by Site Admin | Nov 12, 2019 |
How to attract a high value mate:
1. HEAL – No need to be perfect, but start the process of your healing. The mate for you will come along and help you with the rest. Stop listening to people who tell you to go hide in a corner, stop dating and do all of this on your own. Those people don’t know what LOVE is. We were not created to do everything on our own. We need other humans.
2. Be honest with yourself about your needs and desires.
3. BE the person who can sustain a relationship with your desired mate.
4. Be a giver. Too many people are looking for love but only wanting to RECEIVE.
5. Know your value and have standards.
Most high value women are mostly looking for love. Yet they are unable to meet men with whom she can have a deep, emotional connection with. She doesn’t like the men she attracts. Most of the men she meets lack visually and emotionally. If she gets visual and emotional, then chances are he’s young and can’t afford her lifestyle. Most times she is not in receiving mode. Therefore she attracts affluent men who really have nothing going for themselves besides smarts and money. Such men always think they are the creme of the crop for women. They really don’t question WHY they are single and WHY they can’t seem to get the woman they want. (It’s usually a beautiful woman)
Men on the other hand these days want a woman who will DO things for him. He has no interest in how good she looks (yet he wants a good looking woman, and has very little understanding of her mindset, and even though she is good looking, he wants her to act like she looks normal and behave in the same manner the average woman would. Such men DO NOT put a lot of focus into their own appearance, and most women would look at him and immediately see flaws, that she may try to look past, just to later realize he has other issues. His ego keeps him from recognizing these things. He will also lower the self-esteem of just about any woman he deals with.
Then you have the other men who DO, CHASE, put in effort, are wiling to provide and actually appreciate a beautiful woman. He has a hard time attracting a woman who deeply cares about him.
People experience a great deal of blocks in the dating arena. Yet they don’t know that not having the mate you want is a block. When you’re actively dating, and going on date after date, and things are not working, it’s time to call in some help. But most people continue to try to figure things out on their own.
I work with elite, high performers who are having a hard time attracting their divine, sacred, soulmate. You are already making 6 figures, or 7. You have your finances down, and every other part of your life. Yet the romance department continues to evade you.
Dating actually isn’t hard. It’s simply all about having clarity, healing, confidence and strategy.
You were meant to to be loved, to experience the perfect romance, and to become one in love with your divine soulmate. Move past all of the past trauma and drama. Stop going in circles, wondering why things aren’t working out for you. Stop attracting people who only activate your pain wounds. Stop attracting people who only want to take from you and use you. Stop attracting people who don’t listen to you and don’t spend time getting to know you.
It’s time to attract a man who wants to please you and make you happy. The world has gone too far left with telling everyone to make themselves happy. You can only make yourself but so happy all alone. God wouldn’t have created EVE if he believed Adam could be happy all on his own. The truth is that Adam needed a partner. He needed companionship and something he could pure his love into and see it bloom.
A woman was created to be loved. But men these days think everything is about them. They will literally chase a woman down and tell her he’s not impressed with her, or that she doesn’t do anything for him. Unmarried men these days have zero understanding that a woman is an INVESTMENT. You put your all into her, then she multiplies it and gives it back to you. It’s common sense. Yet many men wait with their hands out, seeing what he can get from a woman. Then he’s surprised that things don’t work out for him.
The deeper insanity is that males chase women, then when she finally pays him attention, he lays back and wants HER to prove herself to him.
The silliest thing any woman can do is deal with any man who is not pursuing her with everything he has in his arsenal. Until such a man pops up, the rest are an extreme waste of time. They are not divine connections. They can’t be, because they don’t know how to play their role.
Work with me 1 on 1 to get you off the dating merry go round. One of my clients literally attracted a billionaire who fell in love with her on the first date. That’s how easy it’s supposed to be. Getting her there was not hard work at all. She and I worked together to put her back into alignment with her sovereign King.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 7, 2019 |
Today has been a day of the craziest, most extreme shifts I have ever seen in my life. I’m starting to see awakening for what it truly is. It’s something that happens in layers. Each day I wake up and I’m like “WOAH! WOW! I WAS IN A DEEP SLEEP.”
