I WANT A MAN THAT I CAN STILL THANK GOD FOR 20 YEARS LATER

I WANT A MAN THAT I CAN STILL THANK GOD FOR 20 YEARS LATER

I find it interesting how individuals don’t sometimes see their own thoughts, patterns and behaviors.

I want a man that I can still be thanking God for 10, 20-years later.  I want longevity.   I wrote that. Then immedIately my spirit told me to BECOME IT.

Become the woman that a man can still be thanking God for 20-years-later.

I am a pretty good woman, so this was a pretty good revelation.  I began to look for more ways that I can cater to my man.   I am excited about my next relationship. I am so ready to do the work together.

What this revelation also taught me is that you can’t truly submit to a man until you are first submitted to God. A woman with a good heart has to know how to talk to God, receive from God and submit to God before she can learn to submit to a man.

For many women, you barely ask God for what you want, nor do you believe he’ll give it to you. So why would you believe that a man would give you what you desire? Even better, why would you believe that God would send you a man that you truly desire?

God is real. We must speak to God as if he is 100% real in the eyes of our heart, mind, body and soul.

We must remember that God’s answer to his children is always YES.

I invite you to accept a new life in Christ and get clarity on what you truly want from God.

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An honest Letter about JAY Z,   BEYONCÉ  & Why You Possibly Suck At Being Great

An honest Letter about JAY Z, BEYONCÉ & Why You Possibly Suck At Being Great

Today is the day that it dawned on me, that there are several ways to become a motivational speaker. Everyone has their own craft and the way they’ll do it best.

But one thing for certain, in order to be the greatest at it, that means you have to get paid for it.

Jay Z & Beyonce are two of the greatest motivational speakers in the world.  They get paid an immensely beautiful amount of money for it.   Their weapon of choice is their music; excuse me, I mean tools of healing vessel is their music.   One wakes up the women, the other wakes up the men.

If you listen to both, maybe you too can be a power couple..

Anyway they’ve been dropping mics for a long time.  Some of you are simply failing students, while others are grade A students.

Personally, I promise from this day forward, to be a better student. 💖💘

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I’m not much into talking about what other people are doing. I prefer to stimulate your mind with divine ideas.

When was the last time you received a message from God?

The God within me, invites you in to chat.

What are you waiting for?

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The main reason it doesn’t matter whether your woman loves you or not

The main reason it doesn’t matter whether your woman loves you or not

A woman’s love is irrelevant because if you don’t keep her happy, she still won’t stay.

That’s why the so called alpha men on Youtube pose a danger to society.

Here’s HOW:

  1. Men seek to find a woman THEY love. If she loves him without him feeling an even stronger love for her, her love for him doesn’t matter TO HIM.
  2. If men are only concerned about their wants and needs being met, they won’t be able to maintain the love of a woman.  When a woman doesn’t feel loved, chances are she’ll be unhappy.  An unhappy woman makes an unhappy household and she will rarely come into agreement with her man.

A woman can only love a man, when she loves herself.  If that man isn’t treating her well, then she has to exit that relationship in order to fully love herself, or work on healing herself inside the relationship.

A woman will leave a man when she believes that she can be happier without him.

Therefore protecting, providing, and keeping his woman HAPPY are a true alpha’s main concern.

In the bible it shows how a woman was created to be LOVED by the man of whom she has submitted herself to.

Ephesians 5:25: “For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her”

Ephesians 5:26: “to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word,…”

A woman is healed by a man who speaks LIFE into her. God’s word is that chosen book of life.

You may now be asking the question, “Well what’s the true benefit to a man?”

If you don’t know the answer, visit www.kissydenise.com to book an I LOVE MY WOMAN strategy session.  You have questions and Kissy has answers along with a seductive certificate for men who like to score bonus points.

The benefit to having the love of the right woman, is that HER PRESENCE can improve your life, business and relationships, overnight.

Keep that woman happy and in love with you forever, and lets just say the well will continue running deep.

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This blog post will not resonate with shallow men or shallow minds. 

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Love Isn’t Hard

Love Isn’t Hard

Love isn’t hard. People simply aren’t compatible.

