We can all see that Diddy is a man who brings that big d*ck energy, but rapper Yung Miami is in love with Diddy all the way down to the D baby, and we’re not talking Detroit.
Yung Miami has already proclaimed she and Diddy “go together real bad,” but her latest message on Twitter is taking things a step further.
On Friday (September 2), the host of REVOLT’s Caresha Please podcast posted a meme with a simple caption of a heart. The message reads bluntly, “I love this n-gga down to the veins in his d!”
Fans quickly commented on the post, adding their two cents. “When you single but go together. she just having fun. How can you not love her?!” one fan wrote. Another added, “Chile whatever brother Love have her Ion want it.”
I remember being in love like that. It’s such a good feeling. 🤣🤣🤣 Except I was in a relationship.
That’s also a sign of some really good d*ck…
Diddy does a lot of Yung Miami’s career, just as much as dating her keeps him in the spotlight.
One thing for certain, whether Jason Derulo is with you or not, he is going to take care of the mother of his child.
In September 2021, roughly five months after the birth of their son. Jason and his girl Jena broke up. However, the pair decided to co-parent their baby boy.
TMZ reports that Jason Derulo reportedly dropped $3.6M on a Los Angeles home for the mother of his child. According to the site, the singer-songwriter purchased a spacious abode for model/actress Jena Frumes back in March.
“We’re told Jena and their son Jason King live there exclusively, with plenty of room,” the media outlet reported on July 19 about the pricey purchase.
“It’s a beautiful thing [that we can support each other], especially given our new relationship: co-parenting,” Derulo told PEOPLE in November 2021. “We have an amazing relationship, and we don’t care if we’re confusing people about our situation because our situation is our situation.”
He continued, “We love [our son] more than anything, and his wellbeing is really important to us. I’m really attentive of her wellbeing as well, and I want her to be good. I care about her a lot. We have an amazing relationship, contrary to a lot of people’s beliefs.”
It would seem Derulo stands by his words.
According to TMZ, the 5-bedroom home features nearly 5,000 sq feet and boasts luxe amenities, including a soundproof movie theater, an outdoor farmhouse, a BBQ area, and a pool with a built-in spa and waterfall.
Cheers to having a baby by a man who sticks by your side.
What’s interesting here is that you hear women like Summer Walker and many other women complaining that they have the worst baby daddy ever who never comes around. Including some of Future’s baby mama’s.
Are these men just that bad or does femininity or lack of femininity play a part. Cause Jena is still winning.
On Tuesday Vogue magazine published lavish photos of the recent Italian wedding between actor Jay Ellis and Serbian model Nina Senicar. The magazine had the exclusive privelege of documenting every aspect of the beautiful occasion at Villa Mangiacane, a palatial estate in Tuscany.
According to Vogue, Senicar walked down the aisle to Frank Ocean’s R&B ballad “Thinkin Bout You.”
“I was very emotional and tried really hard not to cry,” Senicar recalled. “Honestly, I didn’t see anybody else but Jay — I was so focused on his eyes and just being present.”
Senicar’s entrance was an equally special moment for her husband-to-be Ellis, he shared.
“There was a moment when I was standing there in front of everyone waiting for the giant wrought iron gates to open and to see Nina, but the moment kept going and going,” Ellis told Vogue. “So, I yelled out, ‘Baby, you coming?’ There was another beat or two after where Nina didn’t answer, so I turned to the crowd and said, ‘I guess that’s a no. There’s a space up here if anybody wants to get married today.’ And in perfect timing, as everyone laughed, Nina yelled out, ‘I’m coming baby!’ Everyone laughed at us, and then the gate opened and I was in awe when I saw Nina in her dress for the first time.”
The images of the happy couple quickly went viral.
But it was another photo of Ellis and Senicar that quickly elicited a whole different kind of viral reaction across a notoriously opinionated sector of social media: Black Twitter.
Jay Ellis turnt them comments TF off on that picture with his wife! He said he ain’t playing with y’all today.
— teddy wayne slocumb (@PerMyLastTweet) July 18, 2022
The unofficial group of Black-sympathizing Twitter users who wield their strength in numbers (of tweets) to impose their opinions and influence on any particular topic took keen notice of not just Ellis posting a wedding photo to his Instagram account, but also how he posted the single snapshot.
