I see so many men on social media crying about women who cheat on them. I admit that God is still working on me, cause most times I lack empathy for the situation.
Here is why:
Women outnumber men.
Women search high and low for a good man. Most women will take any man. It’s so easy to get a good woman that a man really has to take accountability for picking a bad one. Society is forever making women take the blame for getting in bad relationships, but rarely are men made to take accountability.
Both women and men cheat, but good women simply don’t cheat most times. But here is why a woman would cheat on a man.
He doesn’t provide. Therefore there’s not much to lose if he finds out. Always do A LOT for your woman.
Ya girl’s a hoe and everybody knows. lol. I’m kidding, (it’s a song) well a little. But I’m going somewhere with this. See a lot of people don’t understand that there is a difference between a prostitute and a hoe. Prostitutes get paid, and aren’t seeking men’s approval. She knows how most men are and chooses to profit from them. When she’s in a relationship, she’s done. A “loose” woman on the other hand gets off on attention. All a man has to do is whisper something juicy in her ear and her legs are open. Just like men, she is turned on by new sexual encounters, but she didn’t tell you that from the jump. Just like some men don’t tell a woman from the jump, but no one calls them “hoes” or “loose.”
She doesn’t love you and isn’t sexually compatible with you.
She’s a drug addict.
She knows you will take her her back, she has no fear of repercussions from you. You’re soft and she knows it.
She doesn’t care about losing you, nor does she care about the relationship.
Some dude gave her some weed, and she freely hangs around other men getting high, and she’s going to say “it just happened.”
She’s not attracted to you… you don’t turn her on. You ain’t even her type
You’re not hitting it hard enough. At times a man has to dominate during sex and let her know he’s daddy.
She’s only with you because you provide. Refer back to #3.
You cheated first. When a woman knows you’ve cheated or will cheat, it removes the guilt she could feel. It’s open season.
You’re an abusive narcissist, ungrateful, and deserve to be cheated on. Mistreating your woman is dumb.
She feels unappreciated, and you don’t pay her enough attention. Women need attention. Don’t ever forget that.
Your penis is too little and she wants something a little more fulfilling, your tongue game is coming up short too.
She’s not a high value woman. High value women rarely ever let any man touch them, especially one who isn’t the man she already has at home. What is another man going to do for her compared to her fabulous knight in shining armor who says YES to everything she likes? Not much. Most men are clowns compared to a King. She will allow a peasant no where near the King’s crown jewels.
You didn’t put a ring on it, and now she feels forced to explore other options. Clocks are always ticking in a woman’s head. A high value woman will give you approximately 2 years max. Make a decision son.
She knows that if you find out she’s been with other men, and that other men actually want her, she will seem more valuable in the eyes of the simp she already has.
Cheating with her baby daddy turns her on.
She wants to do sexual things that she’s too embarrassed to discuss with you, because she feels you will judge her.
You got married early and she feels like she’s missing out and wanted to see what she was missing. When people don’t have a lot of sexual experience before committing to a long-term relationship, they often cave into their hormones, wanting to do what they see being done on the pornos. She’ll regret it later, but it’s too late now.
The janitor at work told her she’s pretty and her simple azz got turned on, cause your simple azz never tells her she’s beautiful. Your woman should be so darn pretty to you that you get hard on sight of her.
She’s a bored, ungrateful housewife, who has fantasies about the cable guy, the pool guy, the hung black buy, or the FedEx guy.
She agreed to have a threesome with you with another girl, and you liked it so much, that cheating and getting some without you, didn’t seem like cheating at all.
Her Twin Flame decided he wanted to hit it again, cause he knows she’s easy to get access to, because she will always hopelessly love him, and even though you’re her so called soulmate, the internet says a Twin Flame is more important.
A rich n*gga wanted her. I don’t need to explain this. I’ll just post a link.
Don’t mind me. I wrote this whole blog while laughing, but ALL of this is true. The best way to avoid these things is to get a good woman who loves you, values you, is loyal, and wants to keep you. Give her what she wants and have good, healthy communication skills to make sure you’re always on the same page.
The title of the post, isn’t my opinion. I don’t actually speak to men in such a way. But it’s how a cheating woman often see’s a man. She has very little RESPECT for you, or your image. She doesn’t mind allowing another man to laugh at you, and look at you as less than him. But chances are you didn’t understand the level of disrespect, until you read the title of the post… WHY? Because chances are, she said very sweet words to you, while doing you wrong. Most men fall for sweet words. They are like sugar to your soul. Women who don’t truly love you, are great at not showing EMOTIONS.