My consciousness increases rapidly, and I now have great clarity on how I got here, and the things that happened in my past. The only point of studying your past is in order to see your patterns and lessons. That’s it.
I saw mine, glaringly loud, quite obtrusive and painful. I saw the pain I put myself in. I saw how for the past year I’d been listening to too much light and love. Possibly for the first time, I saw the truest form of my own brilliance, which is way outside of the human norm. I saw my expertise when it comes to love. I saw how my way of only dating men who are crazy about you IS indeed the right way to go.
But why did I have to put myself through so much pain, before I finally simply accepted that I know what I know. How much pain does a person have to be under before they accept their own wisdom? How much pain will you be under before you simply decide to BE your true self?
People absolutely are not going to accept you being your true self. At least everyone won’t. Others will. But to you it should matter none.
You’re never going to get all of the things you want out of life until you embody your true self. You can’t call anything in, until you match the frequency of it. And you won’t match the frequency until you decide “This is what is is and it is what it is.” and nothing else will do. But you will take better if there has to be another option.
The decision to stick to soul is the boldest, most brave decision any human being can ever make. You literally almost have to scream out into the ethers of Heaven that you’ve had enough.
This is when you’ll finally see your patterns and be able to stop them.
My pattern was simply not listening to MYSELF. I always know. I really do. However at the least, the lessons I learned help other women tremendously. It’s why I am able to coach both men and women effortlessly when it comes to 7 Figure online business or relationships. LOVE goes into both.
I assure you as a woman that when a man really wants you he leaves no room for doubts. He will let you know. He won’t use excuses as to why he’s not ready. He doesn’t want you thinking that he doesn’t want you. No other woman will do for him. He will believe you to be just that special. When a man really wants you he does not make excuses. If he says he’s healing, still getting over his ex, working on his company, going to counseling or whatever other excuse, what he’s really saying is “Sorry. You’re not the one. I want these things, but I do not want them with you.” This is how it’s always been and always will be. A man is never quick to let the woman he wants simply walk away from him. So If you find yourself wondering if a man really likes you or not, then you’re a place holder for him, until the right woman comes along. Chances are you’ve also lowered your value, because you would know if a man really wanted to be with you, because he was working to meet your value line.
So you gotta decide to let that place holder go, because he’s taking up space from your King. Your King needs that lane to be wide open. Clear it out. Prepare for landing. True Love is now coming your way.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 6, 2019 |
Potential is a beautiful thing. As a Prophetess I can see at least 5-years into the future of my soul tribe. I see people doing beautiful things. It’s how many empaths choose mates.
They choose based upon potential, instead of looking at them as the person they are showing up as today.
Notice where that got you. Especially women. Did he ever fill his potential? Or did he only fulfill it, as long as you were dragging him there?
He potentially slowed you down.
I rest my case.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 6, 2019 |
In order for a man to appease a woman, he must speak to her in HER love language. His words must match the desires of her heart, followed by actions.
A woman is analytical. She looks for evidence in her mind, receives it in her heart, and can only feel assured of what she’s feeling or desires to feel if the outer actions match up. Otherwise she will now perceive the situation to be not “real.” You have to ground yourself into her life. Matching words and actions align a woman to her feeling states. It gives you access to her womb. A woman has to feel a man in her womb. This is deeper than sex and starts in the recesses of her mind.
Many men wonder why he never seems to get the woman he wants. That would be why. #2 is many men set their targets on high value women without high value effort. They want everything to be EASY. High value women who know their value require that a man go all in. Going all in is never an easy decision. It has to be weighed…
If a woman is to give her all, a man who doesn’t give his all, will be perceived as a waste of her time. That wouldn’t be equally yoked.