You can love someone, but can’t stand them.

Notice how well you get along with people who are in agreement with you.

AKA your best friend. 💋

It’s kind of hard to get along with someone who doesn’t agree with much of you.

Too many people spend time trying to get someone else to conform to their thoughts.

What if there were someone out there that agreed with you?

For instance what’s the point of dating a man who argues with you that he should be able to d*ck you down, partake in your #feminine energy and not provide for you, instead of just getting a REAL MAN who believes in protecting and PROVIDING for what’s his? 💞 #kingme👑

💜 What’s the point of arguing with a woman about cooking you 5 star meals, when you could simply get one who loves to, PROVIDE so she can focus on YOU, or hire a chef? #QueenMe👑

All I’m saying is GO GET WHAT YOU WANT.

I WANT A MAN THAT I CAN STILL THANK GOD FOR 20 YEARS LATER

How It Feels To Have A Heart Living In A Stone Cold World

Every time I think about how others could be a better person, to other people, I think of how I could be a better person to other humans, and to myself.

Everything we judge outside of ourselves whether good or bad, is simply a television screen of our judgments against ourselves.

When I see a drop dead gorgeous woman, and I tell her that she’s beautiful, and she’s consciously awoke, she’ll tell me how I am only a reflection of herself.  At least that’s what one of the more recent women did, and I now ponder why I didn’t stop her for a second, and engage her in conversation, seeing as to how she was at a certain state of awarenesses? Maybe I thought she was in a rush, or maybe I thought I was in a rush to go back to wherever I was going, as if I had no other choice. Or as if time wouldn’t stop and take a pause for me, if I asked it to.

Being an ambivert who sometimes may forget to change that personality to one more suitable for the environment which though currently has presence in, I could see how I could possibly miss a some things, moments, and memories that could’ve been beautiful experiences. I think maybe I should talk more, without being afraid that maybe I’m talking too much, interrupting, and everything as if my presence isn’t a presence, and EVERYTHING I SAY IS GOLD.

If that resonates with you, perhaps you’ll see your own HIGH LEVEL of community.  Why would you not want to bless a fellow human with a conversation from you?  I mean besides, you’re only like a miracle that knows all, because you have a strong network, and can get people whatever help they may need.

It really is okay to love someone unconditionally

It really is okay to love someone unconditionally

I’ve experienced so much when it comes to life and love.

After experiencing people who abused me and took mY love for granted, I started to believe that loving someone unconditionally was a foolish thing. So I stopped.

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I now realize that it’s actually a beautiful thing to love another human being unconditionally, without judgement, while maintaining your boundaries and your standards.  It even feels better to do so.

Allow people to do what makes them happy.  Live your life. Sometimes you have to love them from afar.

It’s important in this lifetime that we not seek to control others and to allow others to grow into their own human experience.

5 Tips A Man Can Use To Help His Woman Feel Special

5 Tips A Man Can Use To Help His Woman Feel Special

Brilliant women are often more aware than the average woman. They see things that they may not say anything about.  She’s came into a state of awareness on men.  Even when a man is beyond average, he’ll still have behavioral patterns and characteristics that show up in his dating life. She will silently pick up on these things and use them as SAFE reasons to not give her heart to you.

Dating can be tough in today’s market. Mostly because people are confused and extremely far away from love. Not many know what real love is anymore.  Then there are those who are filled with love and have the capacity to love you in ways far beyond your imagination or wildest dreams.

Those are the kind of mates a smart person wants.

As to men, the average man does not know what he wants in a woman. Even when he does, he often can’t seem to keep the woman who is the apple of his eye. Therefore he finds himself in a merry-go-round of the same basic women who are waiting to be picked by him. While in such a cycle, the man perceives himself as winning and at the top of his game.

Then there is you. The man who has no interest in the pick me’s. You are ready to do whatever it takes to win and keep the heart of the girl of your dreams.

The girl of your dream is a Goddess. You understand that she’s not like other creatures. In fact, if you mistake her for one, you will lose her. All of your hard work with go out the window.

