Stephen Jackson and his NBA co-star Matt Barnes, have quickly taken over the internet with their top-rated Showtime Podcast – “All The Smoke.” The two men have quite a history with the women in their lives.
Obviously they make a very entertaining duo in Sports commentary and relationship facts of life.
During a recent Instagram live video, Stephen posted a very interesting video telling men to get a wife and to stop chasing multiple women. He also went into detail about why he left Basketball Wives star Imani Showalter at the alter.
Here is that video:
It was an extremely interesting video, centered around Imani deciding to not sign a pre-nup agreement.
All of it was quite fascinating to me, and I was actually surprised to see a man in Stephen’s position utilizing his life and his own past mistakes to lead men the right way.
So I decided to follow up with him and go deeper on this thoughts on relationships. I interviewed Stephen to get further insight into the wedding that never happened and the depth of emotions behind it.
There were certain things he didn’t want to talk about, which he informed me of a few minutes before we went on. I did my best to extract from him the enlightening information that could help others.
Here is the interview below:
Here are the high points that I took from it, from my own perspective.
1. I asked him about his mindset on other people being in his business, because he clearly stated on the first interview, that he didn’t listen to the NBA when they warned him against Imani. This made me very aware of how important she was to him. Therefore my line of questioning, was to show people the emotions from a high value man’s perspective, when he believes he has found real love. He put LOVE before money.
2. He knew OF Imani, and although she has kids with him, they never truly knew each other. Living the lifestyle that Stephen lived their were hoards of women coming at him. He chose Imani for whatever reason, yet spiritually they were not equally yoked.
3. Stephen is a giver. Givers have a habit of self-sacrifice and over-giving because they give from the heart. However in society, people often believe that they are getting over on such people. They don’t realize that NO, the person is very aware of what they are doing, and simply chooses to give from their heart. It’s simply what people who follow God do.
4. He stated that Imani didn’t tell him her real name for YEARS. That’s cray, cray. Was she embarrassed of something in her past. What was the reason behind that?
5. Men want to be loved and appreciated too. A high value, MASCULINE man has ZERO need for a woman’s money. What he needs is a woman who does the little things and actually cares about him. The part about his wife sneaking off to get him something as simple as a birthday cake meant so much to him, because he knew it was from the heart. She wanted to do something to show him how special he is to her.
6. Fathers need to be shown more appreciation for the financial contributions. While most would say “He’s doing what he’s supposed to do.” or “Women do it all of the time by themselves.” What he was saying is that he didn’t pay any REGULAR amounts of child support. He paid child support in excess and UPGRADED those women’s lives. To which he felt very little gratitude. The gratitude is necessary because most highly successful men become the greats they are due to wanting to do more for their families and be better men. That’s what Stephen pointed out.
7. For my Unicorn Tribe, what I deeply got from this interview is that you do yourself a great disservice by going after men or dealing with men who are not wealth conscious. Regular men don’t appreciate bad chicks. They also don’t appreciate you buying them gifts. Buying the average man gifts is considered quite masculine. It will repel him. But men like Stephen will appreciate your cooking, and all of the extra sparkles you put into gifts, birthdays and special occasions. You want to be a great wife, but you can’t be a great wife to a man who doesn’t know what GREATNESS in, let alone appreciates it.
One of the biggest things for Unicorns is that you know how tired high value men must be of women who buy them t-shirts with his own money, or going out to buy him gifts with his own money. You feel that behavior is backwards. So you’ve set out to be the exception to the rule. Except you’re not dating exceptional men. So it backfires on you. You showing your heart backfires when you date the wrong men.
You need to level up and get a wealthy man. Not for his money, but for his mindset. He has a mindset of gratitude. He’s experienced enough women to actually know what real love is and appreciate it.
When a man doesn’t recognize and value true love, there is nothing you can do for him. You can never do enough for him.
8. More men need to become self-aware and take self-accountability for their behaviors, as to how they treat women and how they cause their own dysfunction and chaos.
9. I would love to discuss more with him about the off again, on again relationships and the man’s mindset versus the woman in the relationship who is waiting on him to comeback and why men decide to go back again.
10. As for Imani, I don’t have to talk to her to know that much of her mindset told her that she was acting in love by sticking by him through thick and thin and break-ups during a back and forth relationship. Here is a link to her response.
When a woman accepts a man at his worst, there is no reward. He stays with the woman who only accepts him at his best. There is no reward for self-sacrificing yourself in the name of love.
I’m not taking sides or being biased. I’m simply writing it how it is.
But here’s another thing. Stephen mentioned at some point that Imani was never an actual WIFE. Yet, look at how she benefitted from being with a high value man. That’s the thing about a high value man. A woman is going to benefit from being with him one way or another.
Yet, so many of you Unicorns date below your level. You give men chances. You buy them cars. You buy them gifts. You pay half the bills or mostly ALL of the bills. When you buy a man gifts they are luxury items that go unappreciated. You wear your heart on your sleeves and your money is apart of your heart. So you give. You have to learn to stop trying to effort your way there, and actually date a man who simply digs you for you. THEN you can be your true giving self with him.
In my past I had a man tell me that he actually DESERVED all of the fancy gifts that I purchased him, even though, no woman before me purchased him such things. Heck, the ones he dated couldn’t afford to. Needless to say, he was quite a drain on me. But that’s what I did to myself, by accepting him in his imperfections. He NEVER accepted my imperfections. He was blind and couldn’t see my divinity. That same man though told me in the VERY beginning, when I got him a cake for his birthday cake and cooked for him, that I was doing too much and only trying to prove that I was better than other women. In reality, I AM BETTER, but my intent was to simply delight him. That’s what I do. I like doing DELIGHTFUL things. I’m extra AF! But just to show you DEEPER the mindset. I actually cooked him something LIGHT, I intentionally didn’t go all out, because I didn’t want him to feel like I was doing too much. But even being 3/4 of me backfired, because it just doesn’t work… You gotta be you. But if you are tired of it all and wanting to settle, just do LESS, do every little for men. Yet, that same behavior may backfire when you finally meet your real soulmate. It is so difficult for heart-centered people to find their way in this world.
Women can blame men, and like I say men are to blame. But a woman mostly has to blame herself for her willingness to ACCEPT an imperfect man.
As one of my prayer warrior friends reminded me the other day, you don’t have to wonder if a man is God sent. When he’s God sent he’s going to be better than you expected. And not just better in one way, while he miserably fails in another and pushes you into activating pain wounds, but good for you, where being with him comes easy to you. That’s the peace and divine connection the God wants you to feel.
But as Stephen reiterated at the end of our interview, you only get that when you do the work of healing yourself, finding your authentic self and FULLY loving yourself. You can’t find true love when you’re too afraid to be you.
