by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Oct 7, 2023 |
Ariana Grande is the latest boss chick to take a hit in her divorce. Just six months after splitting Grande’s and her now ex-husband Dalton Gomez have settled their divorce and Ariana has to PAY UP.
via E!:
The singer and real estate broker settled their divorce on Oct. 6, according to multiple outlets. TMZ, citing the settlement, reports that Dalton will receive a one-time tax-free payment of $1,250,000 and half the net proceeds of their L.A. home sale, but will collect no spousal support.
Although the couple filed for divorce just three weeks ago, they actually broke up six months back, with their legal papers listing their date of separation as Feb. 20, 2023.
“They were taking their time together to slowly work through the details of the agreement privately before filing,” a source told E! News in September. “They’ve been really caring and respectful of one another every step of this process. It’s been a very kind and patient uncoupling process.”
Their breakup was kept under wraps for months. In fact, Ariana and Dalton celebrated their second wedding anniversary in May, when the two-time Grammy winner marked the occasion with a sweet tribute on Instagram.
The 30-year-old continued filming the Wicked movie in England up until the SAG-AFTRA strike began July 14.
After production went on hiatus, the “Thank U, Next” artist raised eyebrows when she was spotted attending the 2023 Wimbledon finals in London without her wedding ring. E! News then confirmed on July 17 that Ariana and Dalton were separating and heading towards divorce.
Just days later, a source close to the situation told E! News Ariana had begun dating Wickedcostar Ethan Slater after her marriage unraveled. (At the end of July, Ethan filed for divorce from wife Lilly Jay).
She first sparked romance rumors with Dalton in March 2020. However, it wouldn’t be until two months later that the pair confirmed their relationship in her “Stuck With U” music video, with them then going Instagram official that June.
The agent ultimately proposed to the musician with a diamond and pearl engagement ring, with her announcing the news by writing on Instagram, “forever n then some.”
Five months later, in May 2021, Ariana and Dalton tied the knot in a private ceremony at her home in Montecito, Calif.
The pair were last seen publicly in January 2023, strolling through the streets of London hand in hand.
If you are a wealthy woman, you can always marry a regular guy and give him money when you get divorced. That’s much easier than healing your femininity and marrying a man who provides.
It’s so much easier to just be the boss chick, make more money than your man, call all the shots, and pay the cost to be the boss during the relationship and after….
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Oct 6, 2023 |
Your man should not be dumping you or breaking up with you.
When this happens, at what point did you lose control of the relationship?
This is not just a problem for regular women but also a problem for many high profile, attractive, wealthy, celebrity women.
Tamar Braxton says she’s doing OKAY after being publicly dumped by her lawyer finance. Young Jeezy’s wife Jenny Mai says the divorce came as a shock and she’s trying to save her marriage.
After working with hundreds of clients and countless years of research, what I have come to discover is that it is the woman who controls the relationship. This is a spiritual fact.
When women call other women “pick me’s” most of the time they use the statement incorrectly and don’t know what it means.
A PICK ME woman is a woman that actually doesn’t understand that she has the power to CHOOSE a man and have him act and respond accordingly.
I’ve seen this personally in my own life and in the life of divine feminine women.
In the case of Jenny Mai, she and Jeezy disagreed on something and she was waiting for him to come around to her side and agree with her. He felt so strongly about it, that he filed for divorce to show her who is really in control and running things.
This is why we tell women to get femininity training. While YES a man will deal with you as you are, it takes a certain level of femininity to maintain a relationship with a high value man.
Without it, a woman will lose control by trying to control….
Many women try to control so much, instead of allowing a man to be himself. This is the biggest mistake that most women make. It’s quite the learning process to stop doing so.
Relationships are beautiful healing portals that bring you to your highest self when you let them. Always remember that you are two seperate souls sharing a human experience.
One of you in the relationship may be more enlightened than the other, and maybe this makes you feel like the relationship is tough or hard. Relationships are not tough or hard, it’s the people in them.
The best way to have a smooth relationship is to have equal values.
For instance, I recently had a conversation with a female friend. She’s kind of hood. I told her that it’s usually the ghetto girls who have the long, bat lashes, and that it was unclassy.
