Once you start working on yourself. You work on yourself even when you’re unaware that you’re working yourself. Your soul is working on you, even in your sleep. You’ll wake up with huge shifts, unexpectedly.
Some days I wake up and I can clearly see a shift occurring. One day I woke up and noticed that suddenly I was letting go of something. I was really calm about it, and accepted it.
The next day, I woke up feeling a little triggered over it. After sitting with the feeling for an hour and allowing myself to explore it, accept it, and feel it out, I realized that I had just discovered a pattern.
The pattern of getting upset with people when I decided to no longer love them.
Why would I get upset with such freedom and relief from pain?
Because I had self-sacrificed myself and continued in a relationship that I knew was doomed, in the name of hope and working it out. I continued on in the pain of not getting what I wanted out of a relationships. Positive thinking gone wrong. Spiritually seeing people as their highself self doesn’t always change things.
Then when I finally got tired of not getting what I wanted, I had the audacity to be upset with them for MAKING me fall out of love with them. Cray! Like I was real life pissed off at my ex boyfriends for MAKING me fall out of love with them.
I placed all of the blame on THEM, instead of myself. How despicable. Going into your patterns and darkness can be so UGH. But without doing the work, who knows if the pattern would’ve ever stopped. Probably not.
It’s really important that you face yourself and start dealing with your feelings. I used to have a habit of not dealing with my feelings, because my feelings never mattered to the people that I was in relationships with. Men didn’t care if I cried. They didn’t care how much they hurt me. They didn’t even care if they broke my heart. I truly got used to kicking my emotions to the side and believing that they did not serve me.
However love serves me, so I would always return to it, like a pet owner who nurses a sick snake back to health, and then gets surprised that the healed snake now struck out at him and bit him.
I actually allowed people to tell me that their mediocre love should be accepted by me. I self-sacrificed my own happiness in order to make them happy. I put on rosey colored glasses and telling myself that they weren’t so bad, and that maybe I needed to be a better person. I kept looking for what was wrong with me, instead of accepting that NO, they were not good enough for me and would probably never be. They’d definitely never be if I accepted them the way they were. Which I partially did, or screamed about it. Which people also don’t like when you scream at them. But I screamed instead of immediately dumping them, because I cared about them.
But what about me? More self-sacrifice. A man not completely showing up for me would even say it was self-sabotage because I was pushing him away. Of course he thinks his not showing all the way up should be okay with me, because HE had better things to do.
I learned so much by actually not attempting to date, and to literally just allow people to BE around me, and see how that played out.
During that time, the pain kept coming. The pain will keep going and going, until you stop, the pattern.
In response to the pain, we often change ourselves into new people. We stop doing the nice things we once did. We try to conform to a better strategy that is said to work. We forget to make the world conform to us.
One thing that’s important for Unicorns to know is that you will always attract love. You are magical. You truly love other humans. But the humans are playing a completely different game from you. You’re not even in the game. You’re just there being love. But when they see you, they can’t SEE you, so they start up with their same strategy they’ve been using, or the new one they want to use. Either way it doesn’t work for you. Nothing works for you accept divine love.
What is happening here is that although you can have a great amount of love for yourself, and that would be quite enough for most humans, but you have to love yourself even more.
You have to stop caring about others more than you care about yourself. You have to stop putting others first. In your mind you are putting love first, which is good. But your definition of love is different from others. When the match is correct you share the same concept of love.
Getting with someone who doesn’t share that same concept is self-sabotage. Your empathic traits keeps you always focused on the other person understanding where they are coming from. That empathy and understanding makes you forget about yourself. You start trying to accept them, but they never accept you for you, because you are not being you.
Therefore the way they treat you is a reflection of you. THAT is why you are always the common denominator.
You’ll always attract love, but you are judged based upon the character of people you allow into YOUR life and HOW they treat you.
Meghan Markle is admired because she married a Prince who treats her like a Queen and puts her first.
Ciara is admired because she has a man who treats her like a Queen. She wasn’t admired when she was with Future who dogged her out. 50 Cent dogged her out too. So did Bow Wow. Each wanted multiple women. Russel wanted a Queen to honor. Ciara is still the same woman, but her reputation changed based upon the men she dated.
People have to come to you with a desire to be one with you, a desire to pour love into you, and a desire to do right by you.