You ever hug a man cause you’re so in love with him? You listen to his every word. You call him just to hear him breathe, and other people think you’re obsessed, or needy, and the truth is you simply know what you’ve found is rare. You’ve been through the ups and down of love before, this isn’t new, and you’re well aware that you treat him special, and maybe you’re a little extra with him, because you’re just trying to show appreciation for him, because you know love without effort will never last. And no one seems to understand, but you… Yet, you have no intentions of apologizing for loving him.
No matter what anyone says, when you’re actually in love with a person YES, you do feel like you need them.
Don’t let the conscious community steer you wrong. While the conscious community is good for knowing how to consciously relate in healthy relationships, a lot of them still don’t understand love. Love is completely different from what most people understand. Not everyone is fully capable of loving another human being, because they can not fully love themselves.
When you’re in love, you become so intertwined in a person that they become apart of you. They do meet a need of oneness for you.
If a person can take you or leave you, that’s not enough love. But unfortunately it’s the best most people will get.
If you’re okay with seeing them with the next person, that’s not enough love either.
It’s healthy to want people to be happy, even if it’s not with you. But love would most definitely want them to be with you, and steer them towards you.
But how would you know these things when you’ve spent your life never truly finding real love. Real love is rare. Way more rare than a diamond. It’s more like hitting the lottery.
Of course you need love. All humans need love. You need connection. Remember that’s why God created Eve.
Adam had a NEED. He worked hard, in the garden for what? He needed a reward. The reward for his hard work was that he got to spend time with Eve. COMPANIONSHIP… Woman was created to be loved by a man. That’s why lots of women don’t actually love their husbands…. But i’mma leave that tea alone.
In the beginning of a loving relationship, you want a person. You don’t need them. After being together for a year two, and truly falling in love with them, you need them because you love them.
Without them, YES, your heart will start to break. YES, you can handle this. But the truth is, your life is better with them, because you love them.
Can you life improve if you replace them? YES
A woman who feels like she doesn’t need her man, will eventually lose him. People must feel needed. Especially men. Men used to get upset with me, because at times maybe I needed their love, but I could also do without them and didn’t need them because they didn’t provide for me, or they were cheating or doing me wrong, so I had to eliminate the need for them.
Relationships are multiple dynamics. It’s not just one thing or one area. Soul connections flow across so many dynamics. They fulfill you in ways the next 10 people simply can not. They are actually difficult to replace.
Dating coaches want to tell you that everyone is dispensable, and easily replaced. But try letting their mate walk in one day and say they are leaving them for someone else. See how they react. They will be on social media in tears, devastated.
I bet they won’t say they don’t need them.
See the truth is always truth.
But telling people to get into relationships with people who are easily disposable is why people break up so easily. They don’t value people. They don’t value love, and they get in relationships with people who are not of the upmost importance to them.
When you’ve truly put your heart into someone, chances are you got your heart broke. So now you try to play it safe. But there is nothing safe about love, other than being with someone who values it just as much as you do, and you’re compatible, share the same goals, ideals, concepts, beliefs, values, and want the best for each other. But most times, you only get that with soul connections.
People who truly want a soulmate will do what it takes to attract them. You will heal yourself, fix your communication skills, raise your energetic frequency and everything else. They will also remove societal beliefs and listen to the yearnings of their soul.
It gets to be easy, AFTER you understand compatibility, healthy communication and how to love unconditionally.
Once you have read this article, you to will want to fall in love with a spiritual woman.
1. She believes everything has a purpose. She believes in synchronicity, repeating numbers, and angel numbers, as signs from the universe. She’s convinced that you came into her life for a reason, season or lifetime. She believes that you’re going to give her something invaluable, whether that be scattered memories, a life lesson, or become a permanent part of your heart. Therefore she’s always looking for the good in you.
2. She’s authentic. She is open and straight down the line, as she doesn’t see the sense in pretending to be someone that she’s not. She loves her own flaws and finds herself hilarious. With her, what you see is what you get.
3. She loves life and everyone. She is wrapped in an abundance of love for you, her family, her friends, knowledge, her pets, your pets, the sun, the moon, the stars, food, God, source, her spirit guides, the ancestors, and just about everything. Her light and energetic frequency makes her a joy to be around.