She became offended.
With my understanding I got it. She’s hood, and I am more on the high class feminine side.
In my conversations with other women we have clashed about things, based upon our VALUE system.
For me personally, if someone else has higher values than me in an area, I listen, take it in, and tend to shift, because it releases blockages and their value system may give me clarity.
For example: I am a public person and sometimes I’m in promotion mode and I want to promote myself to the world.
One time I was at a festival in Atlanta with a bourgeoise woman and no men were talking to her, but they were all coming up to talk to me. I was enrolling them all into my mailing list and speaking with all of them. I was focused on BUSINESS. (She looked GOOD. Her energy kept indecent men away, and we honestly didn’t see any high caliber men until we were leaving out.)
Later on she told me that it wasn’t a good look for me to talk to every man who approached me.
Instead of being offended, I stepped back, took in what she said and decided she was right. I came up with a better in person marketing strategy for my next festival.
WHY? Because I desire to be the best version of myself and desire to grow and improve.
It takes a GROWTH mindset for someone to grow with you. They have to want to do the work.
What’s funny though, is when I turned around months later and told the same girl about a man she liked, she didn’t want to listen, so we clashed again.
The difference with me and most people is that I am VERY open to growth, and not always being right. I seek to humble myself enough to have understanding of other humans.
This is not always easy, because I have very strong opinions. Yet it’s a beautiful thing to know who you are, but also understand that you don’t know everything.
Now back to the men that you are in relationships with.
Understanding men requires that you have a deep understanding of YOURSELF.
When a woman is strong in her SELF-LOVE men come her way, and therefore she doesn’t have to understand men so much, depending on the man that she chooses.
It’s also a CHOICE with how you energetically show up in your relationships. Men read this energy and decide to either stay or flee.
When a man is dumping you, there is need for divine feminine consulting along with a new level of CONFIDENCE.
There is a way to love yourself and a way to love a man that keeps him next to you, never wanting to leave you.
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Oct 2, 2023 |
Tamar Braxton’s love story has taken a turn down break-up alley again.
On Monday Braxton’s fiancé JR Robinson from “Queens Court” announced that he’d broken up with the ‘Love and War’ songstress.
Robinson said he terminated the engagement in pursuit of becoming a “better person.”
He refuted allegations of infidelity and stated despite their breakup, they would remain “friends and family for life.”
To announce the break-up JR took to Instagram. In an Instagram Story, he conveyed, “Tamar and I are no longer together. I ended the relationship to focus on getting back to positive energy & being a better person,” he wrote on his Instagram Story.
He also mentioned, “The details of what occurred and the reasons behind it are our private matters. No, I did not engage in any infidelity, and I was not present when her car was burglarized at her mother’s place.”
Despite making an appearance on the reality dating show on Peacock, he asserted that he had never sought fame and had turned down the opportunity multiple times before finally accepting it.
He wrote, “I fell in love, but it didn’t culminate as I had hoped. So now, I aim to mend.”
Robinson added, “Tamar and I will forever remain close friends and family. We appreciate your respect for our privacy.”
Braxton and Robinson’s engagement was publicly revealed during the “Queens Court” finale in March when he proposed.
She expressed, “I can’t believe I found what I was looking for.”
Their relationship encountered difficulties shortly thereafter when one of Robinson’s children’s mothers accused Braxton of causing “nothing but chaos.”
Anaston Jeni took to social media to assert, “My son does not mean ‘everything’ to her and she has not thanked God for me and truthfully, none of his baby mamas,” Anaston Jeni wrote on social media, adding that the “Changed” songstress has said “demeaning, disrespectful, and said outrageous things” about how she co-parents with Robinson.
Robinson, the founder of JR Law Group, promptly defended his then-fiancée, stating that she had been “an exceptional mother” who showered his children with affection.
Prior to accepting Robinson’s proposal, Braxton was romantically involved with entrepreneur David Adefeso and had a breakdown. Their tumultuous breakup came in 2020 after two years of dating.
My best wishes to Tamar, that she will find the love her soul seeks.