Ellis posted a photo of himself looking deep into his bride’s eyes as they walked hand-in-hand down a picturesque path at Villa Mangiacane. He captioned the photo with the date of the wedding — “July 9th, 2022…” and two other words: “Per sempre,” which is translated from Italian to mean “forever.”
At the end of the day, it appeared that Ellis was determined not to let anyone, anything and/or any comment steal the newlyweds’ thunder on Instagram.
There’s no accounting for the rest of social media, though.
This isn’t the first time Ellis has come under social media fire over Senicar.
Last October, Madame Noire reported that the internet thought Ellis was hiding his then-fiancée from the world. Madame Noire wrote at the time that the couple was not “Instagram official,” an unofficial social media rite of passage for any famous couple dating.
From Madame Noire:
Back in 2017, Ellis said that he isn’t worried about any backlash he may get from his Black fanbase about being with a white woman.
“I am in a relationship,” Ellis said on The Breakfast Club. “I’m in a very happy relationship and that’s where I leave it. I don’t really worry about anything else and that’s it. I think for me, we give so much of ourselves in what we do no matter what side of the industry we’re on so for me…a relationship for me is probably the most important thing that I think two people can have.”
Some black women are often disappointed with their favorite male black actors who are given winning onscreen roles as the love interest of black women, only to turn around and marry a non-black woman. It crushes their whole soul.
But the truth is every star needs fans. Isn’t it only right to place them in front of the people who will love them most? If you look at it that way, it’s business not personal.
This story gives insight to entrepreneurs. You are not your business. Those are two different entities. Oftentimes when you separate yourself, you’ll become free… Then, both you and your business will soar to the next level.
Communication is the most important part of maintaining a relationship. When the individuals inside the relationship fail to communicate their wants, desires, and needs properly, on top of being their authentic selves, the relationship is bound to fail.
On the reality tv show Love & Marriage: Huntsville Martell Holt’s actions made him out to be the villain in many viewers’ eyes.
Martell Holt said his marriage to Melody Holt didn’t work out because he wasn’t getting all he needed in their bedroom. Plus, the “Love & Marriage: Hunstville” star feels as if marriages also don’t work out because women can be too argumentative.
Before Destiny Payton-Williams confirmed her divorce from La’Berrick Williams, Martell told her that her marriage would eventually be tested because he felt she had too much mouth. Fans of the show accused Martell of being misogynistic, but Martell stood firm on Instagram and said what he stated is backed up by divorce statistics.
Melody said that the reason for the divorce was not only cheating, but also years into the marriage she noticed that Martell, 40, had not matured.
Martell a successful custom home builder turned reality TV star’s 7-year affair led to the demise of his marriage to Melody Shari. Now, Martell says his mistress didn’t provide half of what he received from his wife.
He regrets his affair, explaining Melody gave him the majority of what he needed/wanted but he desired more.
Martell alleges that he complained to Melody about her not giving him enough attention, focusing too much on work, not cooking enough, and not satisfying him sexually as often as he preferred. As a result, he sought what he says he was lacking in his marriage from another woman.
He eventually entered into a seven-year relationship with Arionne Curry, and the two have a son conceived while he was still married to Melody.
In fact, Curry’s son and Martell and Melody’s youngest daughter aren’t even a year apart.
In retrospect, Martell says he wouldn’t have made the same decision. He also explained that in the grand scheme of things, Melody was giving him more of what he yearned for.
“I think that was very foolish of me to do such a thing. But at that time, I wasn’t thinking like, oh my wife she’s giving me 85 percent and she’s giving me 15 or whatever,” he said.
He continued, adding that his decision to cheat was immature at best. Looking back, he wishes he would have handled things differently.
“I wasn’t thinking like that. If I would have thought like that, I don’t want that d*mn 15 percent,” he said. “I’ma stick in this house and sit my a*s down somewhere. But that wasn’t the case. I think that I just wasn’t thinking.”
Earlier in the interview Martell was asked about his experience with rejection and the way he handled it. To which Martell responded that his ex wife used to reject him, and he responded by cheating.
Holt says he felt like he had no choice but to. He had the discussion with his wife about what she wasn’t doing, like “she wasn’t cooking and I couldn’t have sex whenever I wanted it, so that really pushed me out the door. But I had to ask myself the reason why she was rejecting me.”
Before he could finish the full statement as to HIS PART and WHY his wife was rejecting him, the host interrupted him to ask how long was it between deciding to cheat and actually doing it.