Either a woman wants a man to do A. B. and C., all of the above, or she’s all about love. If she’s all about love she can not be bought. Gifts alone won’t do it, if your heart is not attached to it. A man will notice that he’s not getting the woman he desires because his heart isn’t attached to her. When your heart isn’t attached, your intention isn’t right. Therefore God won’t allow you to see the keys to unlocking her. Therefore she won’t look at you as “The One.” To get a Goddess you gotta make agreements outside the earth realm. (Duh!)
Gods and Goddesses are called to restore love in the world. They can not permanently mate with a mortal. If anyone is to step into enlightenment and ascension then he has to be in alignment with matters of the heart. You want to go to the next level of the game, but you can’t go until you realize that just anyone won’t do. They have to be coded for the next level. So you may as well just stop trying to settle, and decide what it is you want. A man knows what he wants when he sees what he already wants. A woman receives the man she wants, when she can feel his energy inside of her. Then a signal is lit. (This process takes WORK)
Some things require that you move past fear and choose love. It’s simply the way it goes. Trying to keep your heart safe is walking in fear. How can love exist in the presence of fear? It can’t. You can only choose one master. You can’t set up a trap and expect a woman to fall into it. The saying goes, “don’t chase women, chase money because women come with it. ” Seems pretty simple. But once again, if we are playing chess, then a King has to know who he wants his Queen to be. He has to set eyes on her and go about acquiring her. Many successful men make the mistake of accepting any woman who comes to him and says pick me, instead of FINDING the woman he wants and picking her. It’s not as simple as “Hey Girl. Here are 3 gifts, I’ll take care of you.” A true divine Queen understands that a King has to cover her in multiple areas. Most men are not willing to cover a woman in all areas. He thinks it’s a game of dangling the carrot, expecting her to follow long.
I can say that many men lost out by trying to outmaneuver me in chess. Even when I may not state my value, I know my value and if he doesn’t measure up, I’m going to pull a spin move away from him. Getting my attention is one thing. Keeping it is a whole other. I AM THE GODDESS OF LOVE. I think many people think we come up with these titles for egoic reasons. When it’s like “No. That’s the title GOD gave me.” So why would you come at the Goddess of Love with anything less than full on love? 🤷♀️
The amount of men that laugh at women online who are always talking about relationships and the things they don’t like, are laughable. With so many light workers freely telling men the things they don’t like, it seems like a man would pick up on these things and do them. For it’s the high value women who are able to take time to themselves to figure out what they want. Non high value people jump in and out of relationships.
Almost anyone will do for them. Therefore it’s difficult for them to deeply appreciate someone. One can not appreciate what they do not value Most women want the same thing. Most are simply too afraid to go after it, because that requires a great deal of work on yourself, and refusing to settle for less. It requires not caring what society thinks of you.
What’s mostly going on with high performers is they’ve grown tired of this love thing. It’s exhausting. So they’ll go hard to make money, but when it comes to love, it’s whatever. It’s I’ll wait. It’s It will come when the time is right. When you’re feeling this way, you’re going the wrong way. Reroute back to love. It’s what you came here for. The money only matters when love is installed.
See a lion can’t forget that it stalks it’s prey. Baby cubs coming up in the world are full of hope, so they are still out in the world doing what they must. They know that a Unicorn is magic and hard to catch.
So he plays chess. Furthermore, I think it might be preposterous for one to assume that he can catch a magical creature with the same tools that he used to catch flies.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 3, 2019 |
Sometimes you meet people and you have this smooth, easy-going connection with them. You vibrate on the same level, and you’re equally yoked in spirit. Does that mean you are supposed to be with them?
Lets say we’re talking soulmate connections, and the thing you came here for.
That all depends on who your GOD is. Is your god money? Then you choose the one that lines up with that. Is it fame or fortune? Then you choose what aligns with that. Is it popularity? Is it spirituality? Or is it nothing? It can’t be nothing, cause you gotta have a god, or some kind of god, cause we all need direction, correction and something we’re moving towards. And if you don’t know where you’re going you’ll be one lost, but think you’re found, confused azz mthfker. We love clarity… You feel me?