We love to ask people to be perfect when they meet us. However, most people, even those in relationships, need healing. People really don’t understand the seriousness of this healing. Unfortunately many people also believe that they are going to heal by themselves or that it’s best to heal by themselves. In reality it’s best to improve yourself inside of a relationship that you value and want to keep.
The sad thing about relationships is that most people do all of the damage before they even get married. Therefore they never even get to the married part, which means the part where you agree to stick together and work things out.
Men definitely need consulting with an enlightened woman who understands high value men and women need femininity training and also guidance from a woman who understands high value men.
This consulting should be just as required as a college degree. It would save a ton of relationships and help people experience growth and love beyond what they ever even imagined.
I find that my clients, both brilliant men and women, who come to me about relationships, discover things about themselves they never even knew. These people are making 6-7 Figures and truly conquering the world, yet didn’t know how their soul operated in relationship. I watch them live an entire new fulfilling life of happiness after are sessions together. They literally become FREE.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Aug 23, 2023 |
In a world filled with remarkable and fulfilling experiences, nothing compares to the extraordinary power of love. It is the yearning of countless hearts, the essence that makes life truly magnificent. Today, let us embark on a journey together, exploring the transformative nature of love and how we can manifest our deepest desires in relationships.
Recognizing the Essence of Love:
Amidst our exploration, a pattern emerges—a tendency to prioritize external factors over the immeasurable value of emotional connection and shared experiences. This is where the ego often leads us astray, blurring our vision of love’s true essence. But fear not, for awareness is the key to liberation.
Communicating Love’s Language:
In our quest for love, effective communication becomes paramount. Learning to speak the love language of our partners is like unlocking a sacred code that nurtures profound connection. By expressing our desires and understanding those of our beloved, we create a harmonious dance of love, dissolving barriers and deepening our bond.
Embracing the Power of Love:
Love, divine and eternal, holds the power to heal, transform, and ignite our spirits. It is a boundless force that fills our hearts with delight and wonder, radiating joy and positivity to all those around us. As we open ourselves to its embrace, we awaken our own divine essence, finding solace, growth, and purpose within the boundless beauty of love.
The Foundation of Love:
Foundations built on love and mutual respect stand the test of time. Love is not confined to fleeting moments but endures through imperfections and challenges. It is the unbreakable thread that weaves our lives together, creating a tapestry of devotion and shared dreams. When we anchor our relationships in love, we experience the fulfillment of both heart and soul.
GOD IS LOVE. ~ REV RUN
The dictionary defines love as an intense affection and warm feeling for another, or strong sexual desire.
THE BIBLE SAYS:
1 Corinthians 13:4–8a (ESV) Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
In this way we see that love is not only a feeling, but also both a decision and an action. I call this the 3 P’s to LOVE
Love is the common denominator in how we relate—to God, to others, or to ourselves. However, it’s not for everyone. As followers of Christ, love is our trademark.
Unveiling the Path to Your Desired Love:
For those who excel in the realm of success, it is essential to recognize that love is a unique journey. Success in business does not equate to automatic mastery in love. However, this realization opens doors to infinite possibilities. Embrace the excitement of this new chapter, acknowledging that seeking support and guidance on this path is not a weakness but a wise choice. Together, we can navigate this wondrous terrain, uncovering the truth of your heart’s deepest desires.
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Continuing to love over and over again, against all odds, and allowing yourself to be loved is a super power. But it makes you less powerful when you don’t have strategies for that love. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again.
A Vibrant Manifestation of Love:
As we align our intentions and emit a clear vibration of love, we draw our desired high vibrational love life closer. Feel the exhilaration within you, knowing that your journey has led you to this point of manifestation. You are worthy, deserving, and ready to embrace the profound beauty of a deeply loving and passionate relationship.
Dear beautiful soul, your heart is brimming with love’s radiant energy. Embrace the limitless possibilities that love holds, for it is a treasure beyond measure. With an open heart, clear intentions, and an unwavering belief in the power of love, you are ready to embark on a remarkable journey toward the fulfillment of your deepest desires. This journey isn’t for everyone…. In order to accomplish it you actually NEED other people’s knowledge, wisdom, expertise, energy and cooperation to align with your desires. Thing move faster when you are apart of a mastermind with each individual showing up utilizing their expertise, while their partner brings their area of expertise. (So much for men asking women what they bring to the table. 🤣)
So let us step into the light together, and may the love that awaits you bring boundless joy, harmony, and enchantment into your life.