When we are with the wrong people, we are too afraid to express our emotions for fear they will get upset or not like us anymore. That’s a red flag that neither of you are leading in LOVE.
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Without vision, the people will perish. ~ Proverbs 29:18
Most of the things I’ve learned about relationships came from my own experiences. I am not copying anyone’s path. I am actually living experiences, gathering data, analyzing, comparing and coming to a great understanding about life. That’s on top of all of the research and clients whose problems that I help solve.
Therefore I speak the truth. But the masses don’t like truth. They like HD High Resolution delusions. Therefore they are on a constant path of never actually capturing the truth. The truth is the only thing that’s real in this world. The truth is LOVE. Only people who love you will tell you the truth. Because they want you to get better.
To get better, you must always go within and blame self. See how you are causing your own problems. Everything is really a reflection of yourself.
I started out my life in the projects. When I went to school, people judged me for that. I wore their judgements on me. Yet, I’ve had a sense of awareness ever since I was 2-years-old. I am a light, born into the dark. I understand the darkness and I understand the light.
Because of that, most of my journey has been about bringing others who are in the darkness, into the light.
You know what I’ve learned? It’s like pulling teeth and nails. People in the dark fight to stay there. The light isn’t real to them. What’s real to them is their pain and their trauma. They wear it as a badge of honor. They like complaining, They really don’t want help or real change that we call SOLUTIONS.
You know who actually gets help? The spiritual people. The people who go towards the light.
There are some highly enlightened people in this world. Most of them were not born into the darkness. They have very little understanding of the darkness. And you know what? There is no need for them to. People in the darkness, don’t focus on them. They never find them.
I used to feel so much pressure on my shoulders to wake people up. How could I not, as one of the top bloggers in the world, who actually posts content that affects humans, and not just content to entertain the masses. I see real human life and suffering.
But suffering is a choice. I learned that the hard way through my own suffering. Whenever you decide to stop suffering, it stops. You get whatever you CHOOSE to focus on. If you focus on the dark, you’ll see more of it. If you focusing on loving yourself, you’ll attract people of the opposite sex who love you.
Whenever you decide to be rich, you’re rich. Everything is about a decision in life.
Some in this world, choose to see people through the eyes of light and love. Those people can see into the very depths of a person’s soul.
Others are still in this world, climbing over others, snatching whatever they can to win in life. Those people believe they HAVE to do this, or they HAVE to do that, in order to make money. Those are the lost people, who are also CHOOSING to see life the way they do.
So when a woman pops up in a lost man’s life, even if he is successful, conscious, and feeling like he’s walking in his purpose, he wouldn’t be able to see a woman of light, because his eyes are blinded by material gain, and the glitter of the multiple women in the world. He could have his soulmate in his face and not be able to see her.
A man could meet this soulmate and be like “let’s be friends first. Let’s be friends for 2 years and let’s keep being friends until you show up perfect. Then once you show up perfect, THEN maybe i’ll think about a relationship. THEN maybe i’ll think about marriage. Such men ruin their own lives, because the only women who tend to show up perfect ENOUGH are the women who truly don’t give af about them. Those women lack emotional connection to such men and keep the men chasing, no matter what she does. They are both mirroring one another.
Meanwhile, plenty of women will follow the advice of such a man, because HE’S a man. Women will follow just about anything a man says about relationships. I’m surprised that more men don’t claim that space, cause they’d make loads of money, even if he really has no idea how to maintain a truly healthy relationship. And women who follow such men, continue to stay in the dark for the rest of their lives.
Only spiritual people can truly and deeply tell you about your patterns and traumas that truly cause you your own problems. WHY? Because those are the people who refused to settle for less and actually set upon figuring life out.
For instance, look at these two enlightened posts.
As you can see, Kenza sees the TRUE problems, that pervade women. She keeps it real. So because she keeps it real people would believe her to be angry or bitter. Because she keeps it real, she attracts women with problems, and not women who want to FIX their problems. Broken people will keep following her, without having the sense to inbox her and ask her how they can get help in relationships from her.
Because she CHOOSES to be single, a person would believe that she doesn’t know what she’s talking about.
These are the two things that also keep the people in the light, who actually do seek help, from being attracted to her. People in the light HATE negativity with a passion. It triggers us. But those of us with the highest consciousness, who came from the dark, still know the TRUTH, that society lives in. When people only know fake, they hate the real. Yet, it’s the real ones who can snatch you awake and change your 30 year pattern. The ones born into light, can lead you to the light, but it’s a long azz process with them. Someone like Kenza will be like “Listen Sis, bam, bam, bam!” Then you’re woke.
Meanwhile as she posts, the men who are in the LIGHT, then judge us for our truths, and believe us to be bitter, broken and blah, blah, blah It’s none of that. It’s simply healing for women in the dark. Even a lot of women perceive the posts to be negative.
But women in the dark choose to be there, by not helping themselves. Women in the dark will never FEEL good enough, which is why they attract men who tell them they aren’t enough or make them feel like they aren’t enough. All because they CHOOSE to entertain his imperfections… Meanwhile he constantly tells her that SHE is not perfect. 😂😅
You won’t stop TRYING to prove yourself to men or EFFORT your way with men, until you’re fully in the light. It’s a process. Until then you’ll keep having problems with men. Dream man shows up, when YOU show up.
Therefore the process is a must. Cause only men who are fully in the light, can see the light of a glorious woman. But first you have to FULLY see yourself.
If any light worker is reading this post, the lesson here is, there is ZERO point of focusing on people in the dark. While yes you can wake a few handfuls of a few hundred or even thousands of them up, to do so and focus on them is simply another form of self-sacrifice. That’s why reality tv and ENTERTAINMENT is most popular amongst them.
People who seek knowledge, will simply find their way. Bask in the true JOY of your heart, where you belong. It’s not up to you to wake them up. You are called to help the people who are on the path.
The time on Goddess Unleashed says you have 15 hours left to join. So if you are a GODDESS and you are tired of the b.s. and you want healing to walk into the light and attract a GOD, it’s time to buy into a new,, more pleasurable frequency, where men make YOU feel good.
Woke up this morning and God was not in the mood to play with me. So, here is the download that I received. He told me to deliver it straight with no chaser. No sweet sugar coated stuff in church today. I’m about to serve it like a nice, crisp, red wine.
Men love to complain about women. But I’m about to show you how you screw yourself.
Is the woman you’re sticking your d*ck in right now able to see your future?
Probably not. But every day or every week, there you are giving her your life force.
A woman multiplies everything you GIVE her, but what is she multiplying? NOTHING. But there you go WASTING your sperm.