So, if your GOD is the same as my GOD, then our God is not the author of confusion. Our GOD is LOVE.
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Therefore you shall always choose with your heart. There is no need to figure it out, when you choose with that. You know the journey you were meant to go through. Nobody said it would be easy, or that it should be easy. But you can definitely make it easier on yourself by believing that you know what you’re doing and you’ll know when you know. Until then, you’re going in the right direction. It’s gold. You gotta score the gold. You already tried silver and that couldn’t do. The last piece of the puzzle is to be solved, in this lifetime. That’s why this is what it is you’re after. It’s what you came here to do.
You were sent to love and create. That’s what your life is made of…the things you’ve loved, and the things you’re creating, by focusing on what you love. Crazy somehow they confuse us and tell us we came for material things. Material isn’t anything but direction to hearing freedom call. But you gotta bring love with you in order to master this level. You already know, like I always say, there are levels to everything. Or like I used to say ” There’s levels to this sh*t!” I say the same thing, different tones. You should receive one of those. So you already have everything else right? You got the house, you got the car, you got the money, you got the credit, you’re looking pretty good. You’re really feeling yourself. You’re finally ready, ready, and not just pretending to be ready. But you’re ready ready. like right, right now. let’s do this ready! Then it’s time to step it up a level and zoom in to the dream. What was supposed to be available to you? What did it look like? There wasn’t really a description.
You’re doing the best you can with the knowledge you have. But slow down. Don’t move so fast. Let it play out. Feel in the position, then fill it in.
Nah, I never forget. 😘😜
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Nov 1, 2019 |
It’s Universal Law that a lack of love for yourself, will result in a lack of love from others. Yet, many people still attract an empath or someone who loves really hard. And the first thing such a person does, is cheat on the miracle mate they have. To cheat on your spouse inside a relationship or marriage is insanity. It’s going to cause so many problems. Yet the cheater seems to think it’s going to “fix” something, that they need to fix within themselves.
Often times cheaters are running from something. They have a mask, deep emotional trauma, and a wall that holds them prisoner from experiencing true happiness.
When they say hurt people, hurt people, these are the kind of people such a statement refers to.
If you have problems in your relationship, please DON’T CHEAT. It really hurts your spouse. It breaks their heart and their trust. It makes them feel not good enough for you. Even if they decide to stick with you, chances are they will grow to resent you, which will result in emotional abuse at the least.
Once you cheat, people feel entitled to say any kind of thing to you. And you will believe that person is so wrong for what they’ve said to you. But you don’t weight in how much pain you’ve caused them. You don’t weight in the fact that they didn’t throw you away even after you hurt them, embarrassed them and possibly made them feel less than.
When someone gives you their heart, they are giving you A LOT. It’s sacred. It takes a great deal of trust in order to give someone your heart. Take care of people’s hearts.
Communication is very important in relationships. When you have a problem sit down and discuss it. Sometimes discussions aren’t easy because your spouse may not understand the depth of what you’re attempting to explain to them. Work through the uncomfortable parts until you understand one another. Communication is all about getting on the same page. Often times that takes a great degree of work.
It’s not wise to ruin a beautiful relationship by cheating. It’s actually insane that you went through the whole dating process, decided to be MONOGAMOUS, and then boom, you cheat and ruin it all.
When you have a habit of cheating you need to understand that the love you seek is not outside of you. No one else can fill the empty void brewing in your mind. You must fill it yourself with self-love. Only then will you be able to love, care for and have deep compassion for someone else who you claim to love.
If someone cheated on you, really look at yourself and see if there was anything you could’ve changed. Sometimes people THINK they are being a good mate, but they feel cold, and make their partner feel isolated, so they go outside the relationship so they can FEEL something.
Most of these problems are also a result of people getting married or getting into relationships for everything other than LOVE.