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Aug 7, 2023 |
The kind of of love or romantic connection that was more common or idealized in the 1990s while listening to R&B groups like Jodeci sing, is a deep kind of soulful love, that required a person be connected to their heart.
Often when dating a single in their 40’s will notice their dating and relationship desires don’t align with the dating culture or relationship dynamics of the current year, 2023, where most people haven’t the faintest idea of what real love is.
The dating landscape and norms have evolved significantly between the 1990s and today.
Here are some notable differences in dating culture and practices:
- Technology and Online Dating: One of the most significant changes is the advent of technology and the rise of online dating platforms. In the 1990s, online dating was virtually nonexistent, while today, it’s a common way for people to meet potential partners.
- Communication: In the 1990s, communication was primarily through landline phones, answering machines, and handwritten letters. Today, communication is much more immediate and constant due to smartphones, texting, and social media.
- Meeting Places: The places where people meet have shifted. In the 1990s, meeting through mutual friends, school, work, or social events was more common. Nowadays, people might meet through dating apps, social media, or online interest groups.
- Casual Dating and Hookup Culture: Casual dating and hookup culture have become more prevalent in recent years. This has been facilitated by dating apps and a more open attitude toward non-traditional relationship dynamics.
- Gender Roles and Equality: There has been a shift towards more egalitarian dating norms. While traditional gender roles were more prominent in the 1990s, modern dating emphasizes equality and shared responsibilities.
- Social Expectations: The expectations surrounding dating milestones might have shifted. In the 1990s, there might have been more emphasis on “traditional” steps like going on formal dates and meeting parents. Nowadays, people may take a more flexible and individualized approach to these milestones.
- Authenticity and Self-Presentation: With the rise of social media, individuals may feel more pressure to curate their online personas. In the 1990s, people might have had a clearer sense of who someone was without the constant online presence.
- Diversity and Inclusivity: There is a greater awareness and acceptance of diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship structures today, leading to a more inclusive dating landscape.
- Pace of Dating: With technology, communication can happen faster, and relationships might progress more quickly in some cases. In the 1990s, there might have been a slower pace of getting to know someone due to limited communication options.
It’s important to note that these are general trends, and individual experiences may vary. While some people might embrace modern dating practices, others may prefer a more traditional approach. The most important aspect of dating is finding what aligns with your values, needs, and comfort level.
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by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Jul 18, 2023 |
There is a very interesting conversation going on in the world right now… Well let me not say RIGHT NOW. This conversation has been going on and on for more than a decade now.
We’re talking the relationships between black women and black men.
Most black women THESE DAYS are masculine AF and proud of it. As long as we have money in our bank account, can take care of our kids and buy whatever we want, we don’t mind being called masculine. (Minus the small portion who sees their light shining brighter by shifting into femininity.)
Honestly black boss chicks would rather have a whole LOT of money vs. having a no good man if we only had to choose one…
Once again, the feminine woman chooses BOTH.
We’d much rather be single than catering to a 50/50 man.
With black men mostly meeting black women with a high degree of masculinity, and black women mostly meeting wanna be alpha males who have no desire to provide, although they have no problem partaking in sex, procreation and everything other than having a healthy marriage; we get an idea as to why relationships are possibly in the trash in the black community.
Once again, feminine women have pretty good relationships… So do masculine energy black women who fully love themselves and mate with a man who fully loves her too.
In a recent podcast interview Dr. Umar Johnson said that black men have failed as the leaders of the community, by laying back and not helping women, kids, and generally being better men.
“Because black men as the leaders of the community have said they don’t want the responsibility of leading, they want to fall back and let the black woman lead.”
“Pookie and Ray Ray shouldn’t exist. They exist because we’re not in the community making a better example.”
“Men are supposed to raise the boys.”
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I was asked by one of my followers what I thought about Dr. Umar’s statement.
From my perspective Dr. Umar is both right and wrong.
