, As Long As Money Is Involved

Most Women Are Okay With Not Being A Man’s Dream Mate, As Long As Money Is Involved

Saw this post of one of my male Facebook friends, and reading the comments wasn’t surprising at all.

“QUESTION: Ladies… Would You Marry Your Soul Mate Without A Ring & A Wedding? He Says Let’s Go The Courthouse To Get Married Privately, Take This Ring & Wedding Money And Buy Two 3-Flat Buildings.”

Of course most of the women said they would happily take the offer.

When it comes to relationships, most women will take anything other than their dream, as long as money is involved. ~ Kissy Denise 

No ring, no wedding, but at least he’ll give her property. 

Not every woman came to have it all.  

In fact, most women are okay with not being a man’s dream woman, as long as money is involved.

Offer her $100,000 in leu of a ring, or wedding, and she’s happy with that.

Heck, a majority of women would be happy to also not get the $100,000, nor a ring, nor a wedding and simply be happy with making it official at the courthouse.

Some women actually don’t care about a big wedding, it wasn’t their dream. So when they get married at the courthouse they are simply doing what their soul authentically desires to do.

One thing for certain, soulmates give you what you want.

THE PROBLEM

The bigger issue I see with this, is, many men are quick to call the woman who knows what she wants, a gold digger. But what do you call the woman who is willing to throw her dreams in the trash for whatever financial rewards she’ll reap from a man?

Somehow, men call that LOVE.

I love the women who said NO, to the question, because they came to have it all. Self-love is real love.

Lastly, one thing I know about REAL high value men is that when he meets his dream woman, he doesn’t want her to take any shorts. He actually wants her to have it all.  Ask me how I know.