You don’t get into a relationship for the sake of bills, security, so that you won’t be alone, so that you won’t feel lonely, or so that society will approve of you. You get into a relationship for love FIRST. It’s the most important essential of the relationship.
Get in a relationship with someone you feel completes you. They should be enough for you where you have no desire for anyone else outside of the relationship. It’s the only way you’re going to experience the deep spiritual connection. You must put your all into it. With trust, love and honesty you will experience the most divine love.
It’s not up to anyone to fix you. You gotta fix you. If you get lucky enough to come across an empath who will take time away from their mission to TRY to fix you, perhaps you should take the assistance and appreciate them. For they could definitely spend that love on someone else who will return it in full.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Oct 30, 2019 |
If you men would stop basing your relationships on what your mama did you would have a successful relationship.
First of all, Your mama doesn’t have 100,000 instagram followers. Your mama ain’t a badd chick.
Second of all, Your mama ain’t laced with divine confidence.
Your mama doesn’t think she’s the baddest chick in the game. She’s humble and aint no Nobel Peace Prize coming her way. That would require PURPOSE. Your mama ain’t purposed up.
Third of all, Your mama doesn’t have magic powers. Cause if she did, your mama would have a man who pays ALL of her bills, and she’d be glowing, happy AF, and raised you to be a KING who pays bills. (My male friends have mothers like this… Hence the reason they are Kings.)
P.S. Dope women are not about to marry a man who still listens to his damn mama. Is your mama Oprah? Okay Then.
(No disrespect to anyone’s mama. But mama doesn’t always know the way. Listening to mama will get you dumped by a great woman. God already told you to CLEAVE.)
It doesn’t’ even make sense that some of you actually attempt to transfer your mama’s legacy onto your wife. If you watched your mama struggle, and you watched men wrong her, how TF do you as an adult man repeat the same damn pattern? How did that sh*t not piss you off enough to make you desire to be a good man?
Do you seriously want to raise little feminine boys who can’t provide for a woman? What’s the use of you having muscles? You may as well birth a baby. Oh, my fault, YOU CAN’T! Some play your damn role.
by Kissy Denise - The Masterpiece | The Goddess of Love & Motivation | Oct 30, 2019 |
I saw my Facebook feed this morning and read a really beautiful post about a woman who became rich by starting a business and now she too can provide for her BOYFRIEND.
As boss chicks we get sooo happy when we’re finally make 6-7 figures and we can buy whatever we want. We’re so full of love that we immediately turn around and start taking care of our boyfriend. Many women even desire to retire their husband so that he doesn’t have to work so hard.
I don’t have all of the answers, but I do know that Boss chicks get the short end of the stick. We can’t help that we are go getters. We can’t help that we love money. We can’t help that we only want to be in relationships with men that we actually love.
But those relationships don’t go right for us. The dynamics are off in the relationship. Eventually you get tired of a man trying to compete with you. Competing against you when all you’re trying to do is make sure that you’re both straight and can live the life of your dreams.
What most boss chicks don’t get is that you are playing the masculine position. This is truly demeaning for a man. HE wants to be able to spoil you and provide for you. If you can’t get him to the point where he starts his own business and gets his own money, it simply won’t work. Most times even if you do, he still wants nothing to do with you, because you made him. He resents you for pulling him up and not letting him do it by himself. He hates that you know the old struggle version of him. He now wants a woman who doesn’t know what version of him. He wants a woman who looks at him as a self-made man.
Meanwhile gold digger supreme is winning. Her man pays all the bills and absolutely loves her. He’s deeply invested in her.
Good women lose because of their hearts. You do too much. You’re too patient. You’re always making excuses for a man. You baby him. You pamper him. You love him. You speak to him like he’s a King. You pull him up. You do all of these things, and most time he’s not even your husband.
It is my belief that God created boss chicks to be with powerful men. But because you listen to society, you often settle for a man who is “nice” to you, then you proceed to drag him to the top with you. You take the little bit of love that he gives you and you turn it into hundreds of thousands or millions of dollars. You say “It’s cool honey. You can chill. I got this! Thanks for believing in me.” You take all of the financial pressure on. And you literally kick the door in and make it happen.