4. She is forever learning and growing. Men really want a woman they can teach and grow. But most times women don’t like to be told anything by a man. But a spiritual woman knows she isn’t perfect, she’s already working on becoming the highest version of herself. She will warmly welcome input from you and work on improving herself. Not because she lacks confidence or self-worth, but because she simply wants to be her best self. Drop some knowledge on her and watch her work! EXPANSION is her favorite word. She keeps getting better and better. She’s a really good partner to grow with.
5. She embraces new concepts. Most people are judgmental, scared of things that they cannot see, or cannot grasp, but she’s different. She appreciates that there’s more to this world than meets the eye. That there are secrets waiting to be uncovered. Not knowing doesn’t scare her. It empowers her to sit and get to a place of understanding. Therefore she doesn’t judge and also finds your uniqueness quite interesting. (Some spiritual women even know how to twerk.)
6. She has unwavering faith. She has full belief and hope that things will get better. Even in the darkest moments, she will see a way out. She believes there is a solution to every problem. Her faith and positive mindset will keep you going. She also creates excitement and magic.
7. She is not materialistic. Spiritual women even when she likes nice things, she still values experience and love above all else. However souls like mine are highly materialistic and we’re supposed to be. It’s literally written into my astrological chart (so don’t feel bad if you like nice things. Your desires expand the Universe. You are not meant to be like others). Even when a spiritual woman likes nice things, she still values love above all else. She appreciates the little things. She’ll stick with you through thick and thin, but will also help keep things thick. Sis does not like thin, unless it’s her shape. She’s all about abundance.
8. She has compassion for every living thing. A lot of spiritual women are also empaths. They feel compassion for other souls and understand that every soul is here on a mission. She feels compassion for each soul’s choice in how they will experience their mission. Her compassion helps her be very understanding of other humans, or at least she will try to be.
9. She is one with nature. Nothing resets a spiritual woman like walking in the forest, sitting in a park, walking on the beach, or looking out at the clear blue ocean water. If she’s super spiritual, don’t be surprised if a bird lands on her.
10. She aspires to be at peace. Spiritual women hate drama. They run from it. If her dark shadows come up causing drama, she will quickly fix it. Drama doesn’t appeal to her. She sees good in everything, believing there is good inside of every person. She would rather be alone than have false friends. She has no need to party all the time. She enjoys books just as much as she does partying. You can always count on her. She’s all about honesty, and sincerity.
BONUS: When you feel like being deep, a spiritual woman gets excited by this. She loves your mind and is quick to dive into deep conversations.
Sidenote: Don’t piss off a spiritual woman or hurt her. Her mind causes things to happen…
When a spiritual woman loves her man, his life is going to improve. Simple as that. Being grounded, and tapped into her heart chakra is going to cause manifestations of wealth, not only in her life, but also in her husband’s life.
Yet, so many successful men find themselves stuck in relationships withe pessimistic women of very little faith. These women have no faith in themselves, no faith in God, and no faith in their man either.
Ann Alise wrote:
” Pessimistic women with no faith in their femininity can drag men down tremendously . There are lots of men with visions and drive that are in relationships with women who constantly look down on their vision .
This is because she doesn’t feel he can carry out these big dreams because she has no faith in her ability to help him manifest these dreams in the unseen .
Men should definitely stay away from women such as these because she will always feel comfortable being stagnant and content . This is a poor mindset .
Men who are willing and able to provide and have gotten themselves to a certain point thrive with women who understand that she does her work in the unseen and she is the manifestor .
If a woman cannot believe in herself , how could she ever believe in you? “
I love what Ann said. All too often men date spiritual women with no understanding of how much her presence blesses his life. Suddenly he’s making more money, and attracting more abundance, and thinks it’s all him.
One feminine wife I know who is a master manifestor is Makhosi.
One of the most important decisions in anyone’s life is whom they choose to marry. For a wealth conscious man with big dreams and goals, who also walks in his purpose, such a man definitely needs not only a woman who believes in him, but he needs a spiritual woman to help ease him through rough periods. Certain goals require a certain level of faith. When two people come together in agreement of a goal, consider it done. Add some spirit on top of that, and it will get done a whole lot faster.
So in this aspect I understand why many a man forgos his earthly desire for a beautiful woman, and instead gets a nice, Christian woman.
But many men have also figured out the hard way he still wants what he wants. Which is why many men these days tell you they want a nice, wholesome woman and 3 months later he’s dating an Instagram model, attempting to convert her to Christianity.