WHY? Because she gives it to you for free and isn’t putting a charge to you. Because she doesn’t have a HIGH value. She is BASIC and made you work just a pinch, but she still doesn’t want much out of life. So sexing her is very affordable for you.
And guess what else? You think you’re getting over. 🤣
You think you’ve struck a wise deal.
You think the men who PROVIDE are fools. 🤣
A man who is heavily invested in his woman
You know what most men who provide real problem is? Not once in his life has he EVER committed to one woman. Nope, instead he’s everywhere sniffing this p*ssy, chasing that p*ssy. Posting this p*ssy, saluting that p*ssy, double tapping on any p*ssy that’s online taking her clothes off. He gives, gives, gives to every woman he comes across, WITHOUT COMMITTING. And a divine woman wouldn’t be caught dead in a marriage with him. She doesn’t care how much money he has. She doesn’t want to suffer the embarrassment that comes with a man who can’t control his urges.
Therefore he is a trick. He tricks himself out of LOVE, because HE won’t commit. He has shiny object syndrome. Chances are he’s never been married, or he cheated on his faithful, committed wife with what? NEW VISIONLESS P*SSY. She’s a cool new portal that keeps him unfocused.
INSTAGRAM for Silly Men
There is nothing better to a man than the sight of new p*ssy. He’s in love with it before he can even taste it. He gets excited upon sight of it. He forgets about everything he had going on with any other woman, because that new new is what’s up.
Thirst Trapping 101 for SILLY MEN
Now, to all men. DO THIS……
Ask the woman you’re chasing, or the woman you’re sticking your d*ck in, what your future looks like.
Ask her the VISION for you future.
Guess what? Chances are she’s going to tell you that you’re a nice guy. But she doesn’t know the plans that God has for you.
WHY? Because she’s not the one for you.
The woman for you has God’s plan for your life encoded into her. She often knows WHERE you are going BEFORE you even tell her.
She’s a King maker. She probably has a history of trying to drag men to the top, because SHE can see his future. She can’t even help herself. She’s done this for men who were not her husband. So he rejected her.
I repeat, THE WOMAN FOR YOU HAS A VISION FOR YOUR LIFE. It’s part of the reason why she believes in you. God told her to. But chances are you aren’t paying THAT woman any attention or taking her serious. You haven’t INVESTED in her. So she has to go BUILD with another man.
See here is the thing. I woke up this morning and God told me to tell the truth. He told me to stop holding back. He told me to STOP pretending like I am anything like other women. He told me to stop being disobedient.
The Lord told me to drop the truth that society will not like.
Every woman wasn’t created to just look pretty. Some women are SEERS & PROPHETS. Not only can they SEE the vision, but some can speak life over it. The words she speaks, shall come to pass. Not only that, but some also have BUSINESS MINDS, so they can literally help you build it.
But she will help you in HER own way. Maybe she’ll use her hands, which most men and women will deem MASCULINE. Maybe she’ll just tell you the VISION. Either way she has to bring the vision to life the best way she knows how.
SHE IS A LOADED GPS SYSTEM WITH A LIFE DESIGN MAP.
That woman wants you to be successful, just as much as she desires her own success. THAT’s LOVE.
But most people outside of the God & Goddess realm do not recognize love or know what it is.
So it’s difficult for you to fit into this world.
2 minds = 1 HEART = SACRED, DIVINE LOVE
When two hearts come together on a common goal with CONSISTENCY, you can consider it done. It’s bible. And So It Is.
Now, if you would like to change your life and finally build that 7 Figure Empire, then you need to work with me to get aligned to YOUR vision or work with me to find the woman God implanted with YOUR vision. Or if you’re smart, you’ll do like my one client and do BOTH. THIS is what I DO!
Church is now over. The offering plate is being passed around.
Inbox me when you’re ready to INVEST and change YOUR life.
Cause this is what I do. I’ve helped men build 6-7 Figure Empires. I help men attract divine women. But if you’ve read, my book, You Can’t Force A Man To Value You, then you know I learned the truth about myself through a lot of trial and tribulations.
Sidenote: I have to write this for the UNCONSCIOUS, NON-ENLIGHTENED men who think I said a women is a work slave. Here is how high value, HIGH PERFORMING relationships work. HIRE A MAID. HIRE A CHEF. That’s not what a woman is for. Her help is INTERNAL. You are a man. Your help is EXTERNAL.
LADIES: KNOW YOUR WORTH. If a man isn’t giving his ALL to you, including HIS money, you are wasting your time Sis. Brilliant women are not meant for bum dudes or men who don’t spoil them. You are an INVESTMENT. No matter how you feel, it is what it is. A man must and will invest in what he loves. If you want a man to love you, tell him to break bread. Men easily leave anything they are not heavily invested in like a little boy drops his favorite new toy when he gets a shiny new one.
Oh, and screw these 50/50 men. Your man comes prepared to put you on his already made plate. You are sprinkles on top of a freshly made ice cream cone. You are a BONUS, that is to be appreciated. A GOD KING already knows this. He needs no convincing.
P.S. Ladies, some of you are STILL too damn masculine. Don’t get it twisted. Femininity is a must. It’s all about BALANCE.
Men, the world would be a better place if ya’ll stopped telling beautiful women to humble themselves. If you want a humble chick, go get a basic chick. Stop trying to knock a woman’s fabulosity and step your mthfkn game up.
If a chick is badd as phuck, it’s so she can get MORE out of life. Not be less. Ya’ll use the word HUMBLE without even knowing the definition.
HUMILITY is not going to make you rich. Nobody gives a phuck about humble people. Frankly I distance myself away from people who tell you to humble yourself. They wish ill will on you. Even if they want to see you do good, their VISION and EMOTIONS of wanting you to be less, cancel out the good they want to do. Therefore they become pointless in your life. They LOVE chicks whom they FEEL better than.
Rich people don’t tell people to humble themselves. If a woman’s amazingness makes you uncomfortable, leave her alone. I promise you the rich man with the Bentley, living in a mansion, with a perfect white smile, custom tailored suits, and the diamond encrusted Rolex watch, will appreciate her.
At one point in my life I was so damn humble, that I found myself in an abusive relationship. That’s humility for that AZZ! You know what got me out of the relationship? Knowing I was too damn beautiful, too damn smart, too damn loving, and too damn awesome to be with a B*tch azz dude who didn’t appreciate me. Same thing that made me leave every other clown. I had to look at them negatively in an aggressive way. I had to look at them reflective to the way they looked at me. THAT is how I got my freedom.