Most of society offers mediocre, basic and scrappy love. You must get comfortable with the fact that those kinds are not your true. Everything is in abundance in life, but some things are so good, that they are 1 in a million. Have you even met a million people? Did you give yourself time to find the one? Or did you rush and take whatever, thinking you could fix them and get them to see things your way?
The things we do to ourselves…. Now you can take self-accountability for other areas in your life, where you are placing the blame outside of yourself. But don’t be too hard on yourself. Sometimes God is in control and sh*t happens, because that’s the way this goes. You only have so much control over your life. Control is an illusion. Surrender is nothing more than understanding that this all goes God’s way, not your way, and accepting that.
We’re all on a journey of deep self love. The greater you are, the more you must love yourself. But truth is the greatest people often love themselves the least.
You took on a bunch of limited beliefs, in order to be humble in confidence, like the masses. It helped you fit in with them, and forget who you are. Because of that, sometimes you get confused, and lack clarity.
It’s why everything mostly serves as confirmation to trigger your memory.
So I’ll remind you, of this you already know. God is not the author of confusion. Let’s be clear on who you are in this moment.
Rise my sweet one. You are destined. You are God’s golden child. You are called to deliver the message.
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The number one reason why women have such low self-esteem is one thing. It’s the men they deal with. You are responsible for your own self-esteem, which means you are responsible to maintain an aura around you that backs up your belief system. Putting people into your vortex who don’t value you at the level you value yourself will have you going all wrong.
For example there are men who don’t open doors for a woman, won’t buy her anything, won’t express affection or emotion to her, won’t return her texts and calls, unless at least 6 hours have passed, yet upon sight every other weekend he wants sex from her. Sex that doesn’t even come with any type of heart or soul connection. Yet, such a man will tell a woman that he is the best guy in the world. When clearly anyone with eyes can see he doesn’t care about the woman. For some men, that’s all of the love they have to give. And any woman who accepts such a man is signing up for misery and mediocrity. The only way she would ever be able to get the love she needs would be to cheat on him with a better man. To which cheating is such a waste of time and makes you look cheap.
But a woman who is already in a relationship with a man who is emotionally cheap, can’t really feel any lower about herself. So cheating is no big deal to her.
Do you see how things go when you put yourself on discount, in order to deal with a man who only comes with 35% of what another man would? But he doesn’t want you comparing him to other men, because that would also be terrible of you.
It doesn’t pay to humble yourself. It doesn’t pay to think of yourself as less than. Because when you do, you almost are guaranteed to end up with a man who doesn’t value you. Most people don’t value you until you value yourself. And top notch people have to value themselves in every way, including looks. So if you take your top notch self who is worth an infinite amount of money, but for the sake of this article, lets just say you’re worth $1 Million bucks. You’re worth $1 Million, but then you decide to put yourself on discount in the name of humility, for a buster who doesn’t even know how to keep a basic woman happy, let alone a chick who is as valuable as you.
Let me tell you what he will do to you.
1. Your value to him is somewhere near the $500 mark. That’s about how much he will spend on you. He might go up to $1000 bucks but that’s pushing it.
2. He will tell you that looks aren’t important. That beautiful women are everywhere. They are a dime a dozen. That a woman has to bring more than good looks to the table. Suddenly you looking so good, becomes a bad thing. YET, it’s mostly the reason he sought out to date you. Other times he is literally telling you his value system IS NOT a beautiful woman. But humble you ignores this red flag and continues to deal with him and be treated less than average.
3. His attention will constantly be on other women. He’ll ignore your social media posts and photos, but chances are you’ll notice he’s quick to double tap on another girls post or click the LIKE button on another woman’s posts he’s never met.
4. You can’t ask him to do anything for you. Asking him for anything is too much. He barely even knows anything about you and your life. Dealing with him is so emotionally painful, that you constantly feel your trauma pain body being activated.
5. SEX – He still wants sex from you. He wants to phuck you in 69 different positions. Chances are his heart is never involved in the sex. You’ve actually never made love. He just phucks you.
6. You watch other women shine and prosper. You wonder why they are so happy and so confident. You see single women even more happier than you are. It never occurs to you that they have actual GOOD men in their lives who DO for them.