The shift in society these days is that men want a popular, highly attractive woman who believes in him. I would suggest that women take note of the tides. I would also suggest not dating any man that you don’t believe in. It’s a waste of time on both ends.
But then again, how can you not believe in your mate if you love them? Everything always goes back to love or lack thereof. Or maybe there are levels to love. Many a man will claim his ex-wife loved him, although she clearly didn’t believe in him.
Women are told to have a list and ask questions during the research phase of dating, but it would be wise for men to tell a woman his goals and dreams and see what she thinks of his goals. I would say he should take note of HOW she tries to help him. But this will backfire, because the way a feminine woman helps a man she dates is different. She doesn’t necessarily have to be hands on in the business to help him. Other times a woman can be hands on in the business, but she is wary that a man may like her for what she does and not for who she is.
I must’ve broken my heart into pieces two times in a row. I opened my heart up and went all in for love. I had so much faith in both relationships. I had my doubts, but hoped they’d turn out for the best.
But what was it that I had faith in? I had faith in characters that showed they didn’t value the relationship. I had faith that they would get it right.
What they got right is to continue operating within their same character. Characteristics that I chose to overlook. I mean in my mind, which is quite rational, how could anyone find the deepest love and not appreciate it?
But humans are not rational. Most aren’t. Humans are so irrational, that when I come along talking about love this and love that, they believe me to be a bit crazy or naive. However I’m neither. What I am is a manifestation of the greatest love. The kind of love that’s rare in today’s society.
As I sit here thinking about love, remembering how a man told me the other day that my achilles heel is that I AM THE GODDESS OF LOVE & MOTIVATION, to where he promptly told me that I was a bit naive and that love didn’t exist, and that it wasn’t real. I silently laughed and redirected him to go after a woman, whom I can tell makes his heart beat.
This man would’ve married me tomorrow if I allowed him to. Moreorso, because we get along and he trusts me, and I’m very business smart, and attract a lot of attention. That would’ve been his basis for marrying me. He would’ve protected me and provided for me, as a man should.
To him my decision to not accept his offer is quite absurd. But I’m the Goddess of Love. How can I do anything less than true love? Yes, I could be with a person and make them fall in love. I can show people a love they’ve never seen. I’ve done it in the past. I’ve been called a first real love. I am magic.
But I will have no less than my dream of love in the highest form. God encoded me for my own wealth, so I’ll never bow for the sake of money. I will only bow for love.
There aren’t many people like me. Most like me are going through life, fully loving people, being abused, misused, unloved, and taken for granted. In the end they are having to heal, question themselves and claim to not have fully loved themselves. Because that’s what society tells them.
But what I know is that each person did indeed love themselves. They simply decided to love another human who didn’t value love the same.
My tribe, we love in the 5D realm. We will give the perfect love in time, simply because it’s what we do. We perfect things. The area of love is no different.
I think of all the things my tribe must go through before they finally attract the love they seek. It’s ALOT of work. They must hold the faith and continue to vibrate higher.
Gods & Goddesses belong together. We are mythical beings who actually exist in this world. We recognize each other by our energetic frequency. We are told whom each other are from the jump. Yet we spend most of our lives attempting to mate with the mortals.
But whose going to tell you that you’re a real life God or a Goddess. I mean just about everyone calls themselves that these days. Who is even bold enough to claim it? Who wants to be so different? Who wants to accept who they are?
This journey of self-discovery and truly remembering who you are, is not for the weak.
When you find the love you seek, know that you deserve it.
A lot of people have read a lot of books, learned a lot of things, and learned to play a lot of games. They meet others who do the same. Chaos ensues. They get to the point where they don’t believe in love.
Even when the find the slightest semblance of love, it doesn’t work out for them, because that person also plays the game.
By the time they come across the potential for real love, they are now in fear. What they’ve wanted the whole time is now in front of them. It feelsdangerous. Like a power that could potentially take over them. Same thing happens to those who’ve tried to love properly. Fear of being hurt, survival of your mended heart becomes most important. Wondering if it’s safe to love again.
Suddenly you do not know what to do. Should you run and hide, have better things to do, or should you stay and play? That is the question.