Even in life coaching, when I am humble, people are silly enough to believe that the next coach would be better than me because they have been coaching longer or they run more ads or something. But no. I have one of the dopest brands in the game. I am not just a coach. I am a divine, spiritual healer. Heck, I healed my friend of Corona. That’s not anything to be humble about. But I am humble about that, because I know my power comes from God. I don’t take credit for that. I don’t take credit for my gift of healing, because I know I was gifted with it. I am humble IN GOD.
Men who want beautiful women to be humble, are men who haven’t worked that hard on their own appearance 99% of the time. Little do they realize they are so attracted to beautiful women, because he wants his appearance to be beautiful and symmetrical likes hers. All he has to do is treat her right, and she’ll get him together too. Just like Marjorie did Steve Harvey when he was out here wearing clown suits. Now that man keeps a high profile job.
Steve didn’t tell Marjorie to humble herself. Instead he LIFTED her up even higher. Same thing with Russel Wilson and Ciara. Then men resent the fact that we like Steve and Russell. Like Dude, TREAT YOUR WOMAN LIKE A QUEEN and other women will like and admire you too. Heck no we’re not impressed with the low self-esteem woman who is married to a rich man who dogs her out. So we’re definitely not impressed with the basic chick who gets treated like crumbs by a 50/50 man.
Beautiful women are for men who APPRECIATE the full beauty of life. They like the FINER things in life.
P.S. TRUE HUMILITY are the LIGHT WORKERS who do the hard work of creating businesses that change lives. HUMILITY is putting yourself out there and following your purpose. It’s easy to hide in the background. It takes strength to be a leader of thousands or millions of people and lead them into the light.
P.P.S. A grand woman is humbled by LOVE from a GREAT MAN. Humble yourself and show up as HIM. She’s not humble to you, because you haven’t humbled your damn self. If a man wants a woman to be impressed by him, then he needs to do impressive things and just MAYBE she’ll feel lucky to have such an amazing man.
There are men out here who won’t even open a woman’s car door for her, but walking around talking about how charming he is. Ninja Please!
It’s amazing that no one teaches men that the way a woman acts is deeply a reflection of HIM, and how he’s showing up in her life. A man doesn’t need to tell a badd azz chick to humble herself. She will humble herself when he humbles himself.
Men want women to be nice to them so badly, while only showing half way up. They will have sex with you raw, but won’t show you the rawness of their emotions. Won’t fully invest in a woman. Won’t commit. They depend on multiple women to feed their ego and tell every woman to humble herself.
Men who don’t fully show up really think they are the best thing since sliced cornbread. WHY? Because he has money. That’s it, that’s all. It’s not cause he’s actually spoiling his woman and making her feel like a Queen.
Women have to do 10 times the work and keep going within, just to blame themselves and continue to make excuses for why a man isn’t showing up properly.
It’s so exciting to be with a man who is actually AWARE of his own behaviors and moves to fix them. But see, men only do that when they find the right woman. And you become the right woman most times by becoming more perfect and constantly looking within for what’s wrong with you.
It’s amazing that women are able to have high self-esteem at all in this world.
Personally I will never let a man snatch my phucking confidence. He’d better rise the phuck up and bow to the throne of the Queen Goddess that I AM. I’d rather a man who is powerful enough to love me and deal with me at the same time. An alpha man is gentle at heart is EVERYTHING.
Men always want a woman to love them for them. But how many of them can love a strong, powerful, smart, beautiful, amazing woman, for who she is?
Then some of them actually get hot water cornbread disgusted that so many women are so religious and put God first. Cause if she doesn’t put God first these damn men will break her azz in two.
The light and world is a beautiful thing, but if those women came across the average man, those men would eat their light and love azzes for breakfast.
Most men in the world have no idea that most women really just want to be a good wife to a good man, but men make it so difficult, because they have shiny object syndrome, and are constantly chasing after beautiful women. Life is like one big azz buffet to most of them.
People in this world have their hearts so far away from love, that they can’t even begin to understand it.
If a man wants a woman to humble herself, then he needs to step his d*ck stroke game up. Most women will become humble after a man phucks the sh*t out of her and has her exploding in orgasm, followed up by being a PROVIDER. Excuse my language but sometimes I just write it like it is.
People seriously need to understand how they call their own problems. Everything isn’t a woman’s fault, and most women’s problems are caused by men. Like damn, why does 7/10 men have to be a bad choice? Of course she got hurt somewhere on the journey.
Men can be so insensitive sometimes.
Learn how to hug a woman sometimes and tell her she is awesome. Tell her she’s the most beautiful woman in the world. Tell her you appreciate her. Tell her she’s amazing. Stop trying to make her feel less than, like your father did to your mama.
Like damn, is it okay if she’s happy? Is it okay with you if she’s excited and smiling?
Try once in your phucking life, to actually FULLY love the glory of a woman.
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“The average man doesn’t know the difference between a gold digger and a goal digger. Which is why he has neither. He marries a basic chick who helps him sleep on his legacy.
Both gold diggers and goal diggers have VISION. Smart Kings want women with VISION, who want something out of life. They understand that women are helpmates.”👁 ~ Kissy Denise
So often a man comes to me and tells me that people ONLINE think I’m a gold digger. I tend to just look at him. I say nothing. I don’t tell a man how to think. I prefer the small population of men who can see me for exactly what I AM. I am a woman who speaks the truth about what high value women want. I refuse to allow women to sit around thinking that only gold diggers deserve to get the good men who provide. High value goal diggers work hard AF to build a business and deserve a good man who will lighten her load.
The saddest thing about all of this actually has nothing to do with me. Me is just the vehicle that opens up my eyesight to exactly what’s going on in the world.
Many people also tell me to take myself out of my blogs, because people judge me. The truth is life is all about being judged. You are judged by people who don’t even know you. You as a woman are HEAVILY judged based upon the man you choose to marry or get in a relationship with. The better of a man you’re with, the better the masses look at you. When a man treats you like your worthless, society also looks at you as such. Just look at Ciara. All it took for her was to marry the right man who values her. Ciara was already the sh*t before Russell. But before him she chose sh*tty men who couldn’t see her value. NO, it wasn’t all her fault. But in societies eyes and in the light and love world everything gets blamed on you.
In the online world they try to bully single women into settling for less. They tell you something is wrong with you, if you won’t settle. They beat you down as long as you are single. Really good women cave to the pressure of PUBLIC RECOGNITION and VALIDATION through the eyes of a man, and wind up with a man who is less than your dream man.
I want you to get what you want out of life. Therefore I write these blogs explaining things to all who read and follow me. No matter what I write, people will judge me. No matter what you do, people will judge you. It’s up to you to control their judgements by writing your storyline properly.