Then the break-up comes. You’re ready for a new relationship. You’re now rich, so you’re picky AF. You don’t need a man’s money, so you’re looking for a deep connection. Boom! You zoom in on some cute, silly guy. He can’t afford to buy you fancy dinners and it’s no big deal to you. I mean after all, you can afford to buy these things for yourself. You have fun with him, take him on a trip or two, then you start to notice he doesn’t appreciate you.
Your own good heart has you operating in masculine energy. And men… Men don’t see your EFFORTS as having a good heart. Oftentimes they actually think you’re dumb and that they are getting over on you who give so freely of your time, your body, your knowledge, your inspiration and yourself. It’s phucked up!
God made boss chicks powerful and magic. But there is something you must learn outside of the money. That something is what’s going to get you the dream man you seek.
You see the truth is, you want a rich man. You can’t help but to want a rich man. Your soul is rich. That’s why you make the money. You have a good heart, so of course you’re not going to feed your man scraps. You don’t want your man suffering or anyone suffering or going without for that matter. Money is simply a tool to live a good life to you. You have no selfishness about it.
Sis, you want to be married to a King, and you will make one if you have to. You’ve been building men. It’s really sweet. But it rarely ever works.
So here is what you must do. Sis, go get you a rich man. Don’t feel bad about it. You don’t need him for his money. We know this. What you need him for is his soul. It matches yours. He has the heart to get what he wants out of life. He WANTS to be KING and is willing to do what it takes to be King, just like you were willing to do what it took to BE QUEEN.
But here’s the thing. Your King is masculine. Add in the fact that you’re spiritual, beautiful, and brilliant, and now you must upgrade to a divine King. Now add in the fact that you’re powerful AF, you make things happen, can’t nobody tell you nothing. You gotta have things your way, and you’re quite used to being smarter than the men you date, and now Sis, you gotta complete shift all the way up to pure 5D God King.
See there are some Prince’s who have been given God King power, but they haven’t activated it all the way, because he is still willing to watch a woman struggle. He would only be an upgraded version of your past relationships. And you wouldn’t even know this, because now you’re not struggling. You have it all together, so it’s like of course he wants to be with a woman who has her OWN. That makes the load lighter for him. It’s easy work. But he won’t have much respect for your hustle and grind. He will sit back and watch you do all of the work and let you purse him. HE only cares how feminine you are. Everything with him is about your WORDS and how those words benefit him. So you want to skip him and go all the way up to full on activated God King who wants to DO for you. He wants to pamper you and spoil you. He wants to add smiles to your day. He sends texts reminding you that he’s thinking of you. Unexpected gifts show up at your house.
See he’s in full pursuit. That’s the man you want. That’s the man who is finally going to be King in your life and give you your true hearts desire. With him you will finally fully enter the land of Dream Life. That man is going to tell you that he’s been waiting his whole life to meet you. He’s going to appreciate you. You’re going to have a deeply, passionate, soul transcending, spiritual connection. He will make your heart beat again. Loudly. You share many interests with him. You have positive core beliefs about the way you wish to live. A powerful combination of energy. You’ll both be in alignment with the source of all there is. And with him too, all you have to do is be your divine feminine self. He will also be able to utilize your MAGIC and knowledge, to create a billion dollar empire.
But no one tells you these things. So you’ve spent your life trying to settle and be normal… fit in with the human society. But you’re a full on Goddess Sis. You have real life MAGIC powers and you know this. You weren’t created to be with a mere mortal.
Now the good news is you still have time to implement a new strategy and create some little god babies.
If you would like my help healing and manifesting your soulmate, inbox me on Facebook. You Can’t Force A Man To Value You is also doing numbers on Amazon. That book so so good, that if you don’t have it, you need to get your mind and your vision right. Get access to whatever Kissy does. It will always be MAGIC.
