by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Jun 3, 2023 |
When it comes to relationships we have a tendency to blame everything on men. After all, they are leaders of this world.
However, not every man is a terrible man. Some men are good for you or desire to be good to you. I call those REAL MEN.
When a woman on the journey meets a real man, she is suddenly introduced to her REAL ISSUES.
Before that time period she may blame men for everything, because in her life everything does appear to be the man’s fault.
A true embodiment of masculinity goes beyond simply being supportive; a real man empowers you by helping you recognize and embrace areas of personal growth. His sincere desire is to witness you become the best version of yourself, even if it entails undergoing uncomfortable shifts and transformations. In these moments, he stands by your side, providing unwavering support to nurture your growth. (That is if you don’t push him away with your trauma or strong independent woman hysterics.)
Unlocking the Gateway to Divine Love
Within the depths of your being lies a powerful gateway, an exquisite connection to the realm of Divine Love. This gateway is none other than your feminine nervous system. When she is in a state of blissful harmony, purring with contentment, and radiating safety, you become a magnetic force, effortlessly attracting and receiving the blessings of love into your life.
Embracing the sacred essence of your femininity, you tap into the profound energy that resides within. Like a delicate hummingbird, your feminine nervous system hums with vitality, synchronizing your mind, body, and spirit. In this state of alignment, you become the most receptive and alluring version of yourself.
When your feminine nervous system is nourished and cared for, it sends ripples of joy throughout your being, transforming your aura into a radiant magnet. The divine energy of love flows through you, filling every corner of your existence. You become a vessel, ready to welcome the abundance of love that the universe has in store for you.
Nurturing your feminine nervous system is a sacred practice. It requires gentle attention, self-care, and a deep commitment to your own well-being. By honoring this part of yourself, you create a sanctuary of safety and serenity. Your nervous system responds with gratitude, opening the doors to deep healing, profound transformation, and an expansive capacity to receive the love you deserve.
As you embrace the fullness of your feminine power, you become a beacon of light, drawing in the love and adoration of others. Your presence is magnetic, captivating hearts with your authenticity, grace, and vulnerability. The energy of Divine Love flows effortlessly through you, illuminating your path and infusing every aspect of your life with its enchanting radiance.
Remember, dear soul, that your feminine nervous system is a precious gift, a divine channel through which love can flow abundantly. Cherish and nurture this sacred gateway, for within it lies the key to experiencing the profound depths of Divine Love. Embrace the humming, purring, and happiness of your feminine essence, and watch as the world responds to the irresistible magnetism that emanates from your very being.
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Jun 3, 2023 |
Unveiling the Mystery: 5 Reasons Men May Be Hesitant to Commit
In the world of relationships, there can be moments of confusion and uncertainty. You may have found yourself wondering why some men seem hesitant to take the plunge into marriage. Rest assured, beautiful soul, that the reasons behind this hesitation varies from man to man. In this blog post, we will delve into the depths of this mystery, shedding light on five common reasons why men may be reluctant to walk down the aisle.
- Fear of Losing Independence: For some men, the idea of marriage may bring forth concerns about losing their freedom and autonomy. They may fear that committing to a lifelong partnership means sacrificing their individuality. It’s important to acknowledge these fears and have open conversations about finding a balance between personal space and shared commitment.
- Timing and Life Goals Misalignment: Timing plays a significant role in any relationship. Men, just like women, may have personal and professional goals they want to achieve before settling down. It’s crucial to recognize that men may desire to establish a stable foundation before taking the next step. Communication and understanding each other’s timelines and aspirations can pave the way for a more harmonious relationship.
- Previous Heartbreak and Emotional Baggage: Past experiences shape our perception of relationships. Men who have experienced heartbreak or gone through challenging breakups may carry emotional wounds that make them wary of committing again. It’s essential to foster an environment of trust and understanding, allowing both partners to heal and grow together.