Now, if you follow me, and know who I AM, YOU WANT A LOT OUT OF LIFE.
You don’t want just any mate, but you want an amazing mate. You want a divine King or a Queen. You want a healthy, conscious relationship and to raise kids and have a family in a good household. You want your kids to truly know what it means to experience healthy love, and great success in this world. You don’t want your kids having to experience the same things you did. This is a part of your purpose in life.
Many men have experienced some of the most unappreciative, ungrateful, most selfish, emotionally unavailable women in your life. No matter how hard you worked, she was never pleased with you. So you barely had a chance to love you. Society tells men to chase money, and to not chase women. So they settle for any woman who chases him. Yet, men are taught that they can have ANY woman they want, when they have money.
This is basically true. Yet, by the time a man finally gets that money, he’s often been conditioned by society to fear gold diggers. Instead of actually now going to get his dream woman and giving her what she wants, he operates in fear, wanting a woman to prove her love to him. He wants her to operate in masculine energy for his sake. He doesn’t trust the purest love she comes with.
Therefore his fears manifest into exactly what he didn’t want. A gold digger. She is often the only woman patient enough to wait around on him. Her mind is SUPER FOCUSED on her objectives. She doesn’t care about his emotions or hers. She remains unswayed. When a woman who actually loves him, says she wants him to provide, he fears she is a gold digger.
Many good hearted women are aware of this, so she sets out right away to prove herself by paying half, buying him things, taking him on trips, cooking, cleaning, giving him mind blowing sex, and literally speaking to the King in him. When he doesn’t show up as she wants, she gets EMOTIONAL. Men are programmed to not like women who are emotionally invested in them. Instead they prefer women who they are emotionally invested in… Which is why gold diggers win. They make men INVEST. Amazing men often have no value for a woman who doesn’t get him to financially and emotionally invest in her. Because the DOING and EFFORTING part is not what he needs a woman for.
What a great man in this world is really searching for is a woman who touches his heart and can see his vision. She knows that man upon sight of him. For God will tell her who he is. He tells her so that she can HELP him get there and believe in him. She stands in the gaps of his VISION and holds space for him. God created woman as a helpmate for a man. But he never said she had to work in the garden. She doesn’t need to. It’s her VISION and belief in him and seeing him as his highest self that helps him win faster. It’s a spiritual woman’s understanding of manifestation and detachment that will calm his stress and help him see that he is doing his best. A man does have to eat, so yes, she does need to coordinate meals. Either herself, they share or a chef is hired. But most men have no value for the exact woman he NEEDS. And many great women get used up by trying to prove themselves.
These great women are goal diggers. They want something out of life and they are actively moving towards building their own wealth. They work hard. They study hard. If they see a man who needs helps, she pulls up her sleeves, shows off her strong arms and jumps in to help. It backfires nearly every time. It backfires because a King doesn’t need physical help from a woman. He needs IDEAS from her. He needs peace from her. He needs motivation from her. He needs to know she will always be there for him.
Goal diggers are great business partners for men. Such a marriage would be a business relationship. When it comes to building an empire, marriage is indeed a business. The problem is that people think that LOVE isn’t part of the business. LOVE is the business. When you are aligned with your sacred soulmate you are going to love them and build an empire with them. That is why you have that desire in your heart.
Men are men, but 70% of them have no idea what they need, no more than a woman does. Everyone is on a path of discovering and figuring out this thing called life. But because people don’t know what they want, a lot of time is being wasted.
Meanwhile the gold diggers who don’t lift a finger to work, know what they want. She knows she wants a man to provide for her. Her goal is clear cut. She doesn’t care about how a man looks. She doesn’t care how old he is. She doesn’t care if she loves him or not. Her only goal is obtaining SECURITY for herself and her kids. Because of her decisions, her children prosper.
Goal diggers often don’t make a decision to secure a man who provides until later in life after they’ve been screwed over by multiple 50/50 men and left to fend for themselves and raise children on their own. It’s usually a provider man who then pops up to heal her and show her the way. She’s learned life lessons the hard way. She got body slammed for going against the soul of her own dreams and goals.
She too was supposed to get a man who provided. But she listened to society who told her to just take any man and love him. She tried to love the wrong men and pull him up. He hated her for it. He hated that she was so full of love and didn’t see him as a WHOLE man who could do it on is own. Men truly don’t understand what real love is, and women don’t understand that real love doesn’t mean she has to HELP with her hands.
Once again, who hops up to heal her after that man rejects her and breaks her heart? A King who pays bills. He magically walks in and says, “Queen, let me show you how you should be treated.” Sometimes he turns into a husband, and sometimes he’s simply a messenger on the way, doing his thing of healing women.
Sometimes he, as he heals women, doesn’t realize that he views women as an object. Which is the REAL reason why, despite him being a provider he hasn’t been able to get his dream woman. At other times these men are married to a woman who isn’t his dream woman. Since he’ll never leave his wife out of obligation and some form of loyalty, he gets joy from providing for a younger woman who will be appreciative of his nurturing and financial support. He lives a small part of his truth through her. Gold diggers heavily understand this.
Goal diggers on the other hand, can see the lack of love in such men and won’t fully be with them.
Then here comes the man who truly wants to be King. He believes the women to be using that man up. He doesn’t take note of what that other man was doing wrong. So he goes into the mindset that he is not providing. He then wastes his own time, moving slow, getting little respect from women, entertaining the desperate women, until another man comes along and snatches his dream woman up. Then he wakes up, once he sees her happy with another man. He is now ready for the next good woman who comes along. Most times he missed the boat. Even if she’s a great woman she’ll still be a settle. Nothing will ever compare to the one who got away, because HE didn’t move as a King should.
Goal diggers have libraries. They read. They are loving and kind. They have beautiful hearts and follow God. They won’t marry any man, simply because he has money. They won’t marry a man who is devoid of love. They are programmed to wait on their husband.
Some women are King builders. They are shown the abundance codes for every man she loves. All men who listen to her prosper around her. She is usually the man woman who is EFFORTING her way through life. She’s not exactly a pick me, but she does try to build herself a bear all too often.
It’s not up to anyone to fix all of the confused people. It’s up to you to meet, state your wants, needs and desires and see if they are in agreement with you.
Even you meet ANYONE who can see your future just as good or better than you see it, tread lightly. See things from all sides. Is this person your divine sacred soulmate? Do you have a connection? That connection is going to be the same at month 2 as it is at month 16. Some fear love, so they waste time instead of diving all in and figuring it out. FEAR is the programming running the minds of 98% of the population. Which is why only 2% of the people truly win in life. Those are the people who truly believe in themselves and found great love.