Here is why he is right. As a woman who grew up in the projects, the men in my neighborhood generally sucked when it came to being a good boyfriend/man. That simply wasn’t a concept. Cheating was a norm, although many did have provider hearts.
Being accustomed to such men I still knew to avoid the Pookie’s and the Ray Ray’s. I attracted men above that. Still there wasn’t a concept of faithfulness and being a man who provides. … They had issues too.
Also we as women were taught to impress me by being hard and a fighter to prove our worth. (I rejected tf out of that too. Hair and nails is expensive baby… and do not mess my outfit up. It’s too cute and girly.)
As a young adult, women in my community were often told don’t ask a man for anything that you can’t give yourself.
We were taught that in order to be worthy of having a good man, we had to meet him neck and neck.
Black women excel in business and relationships, so it’s no surprise that so many are highly successful. Now they want that GOOD MAN that they worked hard on their INCOME and COLLEGE DEGREES to get.
Lord help every woman who doesn’t understand femininity. 🙏
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“The “ soft girl life” is more than just fine dining, a luxury vacation, and french tip nails . Sis you gotta stop acting like a Rottweiler.” ~ Author Unknown, Message me the ORIGINAL author
Meeting a man neck and neck, means that black women often talk out the side of our neck to men, because that’s the only thing they seem to respect. Kindness, compassion, empathy, looking at a man as helpless and trying to please them leads to a woman suffering mental, emotional or verbal abuse at the hands of the man she loves. So does talking crazy to them… So most black women don’t know what to do with black men.
Black women often don’t mind going 50/50 with these same men, because of the always trending statement in the black community that you NEED 2 incomes to survive these days.
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Lord thank you for allowing me to hit the billion dollar lottery. You are so awesome, wonderful and good to me. I appreciate you oh Great One.
Also, thank you for sending me such a wonderful husband and the love that we share. He’s such a great soulmate.
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Another thank you LORD that I stopped allowing MYSELF to deal with phuck boys and men who didn’t value LOVING ME and my beautiful connection to you.
Thank you LORD for the healing of my mind, heart, body, and soul. You are so wonderful. How excellent are you oh Lamb of God. You have no rival, you have no equal, you are the only true and living GOD.
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THANK YOU GOD FOR LOVING ME….. I WORSHIP YOU, AND ONLY YOU CAN.
Anyway, on the other side of healing comes the accumulation of wisdom. Knowledge that not every black woman goes through toxic relationships. Some have parents that have broken general curses by making better decisions and some were raised by parents who were raised right and some chicks simply got lucky and chose the right man off top… Or was it luck?
For example a woman who was raised in a two parent household with her father who provides for his wife, see black men providing as a norm and grow up to date and marry such men.
Men providing is actually quite NORMAL in African culture.
But over here in AMERICA where the African has been decolonized, stripped of his belief system, blames everything on the white man, while not knowing who he is and refusing to believe in himself, taking care of a woman and getting married is mostly considered simping.
Lord they are down here laughing at your instructions to take care of their wives and leave an inheritance to his children’s children. Instead they are focused on taking chicks out on low effort ice cream cone dates.
But back to what I was saying, women like Marjorie Harvey know better. She secured a King who provides for her entire family. Someone taught her well and it appears her daughter Lori is on the same path.
(This is where a ton of black women say, that just because she dates men with money doesn’t mean anything, doesn’t mean she’s happy, and money isn’t important and blah, blah, blah.)
Other women found a good man in college or before the age o 30. (How much femininity plays into this?)
These women don’t know anything about the Pookie’s and the Ray Ray’s. They are shocked to hear that women get abused, date broke men and end up with terrible men.
The men these women date/marry believe in the goodness of all men. They are clueless as to how some of these black men treat the women they sleep with…
These women are said to make GOOD DECISIONS because they chose GOOD MEN.
This group believes in the power of CHOICE and their ability to create the life they desire. They focus on thriving.
The other group with the Pookie’s believes that they don’t have much control over their lives. They’ve been functioning from survival.
It can feel really hard and almost impossible to choose a good man when their appears to be a shortage of them in your environment.
That’s a really GOOD/VALID excuse.