If you run, there is then thoughts of what could be. Plus the distractions prove to simply not measure up. So back you go to play ball. You think it’s simple. So you throw the ball. Your target refuses to catch it. They outright reject it. For they know you tossed a random shot. Not quite feeling it…
You know how to play every game, except the game of love. Because love isn’t a game. It’s a connection to soul and return to oneness. You can’t tell it what to do. It’s going to flow. When it hits you it hits you. All you can do is pause, run, or press play and let it play out. Once it starts your greatest desire is to press the play that’s already in session. Your move. Are you going to go all in, or fold your cards and run… to something that feels safer? You can’t possibly play this one out the same way you did the last one. You know the one where you were in between….
It’s quite easy to fall in love, but it’s an entirely different thing to make a decision to stand in love. For love in it’s truest form is simply a state of BEING. A being that eludes many due to the attachment of the ego not wanting to appear in weakened form.
Sometimes I feel lost in this world. Not because I’m crazy, but because I truly realize I’m not of this world. My physical body is here, but when it comes to love I completely do not operate in the 3D realm.
This is one of those weeks where I’m going through a lot of shifting, unleveling, and shedding of the ego. It’s always a battle with ego because sometimes you need it and sometimes you need to toss it. Sometimes you find yourself holding onto beliefs only to realize that maybe you need to let them go.
I look back at my relationships and I know that I absolutely was not perfect in relationships, but the core of what love is has always been embedded into my heart. I followed it, and it didn’t work out.
Why? Because I love in a different kind of way. It’s deep and passionate. Everything would be okay if I met my equal that loves like me, is my new current belief.
Some people have been married 4 times. Right now I realize WHY I’ve never been married. It’s not that I didn’t want to, or that I couldn’t find a man to marry me. I’ve been proposed to lots of times. But I’ve been searching for something. I’ve been searching for forever with my equal.
A person who doesn’t value love, like I understand and value love, can never be my equal. So of course my past relationships didn’t work out. Of course I had to walk away. They weren’t committed to soul growth.
You can’t commit to soul growth when you’re busy spending your time with other romantic interests outside of your relationship. Of course you’re not going to work things out or figure things out when you have so many other options in this world. Yup, there are millions of people you could spend the rest of your life with, because they check off on your checklist of having good credit, being reliable, being 6’4″ tall, driving a luxury car, having the finest clothes and blah, blah, blah.
Then there are people like me who want to marry someone who expands my soul. That seems crazy and utterly ridiculous to most. But it makes perfect good sense to me.
I notice that a lot of marriages are simply friendships with sexual privileges. They have sex together and get money together. Their marriage is a business. Therefore they often need the attention and distraction of outside sources to fulfill their needs.
I by no means have all of the answers. But I do know how to love and maintain it once you’re in it. Other people are a dating coach, but I’m a love coach and a love guru, amongst being a master life coach.
My past relationships taught me that okay, maybe my boundaries weren’t high enough, and maybe I let someone slide one too many times, maybe I was too patient, too hopeful, too forgiving and too full of love. But what if I met someone whose heart mirrored mine? How would that work out? I believe it will work out well. I know it will be a beautiful experience.
So suddenly as I go about my day, I find myself rejecting some of the things I’ve learned about relationships lately. Things that keep you safe. Safe from getting hurt. It actually saddens me that the way society is set up that you can’t meet a person and simply decide to go ALL IN. Yet you can go all in with your money and gamble it away. But when it comes to your heart, you gotta play it safe in this 3D world.
Why can’t it be “Hey. we both want the same things out of life. Let’s complete this mission together.” That sounds so simple, and so sweet to me. Why is it so hard for most to comprehend?
I believe mainly a lot of people are constantly searching for something better, instead of deciding to get better, and BECOME better, together. When two people decide to grow together, I believe the result is the greatest expansion of the soul that two humans could ever experience.
But alas, unless you meet your equal, us 5D souls must play by 3d rules. Cause Earth is where we live.
Ladies, I know you want to have a beautiful relationship, to be valued, to attract real love, get married and travel the world with the man of your dreams. Love is the most beautiful thing in the world. What you want is such a wonderful, soul transcending experience. But to get that, you must understand that there are some rules and regulations.
You are not a bird. A woman should NEVER pay for her own flights to go see a man.
Yeah you can be the boss chick you are and pay, just because you can. But sweetie, if that man found you VALUABLE, he would’ve pulled out his card and paid.
Now you and 5 other birds are buying your own flights, trying to impress a man who ain’t looking to be impressed. He’s simply looking for hot chicks to have sex with and play with.