Here are the 3 types of women and their differences:
A Gold Digger – All she cares about is money and being provided for. Period
A GoalDigger – She wants love and legacy together under the same roof. She wants a great King.
A basic chick – All she cares about is love. She doesn’t desire an actual King. She’s not encoded to help a King. She has limited vision. She is called to mate with the average man. She can care less about being rich. Therefore she won’t be, and neither will her man.
MEN: Where has dating a basic chick ever got you in life? Nowhere. You got where you are by sheer wit, with very little support, if you have a history of dating basic chicks. That’s the same way 50/50 men do women, but worse, because a man is powerful.
Men who marry gold diggers win in success, and lose in love. Men who marry goal diggers win the game called LIFE. Men who marry basic chicks, live mediocre lives. Those are the men who are on the internet complaining about women, trying to pull women down. It’s so easy to get a good woman.
There is alot of noise in the world. It’s up to you to DECIDE what you want, then make an ACTION PLAN to get it. It’s a must that you ignore everyone who is not with the plan.
Ladies, it doesn’t take a man 2-3 years to figure this out. He is simply looking, wondering if better will come along. The internet exists in this day and age. Beautiful women are everywhere. That helps men develop shiny object syndrome. They spend years of their life looking at shiny OBJECTS, chasing shiny OBJECTS, instead of walking into love.
You slow yourself down when you allow him to use you as a waiting stool. You turn yourself into a PICK ME, when you wait on him. At any time God has assigned at least 2 different men to you. One of them will move, stake his claim and get going on his mission. The other will be distracted. Leave some space open for the man who sees you and wants to claim you.
You Can’t Force A Man To Value You. You have to value yourself enough to only deal with men who do value you and show up as that man TODAY.
If you’re dating any man right now who is not paying you attention, not taking you serious, he’s going on trips with other women, he’s posting photos with other women, posting other women’s voices on his stories, and he’s doing everything to show you that he is still looking for the one, it’s you who is not ACCEPTING him as the man he is presenting himself to be.
You must call back your energy from him. He’s wasting your time. You can’t wait on him to wake up and see you. You have to value you. Often times women think a man is the best thing since sliced cornbread. But if you’ve been loving and kind to him and he still can’t see you, then know that God actually does have better for you. If he wanted to be your husband he would be. Instead he’s using you as training ground for his wife.
The truth phucking sucks. But it will set you free. It will set you free, just as soon as you allow yourself to be free of expectations. The only thing you should expect from a man, is that when your King lays eyes on you, he is going to pull up proper. Until then you haven’t met YOUR King. Even if he is a King, when he hasn’t committed to you, he doesn’t belong to you, and neither you to him.
Right now the truth of the world, is that people are dying right now. Those who are in love have come closer together. Those who never had love are creating distance and falling apart.
The world will go back normal soon. Are you going to be someone who goes back to the same normal, boring routine of dating people for the heck of it, with no intentions? Or are you going to be part of the FEW who rise and go after their dreams and goals in love?
Don’t get caught up in the lives of people who aren’t ready for love. That’s their problem, not yours. It’s not up to you to show them how to love. They have to simply dive in and LOVE. Love isn’t a game. Life is a game of getting everything you love.
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💜🙌 Don’t chase him. Replace HIM. Replace them with a man with some real bands, who moves towards you like the lion that he is, who isn’t clouded by doubts of what he wants out of life, and is spending it and knows how to keep his woman happy.
Replace him with a real man. You don’t have to chase real men. They report to duty, chase you and PROVIDE for you. He shows up asking which bill can he pay for you. These other men suck, and hate to be told about themselves. They want you to kiss their sensitive, crybaby azz.
Moms didn’t teach him that women don’t respect men who don’t pay bills.
Oh, and shouts out to the men who pay bills, yet don’t understand why you’re not good enough for a Goddess, so your azz is out here settling for less. Kings want the best, not the lesser sweetie. Top notch women only do Top Draft picks. You ain’t getting in the Goddess league if your character is lacking. We do MVP’s around here only. We don’t do men who play checkers. That’s child’s play. Chess not checkers. Kings have a badd azz chick and build a legacy. 💋
ANY man who is willing to settle for less than the baddest of the baddest doesn’t deserve the baddest.
And ladies, there is a catch. There’s always a catch of course. If this resonates with you, ask yourself, where are you not honoring yourself? Where are you confused at? Cause the truth is you wouldn’t even be dealing with a man who EXPECTED you to chase him, if you had your mind and your divine feminine energy right. Why are you causing the SPIRIT of your highest self to chase you? Why do you keep running from you? A man can’t chase a woman who keeps running from HERSELF and her divine femininity.
I know right. You said you wanted your dream man right? Well Sis, here is your wake-up.
P.S. That same dude you’re chasing, the same dude who is LIGHT-WEIGHT coming at you, would be just as happy with a basic chick as he is with you. That’s another reason why he’s not showing up correct. Yes, you can do the work to change and shift it, but Sis, when he’s not showing up correct it’s not even worth it. YET, the change must still be made. Because this isn’t about him. This is about YOU. YOU attracted him.
You need a man with some testosterone who puts in EFFORT. That turns you on. Feminine men only help keep you in masculine, aggressive energy. Masculine men make you purr and bring out the femininity in you. You don’t have to sit around wondering why he’s not calling you, why he’s not taking you out nice places, why he’s not paying your bills, or why he’s only paying small change and feeding you birdfeed.
Men who don’t chase you and give you their all, are not your tribe.
Anyway, it’s time to join GODDESS UNLEASHED and get this over with Sis, cause you’re going to keep suffering until you figure it out. It’s so much easier to just come into my vortex and be SHIFTED.
Which is another thing. Why do you always have to do things the hard way? Why are you so hard headed? Aren’t you tired of being single and fabulous?
Look here Sis. The only way to attract your dream man is for you to become YOUR dream woman. Didn’t you read my book “You Can’t Force A Man To Value You – Becoming a HIGH VALUE WOMAN & Attracting Your Dream Man.”
You think I wrote out that long azz title for the heck of it? Sis, the message is SUPER clear. I gave you instructions, the same way the bible has given us instructions that we often fail to listen to.
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Portia actually has DR. in front of her name. The woman is brilliant and divine. She’s so fierce she doesn’t even need to use the title. Now if a woman of her caliber told her tribe to buy the book, what does that tell you? See, she loves her tribe and wants them to succeed, just as much as I want mine to succeed. Therefore we give them knowledge that will help them. We SHARE the info. We don’t keep it to ourselves. We have an ABUNDANT mindset so we don’t mind actually giving other women props or thanking them for showing up.
Anyway Sis, back to YOU.