But what excuse do we give these women online who keep saying they want a high value man, but refuse to like, prefer and only be attracted to the CHARACTER of good men? These women deeply reject femininity, while blaming everything bad on men and not on their decisions.
This is where I agree with Dr. Umar and disagree. Black men are not responsible for the bad choices black women make, but what is Sis to do when most of her bad decisions were to date, love, procreate with, or have sex with a black man? Most of her problems were caused by black men and she only had 100 to choose from and 2 were good men out of 100…. (Hypothetical visualtion) Now place those 100 men on the ballfield, without a woman knowing how to properly vet men and chances are she’s going to choose a mate from the 98% or let a man from the 98% pick her.
Men from that 98% are terrible leaders in their relationships and often lack focus on their purpose and contribution to their community. So therefore these women become the leaders of everything.
Meanwhile the other group with the feminine women married to the good men who provide, they lean back and lead from the back through the art of feminine inspiration.
To Dr. Umar’s point how many men from the good side are mentoring other women’s kids and volunteering to mentor the boys of women they haven’t slept with?
Leading back to the podcast, Umar said that the podcaster was part of the problem, as he didn’t believe in raising another man’s kids or dealing with a masculine woman with another man’s kids.
It felt like he believes that single mothers are single due to being masculine.
Is it really a black man’s responsibility to be everybody’s baby daddy?
No. I think not. However with that being said, should women have more gratitude and respect for men who are willing to date/marry them and be a step-father to another man’s kids?
Should we have more gratitude for the good men and make it our mission to treat them like Kings?
At the end of the day, a certain type of man is responsible for the hurt, pain, disenchantment, bitterness, brokenness, low self-esteem, people pleasing and denial of desires of most black women. That certain type also walks the earth in ABUNDANCE.
That’s all I will say.
Well one more thing. Relationships are about the relationship you have with yourself. Is it hard for a black woman to have a good relationship with herself, if the man she chooses to love, who has her same skin complexion, beats her, mistreats her, uses and casts her to the side?
This is why some enlightened people will tell black women and blacks in general to stop identifying with a RACE, due to the stigma, mindset and belief system they may come with being black..
I’m done for real now.
What are your thoughts?
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Jul 10, 2023 |
They say love is a fleeting feeling.
Who is THEY you say?
Them people. Of the male species.
I decided to explore the thought from my heart.
I hear it, but what I FEEL is different.
Now love could be a fleeting feeling for many because people give it, then call it back to their own heart I suppose.
But for me and this house that was built on the foundation of God, love is not a fleeting feeling for me. It’s an emotion, an amazing feeling and abundant action that multiplies everything for my good, the good of whomever I’m in a relationship with and those around me.
I am an embodiment of LOVE. So much so that I once trained myself to stop attaching my love to people who sought to hurt me. I used to love people so much that it hurt me, to stop loving them. Even when they hurt me time and time again, it took me months and years to stop crying and get over the hurt. I was hurting from what I thought to be a missing/lost connection.
Many lessons learned from such behavior, that now feels like a waste of time. Although of course, with learned lessons comes WISDOM; as God works everything to the good of those who love him.
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In order for the love I have for a person to leave my soul of to be covered up enough/blocked enough to never FEEL love for them again or to even break the belief that I love/loved them I felt like I first had to make a decision to stop doing so, and then move my actions in alignment with that.
Each time it became easier to do. I went from crying for months over a break-up that I took action on, to hopping in another relationship, experiencing another breakup (by my own choice), waiting for the person to wake up and see my way for months or years, to healing and realizing I had the power within me to make my relationships great.
I made a decision to be more attractive to better men thereforeby being attracted to better men.
I used to be the chick who would teach men a lesson about playing with women. I am no longer that woman. Let someone else do it. I’d rather just be ME. In this way, I released my EGO. It feels so good to stop edging God out. Now there is more space in my heart for him to reside in.
I still have my EGO. But it’s focused on more important things. I stopped acting like I didn’t know that GOD GOT ME. He has the hard stuff. I am focused on my JOY.
REFLECTION –
I’ve undergone a spiritual shift and has chose to prioritize my own well-being and inner peace rather than trying to control or change others.