My male friends have lots of women who pay for their own flights. Guess what happens. They phuck and send those women about their business and on to the next one. They get excited when she pays her own, but even if he doesn’t realize it, he’s not really into her. That’s why he didn’t offer to pay in the first place. These men be looking for something, and don’t know what they’re looking for. They just run through women in search of, and in the meantime they have sex with her. But most times, sex doesn’t give him the emotional connection he seeks. But his mind keeps telling him SEX is where the connect is. These men want love, but many of them don’t know how to obtain it. So they are simply going about things the best way they can. (They have no idea how to consciously relate.)
This thing with flights – I’ve learned to turn down the majority of flight offers from men. Even when they want to fly me to places I’ve never been. You gotta ignore your friends who tell you to “Go, have a good time, and try something new.” WHY? Because chances are, on top of my soul already knowing what it wants,
1. I’m not going to phuck them.
2. They are going to want a relationship with me after being in my PRESENCE.
I’m not responsible for their emotions, but I have a big heart and don’t want to hurt anyone. Now that’s another man I have to gracefully turn down, in order to keep his feelings from being hurt, while trying to maintain the friendship. Even when men say “let’s just be cool,” and he’s booking flights, it’s not because he wants to be friends with you. It’s because he wants to be with you either sexually or explore the option of a relationship with you. Some men actually believe “friendship” is the easy way in. Us women know it’s actually a coffin with perimeters that they will not be getting out of.
Money feels really good to us boss chicks. It’s so freeing. It makes us feel safe and empowered. We feel in control. Finally you’re able to do all of the things you always wanted to do. Yet you still want a man who loves and adores you. You want a man who can match you, plus one…. Yet boss chicks don’t often operate in the feminine energy that ALLOWS a King to match or serve you.
So many good-hearted boss chicks have a need to prove something to a man. Or you want to show him that you’re not out to use him, that you’re not broke like these other b*tches, that you don’t mind financially contributing, or that you’re not into him just for his money. That’s really sweet, but it’s a no go. Provider men aren’t like those busters who long ago told you to work hard to do everything on your own, which propelled you into success and now has you living a storyline that you need to let go of.
When a woman finds herself constantly trying to match a man in grit and prove that she’s his equal, by taking it upon herself to provide everything for herself, she immediately messes up the balance of the relationship; by diminishing his capacity to provide for her.
Such women take a good man’s job away from him. A provider man’s mind is set up differently from 97% of these other men. His mindset is ELITE. Yes, men actually do get excited when a woman purchases her own flight. Yet, even if a King tells you that’s what he’s looking for, he still has the heart and soul of a King, so it’s going to tell him that you are not what he needs. Your behavior doesn’t engage nor activate his King codes. Yes he recognizes that you’re a boss when you pay up. Yes he brags about it to his friends. Yes, it’s even a good look for him to have some badd azz, successful woman, spending her own money to come see him, in hopes of having him choose her as the one. But it’s not going to turn out for you the way you hope that it will.
PICK ME behavior rarely does.
When you actually VALUE your divine feminine presence, you make sure that you deal with men who put their money where his mouth is.
Never let a man treat you like you’re just some basic b*tch. Either you’re his dream girl or you’re not. Do you think these men would allow their dream girl to pay for her own flight? Heck No. When he meets his dream girl, he wants to hand her everything. He’s ready to prove himself. Yet too many women try to prove to a man that you’re HIS dream girl, by putting in EFFORT. There is no need to effort your way into getting a man. Your energetic Queenly PRESENCE is what alters a man. His dream girls looks a certain way and makes him FEEL a certain way. The way she pays is of no relevance. Either he wants to keep you in his presence or he doesn’t. You can’t buy your way into him keeping you. That’s why buying a man gifts also doesn’t work in your best interest.
Honestly while these women are doing all of this extra masculine behavior, I literally have men who will book me flights to places, knowing that there is a 99.9% chance that I won’t have sex with him. But he doesn’t care. WHY? Because it’s my PRESENCE he values. He wants it at all costs. He knows that if he can convince me to be in a relationship with him, that he can get sex later. A man can get sex easy from multiple women. A King knows he needs way more than that.
When it comes to sex, a lot of women these days are not sexually repressed. If she wants to have blazing, hot sex with a man, she’s going to do it.
But here’s the thing, if you know you actually do want to have sex with a man, you damn sure better make sure he’s paying for the flight. Because what type of woman pays for her own flight, delivers herself, then proudly serves her p*ssy on a platter to a man who doesn’t invest in her? One that won’t be getting wifed up by him. That’s who.
There are so many other ways to show love to a man.