Did you read the instructions in the book? I am sure you did. You’re brilliant. You read everything you can get your hands on. But you didn’t follow directions. (Masculine Men don’t like women with hearing problems.)
How do I know this? Because you didn’t JOIN Goddess Unleashed. If you did, you wouldn’t have these problems anymore.
I already know you said you’ll do it later, or maybe you said hey, I’ll just keep reading all of Kissy’s amazing free content, not click LIKE on her stuff, maybe even try to be like her, and blah, blah, blah. (wrong mindset)
But here is the thing. To be like Kissy, you have to DO THE WORK. The first part of the work is following directions. You bought the book for a reason. God wanted you to have that. He wants you to have the life of your dreams. Otherwise he wouldn’t have introduced you to his employee THE Goddess of Love & Motivation.
You said you wanted love, right? But you’re just talking. So I am here to call you on your sh*t and make sure that you get up and get it. Just like you get up and go get everything else you want out of life.
Here is THE LINK, I’ll see you inside Goddess Unleashed. NOPE! I don’t want to hear any BUTS or lip from you. Neither do men. Follow instructions and make sh*t happen in your life.
Oh my fault, I know, You thought this was about me. Sis, this stuff isn’t about me. It’s about HEALING and bringing love into the world. I am simply the messenger to wake your azz up. You ain’t trying to hear sh*t these other chicks are talking about anyway, because you’re not with the simple, basic, dry azz relationship they love to brag about.
You want a King, who comes through dripping, or at least has you dripping cause he’s blessed your life just that much.
If not, good luck on continuing to chase YOURSELF. If I were you, I would get answers.
Today ladies and gentleman we are going to discuss the topic of celibacy.
Many women go through bad relationships, then decide to go celibate afterwards. They hear the blasts from various preachers and social media experts telling them to close their legs. Then they walk around believing themselves to now be high value and virtuous.
Being celibate isn’t what makes a woman high value. Having a VALUE is what makes a woman valuable. When you’re celibate and later start having sex with a “nice guy” who you haven’t made prove HIS value to you, you’re simply going to get the same results.
Celibacy also doesn’t stop your trauma, wounding, patterns and limited beliefs. Celibacy isn’t going to teach you how to love and accept yourself. It also doesn’t teach you how to communicate your needs to a man. The only thing that will attract the high value husband you desire is healing, raising your standards, having boundaries and not giving a drop of p*ssy up until your demands are met. THAT is how you attract a high value man.
When Meagan Good was celibate, she took it upon herself to attract a GOOD, DIVINE PROVIDER MAN. That’s when all of her relationship problems stopped. Before that men were dogging her out, blogs dogged out her wardrobe, because she met men who couldn’t see her value. They got joy from mistreating a beautiful, rich, celebrity woman. She was a showpiece to use and throw away. Megan was always valuable, but no man was going to treat her as such until she valued herself enough to get a man who would.
Same thing with Ciara. We saw how 50 Cent, Bow Wow and Future all treated her. They treated Ciara like she wasn’t sh*t.
Like Rihanna said, some of these men real life be trying to fix their inner issues with a Bad B*tch. You don’t even need a man who doesn’t provide for you. Heck, he needs you.
Silly men feel better about themselves by mistreating a beautiful woman. That way they are able to brag to their friends and say a beautiful woman wants them and that he doesn’t want her back. They are traumatized and focused on revenge of their past, and taking it out on beautiful women, instead of healing and finding love.
Ciara can take care of herself, but Russell Wilson constantly says how he will take care of her and do anything to please her. Meanwhile look at how Future used to treat her?
I am big on telling women to take self-accountability, but NO, all men are not good men. Everything a man does is only a reflection of you if you stay with him or be with him. If you want to be respected in society you either get a good man or you remain single. No high value woman is honestly even impressed by 50/50 relationships. Any woman can be masculine and take care of herself. But it takes a divine woman to pull up with a man who provides and treats her like a Queen. It’s not meant for a Queen to toil in the dirt, when she can simply submit to a King who is going to lead her, provide for her, and make things happen in her life. Some women are maybe meant to operate more in masculine energy. But that’s not for a fine azz woman to do, if she doesn’t want to. She has OPTIONS. If a man doesn’t value you, he doesn’t get to have you. Let him go deal with a sweet, basic chick, who he will only tire of later, and wish he had a badd chick. Men who don’t get up and do what it takes to get their dream woman are weaklings. Beautiful women were not created to be with them. You were created for a man who goes hard in the mthfkn paint and believes in himself, like Jada Pinkett and Will Smith.
These women are winning on a large scale, because they are immensely loved by KINGS. Kings PROVIDE and honor their woman. Men don’t value you more just because you’re not giving it up. They don’t value low standard women. Do you see any low standards above?
What about on this one?
It’s time for women to wake up. NONE of these women are paying half, and they are treated like precious gold. But a 50/50 man will allow you pay him HALF, in order to deal with you. Not having sex isn’t exactly healthy. I’ve done it several times and I am absolutely crazy during that time. One time I even cut all of my hair off during a 1 year spell. Women are crazy when they don’t have d*ck in their lives.
So instead of throwing away your pleasure and sexually repressing yourself, make a decision to get a husband who proves himself worthy of having access to your nectar. Then you can be free to fully enjoy being connected to your body, and fully express your soul desires, the way you like. Sex is way more enjoyable with a man who values you. Then you can stop pretending to be a nun. That’s not the life that God has for you. He wants you to have FUN.
What’s fun to you? Love, Success, Purpose and perfect health. Get you some.
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When you think about all of the years you’ve spent cooking, cleaning, having sex and giving blowjobs to a 50/50 man, you can’t help but think about how much of your time and youth has been wasted.
That’s because that is not how Queens roll.
Not only was your time and youth wasted, but you walk away from those men with a negative perception of men.
WHY IS THAT?
It’s because you dealt with men who didn’t have it in their heart to prosper you. It’s because you met men who didn’t value your femininity.
Lately I hear so many women say “I want to be adored, not respected.”
Which is another something that I don’t subscribe to.
I don’t subscribe to limiting beliefs that makes people think they can only have one thing.
Some men will definitely respect a boss chick who brings her half to the table.
Some women say they bring nothing to the table, because they expect a man to provide the table.
To each it’s own. However I won’t run with any of those quotes. I am a real life Goddess. I am the table and I will mate with a male table. His table will be grand and opulent, because my table is grand and opulent. If his table is bigger than mine and I get to play on mine and put whatever cute stuff and sparkles on mine that I want, because he’s got me, that’s also AWESOME.
Regardless, I am a movement all by myself. To pretend that I am not the table would be a disjustice to who God called me to be.