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Here are 5 Tips, to Quickly reel in the woman of your dreams and develop a beautiful, life altering relationship. 

1. Pay her attention.

While most women go crazy when you ignore them, the problem with a Goddess is that the minute you ignore her, because you’re focused on the next woman or women, a God is stepping in to capture her heart and attention. Just because you have something in your eye, doesn’t mean the next man does.  As a God it’s important that you not be tempted with the devilish ways of this world. The devil will serve you a distraction on a silver platter. For most black men I find that distraction doesn’t even have to look too attractive. In fact he’ll serve it dirty, and for some reason, the average black man bites.  It’s quite fascinating watching it happen.   One time a long time ago, (I mean forever ago) I took this guy to the club with me.  Once there I allowed him to do his thing, as I knew he wasn’t crazy into me the way I was into him.

I believe in allowing men their freedom to do as they will. (Don’t ask me why I’m so chill and cool. Maybe cause I know my Dream Man won’t get so easily distracted.)  So anyway, he goes off and does his thing, or maybe I went to the ladies room.  Okay, I definitely went to the ladies room.  We were at a nightclub inside the Luxor Hotel on the strip. I think it was called “Ra” at the time.  Ra used to jump, with guests from all around the  world and they played the best hip hop music.  This was back when I was willing to hang out with regular guys and go to the club and stand around without a table or VIP service. (Thank You Jesus that I don’t do that anymore. VIP me baby! Bottles Only! If he can’t ball, he isn’t MY TYPE.)  So anyway, on the way back from the ladies room a man approaches me. He  asked if I would hang out with him.  I told him that I was there with someone and that I would be unable to.  He said “Queen. I’ve been watching you all night. Let me show you something. He walks me to a room in the club in the back.

There the guy I came with sat, surrounded by women and drinks.  The guy introduced himself and told me that he’d placed him there with the liquor and women to distract him, so that he would have an opportunity with me..  I asked him if he was good and he said “Yes.”  So the guy took me elsewhere in the club to a table, just me and him, and ordered me a bottle of PJ Rose, with strawberries and chocolate.  He told me the guy I came with wasn’t for me. He said that if I were his woman he’d never let me out of his sight. He told me all 10 women he’d placed around that guy, would never compare to one of me.  You think I would’ve woken up after that, but I didn’t. (I was loyal to the wrong people and the wrong things.)

I still continued to talk to the silly guy afterwards. After all we came together, and he was in town for the weekend staying with me. I liked that guy a lot. I ignored all of the signs and simply focused on my LOVE for him.  Not even being mad at the fact he wasn’t fully in love with me.  I’ve always understood love to be a choice and understood that not everyone is going to love you back, the same way you love them.   That’s why it’s important that when you actually find real love, you do what it takes to maintain it.

That was over 8 years ago. Now that guy who got knocked out of his chick and distracted like a simp, still follows me on social media. It’s no surprise that these days he suddenly thinks I’m a pretty dope woman, after years of him circling through women. It’s sad that women often have to leave men, and completely stop caring about them, before they finally see.

2. Recognize her value TODAY.

It’s really difficult to recognize a woman’s value women you’re not paying her attention, because you’re too busy being surrounded by fleshly temptation. These days it’s okay to bite the apple. Just make sure you bite the right one, because your entire life and livelihood is on the line.  Since I’ve let that guy I’ve created multiple millionaires in this world. All of my ex’s have made 6-7 Figures.  It’s interesting how in today’s society we are often told that a woman’s value is in her beauty alone, or in her willingness to be the maid of the house.  My  gift to any man I’m with goes beyond my mere beauty. I am literally a gift to him in every way.  I don’t stop being a gift, just because one man doesn’t recognize my value.

In fact, I keep getting better every day.   I am now the author of a best selling relationship series. One book for men and one for women.  I’m building an 8-Figure Consulting business, and I’ve healed, impacted and changed tens of thousands of lives all around the planet.  I’m quickly approaching 1 Million Social Media followers.  While I worked hard to get followers, I will proudly say that my core base came from my brain game, and not from me posting half-naked pics to get attention. Nor did I even have to associate myself with a celebrity. So that’s quite an accomplishment.  A Goddess CAN NOT choose a man who doesn’t recognize her value. Therefore she will not do the enticing things to keep you around. She doesn’t want the wrong man around.