- Fear of Divorce and Commitment Issues: The fear of divorce and commitment issues can haunt both men and women. Society’s portrayal of failed marriages and the potential financial and emotional consequences can create apprehension. By creating a safe space for open dialogue, addressing concerns, and nurturing a strong foundation of trust, it is possible to navigate these fears together.
- Uncertainty about Compatibility and Future Happiness: Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and it’s natural for men to want assurance that they have found a compatible partner with whom they can build a fulfilling future. Both partners should invest time in understanding each other’s values, goals, and visions for the future. Building a strong emotional connection and fostering shared dreams can help alleviate doubts and strengthen the bond.
Understanding the reasons behind men’s hesitation to marry is crucial for cultivating healthy and thriving relationships. It’s not your job to wait on a man, to try to change him or make him see. However, by acknowledging their concerns and fears, fostering open communication, and nurturing a deep connection, we can create an environment where both partners feel secure, valued, and ready to embark on the beautiful journey of marriage. Remember, each individual is unique, and it is through empathy, understanding, and mutual respect that we can bridge the gap and build lasting love.
LOVE really isn’t as complicated as people make it out to be. It’s the PEOPLE that are complicated. As a bonus, I’m going to give you women more to go on.
A SINGLE WOMAN’S TRUTH
When it comes to relationships, the internet is mostly ran by short quotes, short videos and memes. People love to share things that resonate with them. After all, having your thoughts consummated feels good to the soul.
This post for example.
5 Reasons Men Don’t See WIFE Written All Over You
Memes blaming the opposite sex for your problems are great for the internet, but not good for your love life.
I believe that self-accountability as a woman and knowing yourself is your greatest asset along with loving yourself. In order to fully love yourself you must get to know both your light and darkness and fall in love with yourself as a whole.
Knowing who my readers are, here are some insightful questions to ask yourself in relation to you achieving the relationship you’ve always dreamed of.
✅ Are you picking men who can’t read or are you not reading yourself?
✅ Are you self-sabotaging, hitting the eject button when a man tries to get close to you and love you? Are you afraid to be loved or fully claimed by a man?
✅ Does LOVE make you panic?
✅ Are you practicing masculine behaviors that turn masculine men off? (In case you didn’t notice, feminine quality men are not providing or claiming any woman, most of the time or he’s acting in a dense, obnoxious, callous or defensive way towards the woman he claims to love, because he believes that’s masculinity. (it’s not.) Or they are single and complaining about women, as they go from woman to woman.)
✅ Are you not aligning yourself with marriage quality men?
✅ Are you having sex before marriage, giving your all, and allowing men to get bored with you because he has what he wants?
✅ Are you moving too fast with men?
✅ Do you lack boundaries?
In my experience women who are lights are far ahead of their time. Men can’t see your light, because you can’t see your light. But they can sense there is something special about you and they are drawn to you.
However, when you are a light, men actually feel that you are worthy of being taken care of and provided for. So if you place yourself around men who are not financially stable, they won’t recognize you as a wife. When you take accountability for how you are showing up in the world, you will get what you want a lot faster.
Read the Article: Your Feminine Nervous System: Unlocking the Gateway to Divine Love
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | May 12, 2023 |
Many women tell a man they want a relationship and end up pushing him away. There is a better way for women to get what they want from men.
In building a healthy and fulfilling relationship, communication and authenticity play crucial roles. While it’s true that you shouldn’t have to explicitly tell a man that you want a relationship with him, focusing on being the kind of woman who commands respect and commitment can greatly influence the dynamics.
Instead of resorting to telling a man outright, strive to embody qualities that make it clear you deserve a partner who values and cherishes you. Show up as a confident, self-assured individual who knows her worth. This sends a powerful message that you won’t settle for anything less than a genuine, committed connection.
When you emphasize being the best version of yourself, it creates a magnetic energy that naturally attracts the right kind of partner. By focusing on personal growth, self-care, and pursuing your own passions, you become an irresistible force that captures the attention and interest of men who are ready for a meaningful relationship.
While it may be tempting to tell a man that you want a relationship in an effort to speed up the process, it’s important to consider the potential consequences. Openly expressing your desires can sometimes create a sense of pressure or imbalance in the early stages of dating, potentially pushing him away or making him feel overwhelmed.