I am not like most feminine women who can only help women. I am a Goddess that is empowered to heal both men and women. Therefore I must live in my own truth.
I love me some Beyonce, but even Bey can’t do it like me. Bey is a Goddess in her own lane. She’s the best performer in the world. I am one of the greatest healers in the world.
See that’s another thing about women. You must understand that we each have our own lane. No one is greater than you, when you walk in your own gift. God equipped you with something only YOU can do.
If I tried to sing and compare myself to Bey’s singing, I would lose every time.
Now someone would be quick to tell me “You ain’t no Beyonce.” And you know what? I would agree. I am KISSY.
Because I am KISSY DENISE, the truth is a man who needs me for half, is a waste of my time. WHY? Because he’s not powerful enough to keep me. I’ll run circles around him. Which is unfair to him, because my soul is called to mate with a GOD KING.
Women are selfish when you don’t live in your beautiful truths. You hurt men when you deny your own soul. No man wants a woman trying to drag him to the top with her. A man has to want to be there already.
A Goddess needs a man with a table that she can multiply through divine insight. She doesn’t need to touch his table at all. He can provide for her off the table, but it’s not like he’s doing it alone, if he’s open to understanding Goddess powers and applying insight from her.
Women are always trying to fit into a box or a quote that someone else says.
But, let’s talk about FACTS instead.
Cooking, cleaning and giving blowjobs to a man who doesn’t provide, is not what Queens do.
That’s what non queens do. They let 50/50 men use them up. They use them up until they have enough money to be an actual KING, then they go get a QUEEN who will only deal with a man who provides for her. He becomes so proud to finally be able to afford a VALUABLE woman.
A true Queen has a man called a KING, with an abundant empire that provides for her. He has a PURPOSE and reigns over the people with just competence. The Queen sits next to him as his grand counsel.
Meanwhile, this is what most 50/50 men do to most women.
Every time you try to rise, he knocks you back down and robs you of your youth and energy. But here is the thing. Every woman wants to call herself a Queen, without doing the work. Everyone wants to call themselves everything without doing the work.
But once you claim a title, it’s time to do the work.
How many women call themselves a Goddess with no beauty in sight? That’s when someone has self-appointed themselves. Because if that’s who God wanted you to be on this earth, he would’ve blessed you with great beauty that is both inner and outer. You can’t be a Goddess without doing both INNER and OUTER work. Without the inner work, you won’t be able to handle the pressure that comes with the crown.
Like Marilyn Monroe, who was the greatest of them all.
No real woman even wants to call herself a Goddess. The title is usually accepted only after many attempts to fight it.
That’s what women do. We try to fight the GOOD things that God has in store for us, and instead do our own thing. But we’ll quickly listen to the negative b.s. someone says about us.
However, what God has in store for us is always bigger, better and far greater than anything we could’ve ever imagined.
I am also a Prophetess. I had a hard time accepting that title too. Because then once you get a title, you almost feel like you HAVE to prove it to others. Yet, when you stop trying, you’ll notice you simply are. Gifts are gifts. You either have the gift or you don’t.
The gift that each human has is the ability to choose wisely and make grand decisions.
If God placed it in your heart that you are a Queen, you do yourself a great dis-service by mating with men who don’t treat you as such.
NO, it’s not okay to be with a man who doesn’t provide for you, if that’s not what your soul wants.
All that looking at a man negative, always seeing his faults are all reflections of you FAILING to decide to get the man you want. You look at him negative, because you ALLOWED him into your world, without him showing up as the KING you need.
You made excuses for why he couldn’t…. You looked at him as the little boy that couldn’t, instead of seeing the KING in him, and believing that he could rise NOW. You took sympathy on him, and focused on his POTENTIAL. And it backfired.
Why do you do this? Because you listen to society. You’re afraid of what they think of you. They constantly tell you that you need to settle for LESS. Because who are you to go after your dreams and goals they say.
But because you truly CAN’T settle for less, you instead try to build him into the man you want. You try to change him, instead of ALLOWING him to be inspired to BECOME the man you want. He will become the man you want, because it’s who GOD created him to be. He has to want to become that image of himself. You simply inspire him to do it.
Do you see how she SITS and cheers for him. She didn’t have to use her hands to get him to rise. She didn’t tell him to rise. She looked up, and there he was RISING.
When you listen to society you’ll never find true happiness. You get to the point where you don’t even know how to attract a high value man. You don’t know how to scale your business up to 7 Figures. You don’t know how to attract lots of aligned friends. You get to the point where you lack clarity and have so many doubts about yourself.
WHY?
All because you made that one decision in relationships to settle for less. Then it started to impact your entire life, because you woke up dealing with a man who didn’t value you. Then you started to value yourself less.
And to fix that value, you went to work, to WORK HARD.
Unhealed women are some of the most insane women in the world. The trauma runs so deep that you’re asleep in it.
Only a healer can pull all of that pain and darkness up off of you. Only a healer can help you see it through.
But what do most do? They go off to FIGURE it out, by themselves.
WHY?
Because you also were taught by 50/50 men to be uncomfortable asking for help or receiving help. They programmed you to continue to do everything on your own. Which is why you ended up with a man that you don’t need in the first place.
Do you even know how it feels to have a man that you actually feel like you need?
Nope, you don’t. Is that even possible or natural for you?
It’s not for even most married women, because they simply married a man who went along with the program. They don’t share a deep soul connection that bonds them.
Light & Love often teaches detachment and disconnection, because it’s just a higher level of experiencing non-sacred love.
Sacred love isn’t a FEELING of needing a man. It’s a KNOWING that you both need one another. No matter how much you fight it, the connection will not leave. And when you finally stop fighting it and surrender you learn to melt and embrace your differences.
Your soul needs them because you are assigned a divine mission together. It goes beyond FEELINGS.
But guess how much healing you need to get to the point?
LOTS!
That’s why you have to tell yourself the truth about who you are. Memes and quotes are cute, but your life isn’t a MEME Sis. It’s a real life design of your choice.
You designed it before you came to earth. You can’t live the next woman’s life. You can’t take advice from non Kings.
Cause guess what all of my King friends tell me?
They say “Kissy you deserve a God King who will provide for you and fully love you.” They say “Kissy you deserve to have it all.”
Guess what men who aren’t on their purpose tell me?
They tell me that I need to come off my high horse and settle for less.
But it’s not for me to climb down off my high horse. It’s up to a man to RISE and show me why I need him in my life.
Listening to society throws women so far off track. Like who has a problem with you BEING a Queen when you are one?
No one. They ACCEPT you when you accept yourself and claim your rightful position.
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It’s time for you to get rid of the EGO, that has you doing sh*t backwards.