7. Now he’s taking points from you, telling you that because you have a scar, you’re “getting old, you’re this and that, and because of it, your value is going down.” The whole time he’s trying to manipulate you and use scare tactics to get you to be with him. Don’t be surprised if he posts old lady with a cat memes to hammer the message in. Once again, LOVE is not his M.O. Yet he wants you to love him.
These are the things that happen to you when you’re too afraid to let go. When you’re too afraid to hurt someone’s feelings, who can care less if they hurt your feelings. When you put yourself on discount, you get treated like a discount b*tch. Like a random stray dog.
Did you notice that Bentley never goes on sale? Did you notice that people respect a Bentley when it pulls up?
You want to know what people like? They like the successful man. They like the woman who has followers. They like the woman who is loved. They like the woman who is successful. They like the woman who loves herself. But only so few men can afford to get access to such a woman. So what do the rest of the guys want?
They want you to humble yourself and come down to their level so they can destroy you with their mediocrity.
So here is the thing Sis. You’d better create your position of value and maintain it. Cause guess what? A phuck boys highest honor is the fact that an Instagram model once paid him some ATTENTION.
He values the ATTENTION he got from her, even if it never came with nothing more than a hug, maybe a peck kiss and a few smiles. Why does he value her? Because she valued herself enough to keep it moving on him, and not allow him to play her out or use her body up for peasant nuggets. She is playing for GOLD, while you were playing for LOVE. Therefore she removed him from her vortex cause he couldn’t afford the cost to be the boss. She HAPPILY went on to the next man who could afford the cost. And because she stood her value ground with sweet words, he never even knew what hit him. He thinks he had a choice the whole time. But there wasn’t a choice. There was “Dude. You ain’t all that. This ain’t a I’m just going to love you for you thing. Value me at MY level, and provide and take care of me or get gone.” She had no guilt at all holding her value. He would choose not to provide for her and move on to an easier target.
Then what happens? Then when he gets his money up and he’s tired of dogging out the easy, low-value target, he backtracks and goes out to get a new instagram model whom he can now easily afford, cause he no longer has to worry about his money flow.
Then what happens to the discount hoe? Now she’s hurt, heartbroken and devastated over man who never invested in her in the first place. This whole thing about dating is that most men are average AF. Even when they get a little money they don’t upgrade their dating habits. He believes that he can now get women simply because he’s successful and has money. Which is true. Which is also how many men get screwed over cause they don’t even know when a woman loves him. Mostly because a woman was created to BE loved. So men look for a woman he can pour love into. But most men look for the least inexpensive, but most attractive woman, and beat down her self-esteem till she’s kindly listening to everything he says, doesn’t feel too highly about herself and has no thoughts of her own.
So, if you’re not a Queen already IN YOUR EYES, before you meet these men, chances are you’ll never be one. Most men simply aren’t going to find you on the ground and lift you up. It’s the perfect opportunity for any possibly smart man. But like I said, they want women who are doing well in life. They want women who are doing better than them. And if you get yourself caught up in these kind of men, don’t expect to walk around feeling super confident. You may as well toss you and your discounted azz ego in the trash.
You have not met the man of your dreams, until you meet a man who is in your life to serve you at your highest good and wants to give you EVERYTHING, and you don’t have to beg him for anything. Period.
If a man is in love with you, of course he’s going to do everything in his power to make you happy. The fact that you believe you’re supposed to be in a relationship and make yourself happy, is where you go left. Relationships are to add to your happiness. Relationships give you more happiness. The insanity of it all, is believing they don’t.
Your spirit and soul is made in the image of God. Of course you’re supposed to be treated like royalty. If you don’t add tax to these dudes, they simply won’t respect you.
So if a man wants you, you MUST ask him what he has to offer you. Then you may as well DOUBLE his offer. If he is willing to double down, chances are you’ve met your LOVE match. A man is only going to love a woman he invests in. You get your match when you hold to your standards and expectations. Being humble and less arrogant, actually DOESN’T land you your dream man. But being sweet and making sure a man RISES to meet your standards, values you at not a penny less, and rolls out the red carpet for you, will land you your dream man. This is what I tell my clients, and they ultimately end up meeting men who give their ALL. They never even have to ask him to double down. He comes willing, able and simply DOES.
Through interactions online and having hundreds of thousands of followers, something is very clear. Single women with kids feel themselves to be inadequate. They believe themselves to be inferior to other women in relationships. This must stop.