Instead, allow the relationship to unfold naturally, giving both parties the opportunity to invest emotionally and build a strong foundation of trust and connection. When you foster an environment of mutual respect and genuine interest, a man who recognizes your value will be inspired to pursue you and take you off the market willingly.
Remember, the power to create a fulfilling relationship lies within you. By embodying your self-worth and being patient, you position yourself for a partnership based on genuine desire and commitment. Trust the process, stay true to yourself, and let your actions speak louder than words.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Apr 29, 2023 |
First off, so that women who this isn’t for, won’t be offended, it’s important to note that not all women necessarily want to keep a man or prioritize being in a relationship, and that’s perfectly okay.
However, for those who do want to live in your truth, address this issue and improve their ability to want to keep a man, let’s get it Sis!
There are some women who find it extremely difficult to want to keep a man. For these women, maintaining a long-term relationship or being committed to a partner is a challenging task. You try, but men annoy you so much by doing things, that your desire to keep a man is not an innate or natural inclination, but instead a rather a difficult choice to make.
This is due to a certain state of awareness.
Here are a 4 steps you can take to improve your awareness and land in your dream relationship:
- Reflect on your past experiences: Sometimes, our reluctance to commit or maintain a relationship can be influenced by our past experiences, such as heartbreak or trauma. Reflecting on these experiences and seeking professional help if needed can help you identify and address any underlying issues.
- Focus on building emotional connection: Sometimes, women may struggle with wanting to keep a man because they don’t feel emotionally connected to them. Focusing on building emotional intimacy and communication can help you feel more invested in the relationship.
- Work on personal growth: Personal growth and self-improvement can also help women feel more confident and fulfilled in their relationships. This could involve pursuing hobbies or interests, developing new skills, or addressing any personal issues or insecurities.
- Communicate with their partner: If a woman is struggling with wanting to keep a man, it’s important to communicate openly and honestly with their partner about their feelings and concerns. Working together to address any issues or concerns can help strengthen the relationship and build trust.
Overall, there are many factors that can contribute to a woman’s difficulty in wanting to keep a man, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution. However, by reflecting on their experiences, building emotional connection, working on personal growth, and communicating with their partner, women can take steps towards addressing this issue and improving their ability to want to keep a man.
Now God loves you, so I’m going to give you some extra game today.
If you are my Goddess tribe, you already did 1 and 3. It’s time for you to focus on 2 and 4 MORE. The reason it’s important for you to build on the emotional and intellectual connection is because you are a perfectionist and a sapiosexual. Baby, you are only turned on by a WHOLE man, not half a man.
In order for you to be WHOLLY attracted to a man you must know what pleases you and come into alignment with the wholeness of YOU.
When you shift into divine feminine Goddess your soul becomes aligned to God Kings. Anything less is a waste of your time.
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Apr 22, 2023 |
It’s not that black men want their woman to struggle financially.
It’s that you DATE/ATTRACT black men who aren’t providers.
Black men who do provide tend to be older and high frequency.
If you’re dating a 33-year-old entrepreneur even when he’s enlightened, chances are he’s still looking for a “helpmate” as in someone to build an empire with and he believes a hard working, money getting woman will do.
He hasn’t dated enough strong, powerful, drop dead gorgeous black women who told him that they didn’t need him for sh*t yet.
It may take him another 10+ years before he understands the balance of masculinity and femininity. As most of his friends are masculine women…. That’s who he gets advice from.
Also when you are dating a hood dude, femininity does not work on them most times. In fact they will exploit it.
It’s not hard to decide what kind of man you want, and eliminate immediately any man who is not that.
You’re not forced to be single. Nor are you forced to settle for less. But you are forced to level up, and stand on what you believe in.
If you don’t believe in 50/50 stop doing it. Stop accepting it.
But just know that masculine men who provide most times have FEMININE REQUIREMENTS that they want you to meet as a woman.