Anyways, love is a very real thing for me. It’s such a dope feeling. I love to experience it. For me I’ve learned that’s where it’s at, and to go with it and appreciate it.
Appreciate it by keeping the man happy who can makes me feel it, by deeply appreciating the love I have for myself, in a way that brings pleasure to us both.
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Now here is the truth about LOVE and whether it’s fleeting or not.
Love can be both a fleeting feeling and something that can be maintained. It depends on the individuals involved and the nature of their relationship.
The initial stage of falling in love is often characterized by intense emotions and a sense of euphoria. This passionate and exciting phase may be considered fleeting because it is typically fueled by novelty and infatuation. However, as time goes on, the initial intensity of these feelings tends to diminish. Yet for special souls who meet their soulmates, that feeling of intense love can go on forever. For some empathic souls, you find it difficult or nearly impossible to rid yourself of that love.
When it comes to real soulmate love, you can go from seeing someone at a club or somewhere and knowing right away, that’s YOUR TYPE of vibe to Having a Timeless Bond with them, that you never want to let go of.
Love: A Fleeting Feeling or Everlasting Connection?
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Maintaining love beyond the initial stages requires effort, commitment, and communication from both partners. It involves building a strong foundation of trust, respect, and mutual understanding. Love can evolve into a deeper, more mature connection that is based on shared experiences, emotional support, and a sense of companionship. This type of love requires ongoing nurturing and dedication.
While the intense feelings of infatuation may/can fade over time, it doesn’t mean that love itself disappears. Love can transform into a more stable and long-lasting, deeply emotional bond, which can be sustained throughout a lifetime. However, it is important to note that maintaining love is a continuous process that requires active participation from both partners.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Jul 10, 2023 |
Heartache and heartbreaks can be tough. If you find yourself there or your life flowing that way, know that you can come out strong on the other side by implementing these 8 Steps Into Your Personal Development journey.
- Acceptance and acknowledgment: Recognize and accept that letting go of love is a process that takes time. Acknowledge your emotions and allow yourself to feel them without judgment. (Grab Play To Win – How To Become The Man Women Love, Respect & Submit To – The Ultimate Playbook For GOOD MEN)
- Self-reflection and understanding: Reflect on the reasons why you want to let go of love. Understand the impact it has on your well-being, growth, and future relationships. This self-reflection can strengthen your commitment to the process.
- Set boundaries: Establish clear boundaries with the person you are letting go of. This can include limiting or ceasing contact, removing reminders or triggers, and creating space for your own healing and growth.
- Seek support: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or professionals who can provide emotional support and guidance during this process. Sometimes, discussing your feelings and experiences with others can offer valuable insights and perspectives. (start your femininity, glow up and personal development journey by reading the book – You Can’t Force A Man To Value You – Becoming a High Value Woman & Attracting Your Dream Man.)
- Engage in self-care: Prioritize self-care activities that promote your well-being and help in the healing process. This can include activities such as exercise, spending time in nature, practicing mindfulness or meditation, journaling, or engaging in hobbies that bring you joy.
- Focus on personal growth: Shift your attention and energy toward your own personal growth and development. Set goals, pursue interests and passions, and invest in activities that contribute to your well-being and fulfillment.
- Practice forgiveness and letting go: Release any resentment, anger, or negative emotions towards the person or the situation. Practice forgiveness, not necessarily for their sake but for your own peace of mind. Letting go of attachments to the past can help in the process of moving forward.
- Embrace new experiences: Open yourself up to new possibilities and experiences. Explore new hobbies, socialize with different people, and expand your horizons. Embracing new experiences can help shift your focus and create new positive associations.
Remember that letting go of love is a personal process, and everyone may have their own unique approach. It’s important to be patient and compassionate with yourself as you navigate through it. If you find it challenging, seeking professional guidance from a therapist or spiritual love guide can be beneficial in providing additional support and guidance tailored to your specific situation.
If it is your desire to to stop letting go of love, maintain your love for your current mate, or avoid divorce you may need to take a different approach from the common, basic and generic advice.
It’s best to address yours specific situation by understanding your particular blocks and beliefs.
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