Women who’ve chosen to temporarily not enter in a relationship while also raising kids often run a storyline of lack. We’re not talking in finances. We’re talking in partnership.
Not only do they focus on not having a man, as if they are missing something, but often times they feel like they are not good enough.
I posted something on my Facebook page the other day about a man valuing you and coming correct, and a woman responded, “Even Mothers?” I read that comment and I almost cried. It pained me to see.
So here is the thing that I would like you to understand.
1. Being a mother and being single, have absolutely no relation to each other, other than the fact that such a person tends to view their relationship status in a negative light.
2. Raising children by yourself is definitely hard work, with more obstacles than norm. But I promise you it’s better than not having any kids. Having kids is a wonderful, joyous, experience overall. It grows you like nothing else. Sure you wish you had a man around to help you, and the truth is you could definitely get a man to help you. But you prefer to fall in love, so you’re not going to choose just any man, simply because he would be a good step-father to your kids. So once again, you see how single and motherhood are two different things?
3. Okay, you fell in love with a guy. You thought it would last forever. So you had kids with him. The relationship didn’t work out. Now you’re single with kids. Okay, you did what you were supposed to do. You were created to bare children. How else are they going to get here Sis, if you don’t birth them? Do you know how many women can’t have kids and would love to? Those women wouldn’t care if they had a man or not. Kids are a blessing.
4. For Black Women, you are under the imposition of the media and the storyline that’s been going around for decades. You fear being a stereotype. You fear no good man wants you. You feel you are spoiled goods. You fear you are no longer worthy of getting a good man. Deep down inside, you feel like a high value man would never choose you. All of this simply because you have kids. None of that is true. You are no less value with or without kids. But your life and your happiness is definitely conducive to the happiness of your children. Your storyline is whatever you want it to be Sis. One monkey does not stop no show. So what that man didn’t do right by you. Look in the mirror. You are powerful. Sis, you know the only person who can give life is God right? You’re so powerful you can bring a human life into this world. You have the power to nurture a child, that could grow up to be a non puppet President and actually change the world. One of your kids may be the next Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. He may have a dream, that one day blacks will grow up with mindsets that are not oppressed, imprisoned or impoverished, and that life will be a little more fair. Your kids are your legacy. They are not a reflection of your dating status.
5. Self-Care Is Everything – Just because you’re a mother and you’re single, then you should really be doing your make-up, keeping your hair cute, taking bubble baths and really doting on yourself. You’re a Queen with a mini Prince or a Princess. You need YOU TIME to go over royal decisions. This you time also helps you take some of that very same love you put out into the world, and share it with yourself. You deserve love and happiness. Know this and hold to this. One day a man will show up, and he’ll be so amazing, so in love with you, so devoted to you, and love your kids too. You will be so grateful that your prior relationships didn’t work out.
6. We’re all going through a journey, trying to to figure out this thing called life. None of us are perfect no matter how hard we try. We won’t always get everything perfectly right the first time around. Not everyone’s journey is the same. It’s different timing. Just like you tell other people to cut themselves some slack, cut yourself some slack. You look at your kids sometimes and you become disappointed in yourself, that there is no man present in your home. You feel maybe they aren’t being loved and supported as other kids. You feel like you failed them. Time Out Sis. How were you supposed to know that it would turn out like this? And chances are you could’ve chosen to stay unhappy in a relationship for the sake of the kids. You chose not to. Chances are you even decided to take a break from dating. Even more, your kids came here to be your kids. They chose you just as much as you chose them. They knew the experience they were signing up for. I know you wanted to give them everything, but what’s most important is the love you give them and the lessons you teach them, while you are progressing, and getting better. What’s most important is that you set their mind free, and let them know you’re a soul on a human journey. We all wish we could get things perfect the first time, or live like those other women who appear to have gotten things right. But they don’t get others things right. Just like everyone else.
7. Sometimes you feel you’re a single mother because you lack in the department of femininity. That may only be partially true. A lot of super feminine women actually get dumped all of the time. They lack in other areas that help keep a man. Everyone has their battles that they must fight. You’re doing the best you can of learning soul lessons along the way.