Are you really ready to be that? Are you truly ready to heal at a deep level? Are you ready to be vulnerable?
If not, you won’t be able to match his vibration.
Frankly it may be easier for you to just be the masculine woman, get money, tell men what to do, and do you.
There is literally someone for everyone.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Apr 18, 2023 |
Marques Houston, 41, continues to get himself in hot water, with his fans and single mothers too.
The internet in generally is turned off by Houston, after he obtusely gave further details on his decision to marry a woman half his age.
According to Houston, his wife, Miya Houston, who is 19 years younger than him is everything the entertainer ever wanted in a “woman.”
Recently the actor sat down with Page Six and explained that dating women his age may come with too much “baggage.”
Marques Houston Revealed His “Red Flag” Regarding “Single Mothers”
According to Page Six, Houston explained that one of his “red flags” includes “single mothers with children.”
“A red flag to me [was] always with a woman that had a kid. Nothing against single women, but single mothers with children are a red flag for me.”
Houston explained that he tips his hat and respects women “raising children on their own.” However, growing up, he “never really wanted to have kids.”
Additionally, he explained his father advised him that if he was going to have kids, he should do so with a woman who also does not have children.
“I would talk to my dad a lot, and he would always tell me to have your own kids because you never know what the baby daddy‘s are about. So if you’re gonna have kids, make sure it is with a woman that never had kids. So that was always my red flag… and a woman with an attitude. I don’t like women with funky attitudes.”
Marques Houston Explains Why He Avoided Marrying A Woman His Age
Houston, who is 41, went on to acknowledge his marriage to 22-year-old Miya Houston. Additionally, he explained why he did no choose to marry a woman in his age range.
“Women that are my age… they kind of have a different outlook on life. Like a lot of women my age are very independent. They are very like, ‘I don’t need a man to do this for me ’cause I can do it for myself.’ I come from a generation that I love to provide for my wife.”
Furthermore, he explained why his wife was the perfect match for him.
“There’s a lot of women my age I’ve dated, they may have baggage. They may have kids, they may not. There’s so many different women I’ve been with throughout my life, and it just so happens to be that this one [Miya] caught my heart. Everything that I prayed for — and everything that I wanted in a woman — she came with…”
Houston admitted that even though his wife “was young,” he is “young in spirit.”
“Although she was young, I’m young in spirit.”
Marques Houston Explains That Receiving Criticism Is Normal In His World
During the interview, Houston explained that he’s used to “critics” weighing in on his dating preferences. He explained that the public’s opinions are something he’s had to deal with since he was a former singer in the group Immature.
“In the Immature days, we [would] have light-skinned girls in our music videos. Then people would question… ‘Why can’t you get a black girl?’ And then it’s like, ‘Oh yeah, I only like light-skinned girls.’ Then the plus-size girls will come and get me. I was like, ‘Man, I can’t catch a break.’”
Marques Houston married Miya Houston in August 2020. The actor was 38 years old, and Miya Houston was 19. The couple shares one child.
There are a lot of single mother’s will become offended by his opinion. But not offended by becoming a single mother.
While not all men think like Marques, some do. It’s totally okay for a man to desire to have a fresh family with a woman. Nevermind the fact that at some point they will probably break up and she will be a single mother, dating other men.
In addition, it’s quite obvious that Marques wanted a gullible woman he could easily mold and control. There is no other way around it. Men love to come up with all of these excuses as to why they are dating teenagers, but it is what it is.
Not many people are feeling Houston right now.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Apr 17, 2023 |
While a new season of Love & Hip Hop is being filmed and of course they need clownery acts to promote the new episodes, Erica Mena isn’t taking any of that into consideration.
Despite being part of Love & Hip Hop, Mena went off when she found out her ex-husband/father of her two children, Safaree Samuels gifted co-star Amara La Negra’s twins with diamond studded Rolex watches for their birthday.
Mena accused Safaree of caring more for his step-daddy duties than he cares for his own flesh and blood.
As promotion footage of the birthday party spilled onto social media, Erica slid into the comment section on The Shade Room to react to Safaree’s ‘stepdaddy’ gifts.