3. Make love to her mind, not just her body.

A brilliant Goddess has to be mentally stimulated. Which means you must spend time speaking life into her.  This is also a form of foreplay that will have her lit up, wet, turned on and ready to passionately engage with you. This is the ultimate game that you were born for. That’s why you are so smart. It’s a fluid back and forth game of cat and mouse.  Your mind is the ultimate seduction, while your money is the sprinkles on the cake and the candles.

4. Spend money and buy her gifts.  

Men who don’t spend money and buy their woman gifts are incredibly whack. Period. Goddesses need luxury goods. Either buy them or move on so that the next man can step to her properly.  Goddesses are not much for you talking about WHAT you are going to do for her. She only takes note of the doing.  You should also go hard. It shouldn’t be a piece of cake for another man to step to her and offer her more. A man should literally have to go all out to even get a chance of day at your woman. Don’t make it easy for another man to snatch her up.

5. Marry Her –

Most men will take every woman out to fancy dinners. He’ll have sex with every woman. He’ll make love to every woman. He’ll do the same thing for one woman that he does for the next. He’ll be the same with each woman and get the same results he’s always got. To him just about every woman is the same.

But what he won’t do is marry every woman. That is how men separate. When they finally find the right woman, they change. Just like that.

Create a plan to marry her. The sooner you take her off the market, the faster your relationship will grow. Kill all of he doubt and get moving.  A man who finds a wife, finds what is good and he receives FAVOR from the Lord. This is really deep! Don’t fear marriage. Just find the right woman. It’s easier than you think when you’re able to marry a woman who actually loves both herself AND you. But the catch is that she needs to love you for who you are now, but also see you well beyond that. Which means, in order to be with her, you have to put down your little boy shoes and begin to play the role of God in her life.

What does a God do for his wife?

He does amazing things darling.  I know you’re ready to BECOME HER DREAM MAN.  Book a free strategy session with me to discuss just how ready you are to find the woman who will help you access YOUR NEXT LEVEL. Or you could keep listening to the male coaches on Youtube.  They have NO CLUE what a high value Goddess likes. That’s why they don’t have one. We’re elusive darling. But I’m in the circle and know EXACTLY what she wants, and what it takes to get her.

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These 7 Tips Will Help You Lower Your Stress &  Increase Your Sex Drive

These 7 Tips Will Help You Lower Your Stress & Increase Your Sex Drive

If you’re not experiencing a lit up sex life, or at least feelings of pure bliss, you may want to check your stress levels. These days with the rules of entrepreneurship being tooted to work till you drop, meaning people are drawn away from their natural state of flow and bliss. This causes problems in their romantic relationships.

Here are a few ways to lower your stress and increase your sex.

  1. Get rid of cheating mates or dishonest associations
  2. Spend time by yourself
  3. Touch yourself.  Love on Yourself
  4. Focus on activities that bring you JOY
  5. Have a positive mindset
  6. Take massive action to accomplish your goals and get things done
  7. Love people for who they are, not for what they do

It’s so much easier to feel sexy and tune in with your body, when you can go to sleep at night, without being worried about if someone is cheating on you.

Spending time by yourself, getting to know yourself and focusing on what you want, is a must.

Spending time doing activities you ENJOY will bring you great pleasure and natural sexual bliss.

Once you do these things, you will find yourself tapped in, tuned in and turned on.  For any male reading this article, my best suggestion for you is to find a woman you can afford to upkeep.  Seduce her away from producing in masculine energy and pull her into her feminine energy.  She NEEDS that from you.

My suggestion for women is to shed everything and tune back into your femininity. For boss chicks, this may be an uphill battle. (JOIN GODDESS UNLEASHED to be supported on your femininity journey.)

When it comes to relationships, make sure you are seducing your mate on a daily basis. Never let the fun leave. Date forever.