8. Do you see how strong you are to provide for yourself, and the well being of your little ones? How you get up and hustle, and do what you must, in order to win for the sake of your family? So why do you date men who have less strength than you? Cause the truth is, even though you’re single, if the father was really, truly, doing his part, and being fully present for the kids, you wouldn’t feel like a single parent. If you would’ve dated a man who actually fully provides for his family, maybe you would still be in a relationship. When your good heart allows you to choose a weak man who is not full bred lion who takes care of his Queen and baby cubs, but of course you’re going to reject him. You had to let him go so that he could find his way. You had to stop being the little girl still playing a game of house and let the little boy grow up after he kindly provided you with his sperm.
9. Look at your kids. Really look at them. Do you see the sparkle in their eyes? Do you see the glow in their skin? They’re beautiful right? It’s because you made them out of love. You’ve lived and you’ve loved. That’s more than many people do. A lot of women got pregnant for the sake of comfort, a lifestyle or a check. You couldn’t chose that because your heart wouldn’t let you. Now look at how much growth your soul has achieved. Look how smart you are. Look at how inspiring you are. The Universe will always reward you for being love.
10. Most men who are looking to date SINGLE MOTHERS are looking because they feel you are easy pickings. They feel that all they have to do is get in good with your kids and boom, you’re in love and won’t be quick to dismiss him, because of the kids, and you not wanting to be a single mother AGAIN. You can’t focus on the fear or the victimhood of having a failed relationship. What you want is a man who loves you for you, and falls in love with YOU, and accepts your kids too, because they are apart of YOU. You are a woman who is fully capable of nurturing another human being. You have so much love to give the right man. With you he inherits a household of souls who will pour love into him. I’d say you’re pretty awesome. But I can’t force you to believe that. You gotta receive it on your own.
Sis, I just want you to love you, forgive yourself, and get everything you came here for. We’ve all made mistakes. All we can do is help those behind us.
Some of ya’ll women seriously need a rebirthing makeover, from the inside out. You look like life has beat you down.
Guess What? Life didn’t beat you down. You let a sorry azz male appear to beat you down. Now you gotta fix your frown 💄🙃, put on your crown, 🦋 and glow the phuck up! ✨🙂#REMIX It ain’t over yet. The best is yet to come.
Don’t you ever forget, you got GOD.🙏
Besides, when you glow the phuck up on these mammals, they come running back to you. But by then, you’ve moved on to these 5D, Certified, King MEN, who allow you to be a sweet, feminine Queen. 👑 That’s cause you now VALUE YOU. #CrownUp#LoveYOU#GoddessLevel#LevelUp
It ain’t over till the fat lady sings, and Sis you know you’re not there yet. So you can’t give up. I know you’re tired. We’ve all been there. But you kinda knew where it would go. You had hope. That’s dope. But you know. You can only put hope in GOD, and reflect that back to you. We all make choices, neither bad nor good. Just the chosen way to learn the lesson, that you just had to know the outcome of, by experience. You could’ve easily chosen wisdom.
It’s whatever though. You conquered that level. You couldn’t bring him with you. You tried. Dust yourself off. Put back on your princess, fairytale outfit, and pick up your swords, cause you got to go, get back to the battle. No more delays please. There are millions of souls that need to be saved in this world; and you got stuck on that one.
Guess what else? There are also men who did the same thing as you. They got stuck on that one too. They have a heart, like you. So now they are single, with a fixed ego, and they need a woman like you. He is equally yolked with you.
But you’re only going to find and attract him, if you get up right now and get back on your path. You gotta fight. You gotta fight with everything in you, to get back on your way. I promise no matter what it looks like, everything is going to be okay. It’s real smooth. It’s going to be more than okay. It’s really all going to be perfectly fine. I mean, like Fantastic. There’s wine and everything. There is even a champagne, glass fountain, full of flutes. Cream and white with strawberries, just for you. But the party can’t start without you. Everyone is waiting for your arrival. What time are you going to be here? Make it a date. We’re having refreshments. See you soon.
How often do you meet someone, and because you’re a spiritual being, you wonder why you met them? Sometimes you’re strongly drawn to people and there are many synchronicities. You know there is a reason for your meeting, at this particular time. But you have no clue as to why. You just know you’re connected on the journey, some kind of way.