Erica wrote:
“Awe, so cute. It’s just very interesting how my kids have NEVER received gifts like this by this waste man. My daughter just turned 3. All she got was a birthday cake and a few balloons in his living room. And please don’t get me started on how he didn’t do anything for my son’s 1st birthday until two weeks after the fact. And again, that was just balloons in his living room. But happy every enjoyed this circus themed birthday part with a deadbeat clown as the special guest.”
Surprisingly Erica did not comment on the shocking kiss that La Negra and Safaree shared.
Social media users expected La Negra to have children by a man that would be present in her life. They expected her to actually be a Goddess. Instead they are quite disappointed by La Negra’s decisions with men.
You can read more about this story at The Shade Room
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Apr 11, 2023 |
Society has a major misconception that if a woman is married she knows what she is doing when it comes to relationships.
This is quite often not true. As relationships are quite complex and require emotional understanding.
Many women often put up with a lot of trauma and drama for the sake of keeping a man, at the cost of happiness of everyone in the household.
In the case of Tausha Haight, by the time she was ready to end her toxic marriage, her husband was far too gone into into his chosen life perspective of believing he no longer had control over his own life, wife, happiness or marriage.
In January, Michael Haight, 42, of Utah, shot and killed his wife, Tausha Haight, 40, Tausha Height’s mother, Gail Earl, 78, and the couple’s five children: a 4-year-old boy, a 7-year-old boy, a 7-year-old girl, a 12-year-old girl, and a 17-year-old girl. After that, he killed himself, leaving a suicide letter that blamed everything on his wife.
The massacre came weeks after Tausha Haight filed for divorce from her husband, was a devoted Mormon and an insurance agent who had recently been fired from All State.
In a suicide letter recently released by the Police Department, Michael referenced his faith and work ethic – and the apparent discord those parts of his life have caused his marriage.
“I’ve been complained about every step of the way that I work too much, put my church calling before my wife and on and on and on,” Michael Haight wrote. “She has been so awful to me and my family for years and I have generally been patient trying to work through her issues with my family, our kids, neighbors, ward members and others who don’t make her the center of attention. This is nonsense and I can’t handle it for one more day. We will not be a burden on society. I kept asking for help and you wouldn’t listen.”
The missive goes on to express a preference for death over the continued life he and his family were leading.
“I can not believe that God has allowed the person who should be the closest to me in the world to fault find, gossip and disparage me at every turn,” the letter continues. “I have never seen someone who is so intent on finding faults in others. I have tried helping but it generally backfires and I seem to always get blamed. I would rather rot in hell than to put up with another day of this manipulation and control over me.”
According to the 57-page report, divorce papers were prepared by Tausha Haight’s attorney on Dec. 21, 2022. The killer would be served with the papers six days later, on Dec. 27, 2022.
“He asked her how her day was going,” the police report says, according to Deseret News. “He acted as if nothing had happened.”
One of the daughters texted a friend excited her mom was finally leaving her dad and said that “He has to go.”
None of Michael’s family wanted him around.
Sometimes women think that complaining about a man will change him. It won’t. It only angers him. Which is why women are told to never nag a man.
Instead of nagging or complaining, which makes things worse, seek out a relationship coach or a therapist.
There is no such thing as not having control over your life or not being able to improve your situation.
In any relationship, instead of complaining, you can stay in silence, change YOUR ways, go to therapy, or leave. When a woman complains most men become deaf to everything she’s saying.
Many relationship problems actually start with people hopping into long-term committed relationships without fully knowing themselves, their desires, and not knowing how to communicate properly with a partner.
That is why relationship coaches are important.
If you are in a toxic relationship, seek help. Things can improve.
Rest in peace to this beautiful family.
P.S. Ladies, if your husband/man is a super terror, DO NOT serve him divorce papers or tell him you are leaving and still be in the house where he can access you. These things have to be PLANNED. It’s an ESCAPE.
To read more details on this story visit the Law & Crime blog.