One of my connections, was really doing a number on my brain and heart, trying to figure out the connection. This person was triggering the darkness of my wounds. I noticed that I was simply viewing a mirror of myself. But because I often view myself in a negative manner, in order to remind myself that I allegedly had so far go to, I only noticed my wounds from this person. For a while.
Then one day it finally dawned on me. That I was not choosing to see through the eyes of love. So I switched and began to look at them through the eyes of unconditional love. I also put more love into myself. Suddenly one day it finally hit me. This person was also a mirror image of the beauty of my soul, and the clarity of my brilliance. I saw a winner. Someone who knows where they are going. Someone who wants to be the best, and will stop at nothing less. A well-spoken person, who’d walked past major challenges, who overcame, maintained the kindness of their soul, is authentic, is cute as pie, and has a great capacity for love. So much so that they are walking in their purpose. I felt the excitement of watching them go. I can see 5-years into their future, and know many cool things that are already in the portal manifesting for them. I saw greatness.
Suddenly, for the first time, I finally saw myself. Except I realized SELF must start taking the same actions as the reflection, making things happen fast, and controlling their life.
And I saw that it already is. I got soooo excited. It was a connection that I really wanted to figure it out. This is what happens when you continue to work on yourself. Continue to improve and always love yourself more than you did the previous day. Love yourself more and more, always and forever. Love other people too. For their imperfections are only a reflection of you.
Let me explain alignment with you. This post is totally due to a personal breakthrough. Just two days ago Albert Einstein popped into my head. I wondered if I were as brilliant as he. (Sis was having deep thoughts.) My research said that I AM. My research says that we all are brilliant. But some of us tap into our genius. Because I’m tapped into that genius, it’s no surprise that as I was searching for a photo to go with this post, I came across a particular photo, that lead me to finding that of course I’m not the first person to discover this truth. Guess who also discovered this truth?
Choosing love will keep you in alignment, moving with flow and ease.
In the late 1980s, Albert Einstein’s daughter Lieserl donated 1,400 letters written by Einstein to the Hebrew University. The text of one of them is reproduced below for you. Having been sent by Einstein to his daughter, this letter shows a very different side to Einstein’s personality and his outlook on the world.
“When I proposed the theory of relativity, very few understood me, and what I will reveal now to transmit to mankind will also collide with the misunderstanding and prejudice in the world.
I ask you to guard the letters as long as necessary, years, decades, until society is advanced enough to accept what I will explain below.
There is an extremely powerful force that, so far, science has not found a formal explanation to. It is a force that includes and governs all others, and is even behind any phenomenon operating in the universe and has not yet been identified by us. This universal force is LOVE.
When scientists looked for a unified theory of the universe they forgot the most powerful unseen force. Love is Light, that enlightens those who give and receive it. Love is gravity, because it makes some people feel attracted to others. Love is power, because it multiplies the best we have, and allows humanity not to be extinguished in their blind selfishness. Love unfolds and reveals. For love we live and die. Love is God and God is Love.
This force explains everything and gives meaning to life. This is the variable that we have ignored for too long, maybe because we are afraid of love because it is the only energy in the universe that man has not learned to drive at will.
To give visibility to love, I made a simple substitution in my most famous equation. If instead of E = mc2, we accept that the energy to heal the world can be obtained through love multiplied by the speed of light squared, we arrive at the conclusion that love is the most powerful force there is, because it has no limits.
After the failure of humanity in the use and control of the other forces of the universe that have turned against us, it is urgent that we nourish ourselves with another kind of energy…
If we want our species to survive, if we are to find meaning in life, if we want to save the world and every sentient being that inhabits it, love is the one and only answer.
Perhaps we are not yet ready to make a bomb of love, a device powerful enough to entirely destroy the hate, selfishness and greed that devastate the planet.
However, each individual carries within them a small but powerful generator of love whose energy is waiting to be released.
When we learn to give and receive this universal energy, dear Lieserl, we will have affirmed that love conquers all, is able to transcend everything and anything, because love is the quintessence of life.
I deeply regret not having been able to express what is in my heart, which has quietly beaten for you all my life. Maybe it’s too late to apologize, but as time is relative, I need to tell you that I love you and thanks to you I have reached the ultimate answer! “.
Your father, Albert Einstein
So I guess I just found a 555th way to explain LOVE to you.
Remember Rihanna was dancing under her Umbrella and she was so sweet. Then Chris hit her and she said phuck playing victim and she came out as a badd azz, fierce chick and authentically embodied herself, and now she knows about these dudes out here who be trying to fix their inner issues with a badd b*tch? Thats the Rihanna that I love. 💖🤩🔥
I also enjoy Umbrella Rihanna, but I love the badd b*tch Rihanna who speaks it how she speaks it.
Where is your badd b*tch uniform at? There is no point of you trying to be basic or play basic for these basic dudes. Those men will never appreciate you Sis. A badd chick is a refined taste. It takes men who are about their money, and living their best life on a grand scale to understand the benefit of dealing with a badd chick.
The rest of these dudes just want to live a basic azz life, and have a woman who is nice to them, so they can walk in the room and be ignored, while you and your man are taking over effortlessly.
The man for you gotta really be about that life and understand chess and not checkers.
I told someone the other day that I’m not worried about people who are in front of me, cause I’m going to pass them all up. You can’t compete with a badd azz chick with business game, who walks in her purpose with the crown of God on her head.
I speak very frankly about myself. You too should have this same confidence. And you would if you were in alignment with your purpose and becoming your authentic self who admits the truths about what you want from life.
Lying to yourself gets you no where. Lying to others about your desires only attracts people who can’t see you. Trying to scale yourself down to fit a basic template is a waste of divine time. You can’t be something you’re not. You are what you are. Stop trying to be less to appeal to the 99%. If you’re 1% then that’s what it is Sis.
A few nights ago I was in downtown Las Vegas walking with a group of friends to see the sights. As we were walking we passed a bus stop full of people. I did notice a group of people on the left of the bench. They seemed to come from a hood environment.
As we get to the corner to wait on the light to cross the street one girl from the group comes running up to me. I had on a one piece light tan colored lycra romper and I thought she was about to tell me that there was a spot, a stain, some dirt or something on my outfit. But no. She said something else to me. As me and another girl looked at her to hear what it is she wanted. It’s interesting how many thoughts go through your head and how fast they move. As it would seem that thought would’ve taken a minute, or that there would be a pause in the conversation. But no, it moved rapid. She said “Excuse me. You are so pretty, and my cousins bet me that I couldn’t get a hug from you. So you gotta give me a hug, cause I told them you would give me a hug.” I thought that was so sweet. The girl with me didn’t know anything about me. She goes “WOW. You’re like a Celebrity.”
Now this is where I live in a different realm. Even though I know my outer beauty often attracts people, I’ve also seen people run up on me when I thought I looked a hot mess and they still think I’m beautiful. What happened with that girl, has happened many other times. It’s the LIGHT. The light attracts my tribe. Even when they are unconscious they can still sense me. They may not know why they are sensing me, but they are still pulled to act on it.
I’m one of those people who strangers sit down next to me and tell me their whole life story. Of course they walk away with a whole new perspective and glad to have met me. They get healing without even realizing what’s happening.
So here is where you come in at. My light is my light wherever I go. I’m still the same light rather people know that I have 500,000 followers or not. I’m a star where ever I go. Not because I say I am, but it’s simply who I AM. This even works when I’m in the building with celebrities. Celebrities walk up to me and introduce themself. They want to know who I AM.
Every day I am simply being myself. When you first become a life coach, you experience lots of self-doubt, because everything is now connected to you proving that you can help others. You forget that simply BEING you is actually where the real power lies. Nobody can ever say they didn’t benefit from being around me or being on a call with me. My presence shifts people and gives them joy. I don’t have to DO anything. Money shows up for me now without great effort.
This is where part of your confusion lies. You think you have to be something outside of yourself. But you don’t. Most of the work you do for your clients is in your BEING when you’re a lightworker. Nobody before me was able to give my clients that great shift I give them. And many of those people have been coaching for decades and years, vs me who is the newbie. WHY? Because I have my own special gifting. No one else can do what I can do. There is something about you that works the same way. This is ultimately what you are looking for. You’re running around chasing enoughness, instead of understanding you already have it. Your people see you. Your tribe recognizes you. All you gotta do is show up and ask to be paid.
Not to mention we’ve been healing people since before we even knew what we were doing, because it’s programmed in us. And our people are programmed to find us and recognize us.
This is some million dollar game that no one ever gave me.