Holt says the night before he met his new girlfriend, he and Melody got into it, where she told him to go get a girlfriend.
Holt: She said “Go out there and find you a girlfriend. That got into my spirit apparently, cause that night I met the girl and I told her “I want you to be my girlfriend.”
He loved that his girlfriend provided him with comfort, listened to him and respected him as a man, catered to him and stroked his ego. Holt says he needed those things.
In the beginning he felt getting but as time progressed he felt less guilty and it became the norm.
Martell said that in his marriage his wife didn’t complain about much, but he was the one complaining. Therefore he was able to have a 7-year-long affair with another woman before the marriage was dissolved.
Martell says he communicated but his wife later said “You should’ve grabbed me, and sat me down and told me that if you don’t take care of me, that I’m going to go out and cheat on you.”
Martell then explains that it was her fault for not communicating and that he was tired of having to go out with the kids to get food, because she wasn’t feeding him.
Watch the insightful video clip below:
Always give 100% in your relationship. If you can’t do that, don’t be in it.
To give 100% means:
1. Only get in a relationship with someone you have the deepest love for.
2. Ground yourself in that love and speak from that place
3. Ground yourself in SELF-LOVE
4. Be authentic about what you want. A person can not serve the needs you hide from them
5. Pay attention to your partner and know what they need before they do.
Ultimately the difference between a woman and a man is a woman will stick around to not get her needs met. But most men are going to go find SOMEONE to meet their needs. Even if that means stepping outside of the relationship.
While women often place their BUSINESS SUCCESS first in a relationship, the average man cares more about sex and getting his ego stroked. He will literally tear his entire empire down just to be sexually pleased by a woman with half the brain. For most men it’s all about the femininity and pleasure, not the knowledge in a woman’s brain.
One thing for certain Kandi Burruss is one of the few women that has it all. She has money, respect, power, fame, kids, good looks, property, friends, a respectable brand, and a husband who loves her.
Kandi Burruss & Todd Tucker first met on the set of “Real Housewives of Atlanta” in 2011, have been happily married for eight years, welcomed two children in their blended family, and developed several lucrative businesses, including two restaurants.
Todd Tucker reveals during an episode of “Black Love” that his wife Kandi Burruss set standards for their relationship early on. @blackloveinc/TikTok
On July 13, a resurfaced clip gave fans insight into how Tucker’s relationship began with Burruss and the standards the Xscape singer set for him early on during the pair’s 2019 interview on OWN’s “Black Love” series. In the video, Tucker disclosed that Burruss made it clear at the beginning of their union that she wasn’t looking for a casual encounter.
He said, “She told me she was like, ‘hey, this is cool. But I’m not just trying to be messing with you for a long time. What are you going to do? Do you want to make this a real relationship? … I don’t really need no new friends.’”
Tucker also shared that although he was new to the Atlanta area at the time and had the urge to explore, he decided to pursue a relationship with Burruss because of her honesty.
He said, “I was like, damn, it’s like I ain’t been in Atlanta that long. Let me run around for a minute. But she made me make a decision, and I just respected that so much. Cause a lot of women don’t make guys make decisions. Its kind of like, ‘I like him, I don’t want to mess this up.’ And she was just like ‘Dude what you going to do?’”
When Tucker’s remarks were posted on a social media blog, many applauded Burruss for setting “firm boundaries.”
“She set firm boundaries and he felt like she was worth it. Still rocking years later. I love it.”
“She set her expectations, and he had an option to end things and let her find someone else who aligned with her, or be the person who met those expectations.”
“AS SHE SHOULD…. But that’s not applying pressure, that’s applying standards and boundaries..”
“She told him what she wanted and expected! He could’ve said no! But he knew then he wanted her and he got her!”
Smart man. He could be still out here in Atlanta dating 200 women, with no reality show.
Now he has love, fame and multiple successful businesses.
This is also interesting because women these days are often told to tell a man that they aren’t looking for a relationship and to not put pressure on a man. That keeps many women cycling in and out of casual relationships.
The more you’re unafraid and willing to not only speak on what you want but also not accept less than that, is the moment you will be living the life of your dreams.
As Xzibit struggles financially he believes it’s absurd for him to pay his estranged wife spousal support … he says he’s struggling to make ends meet while she’s living in their $3 million home with her new boyfriend.
The “Pimp My Ride” star just filed a response to Krista Joiner‘s legal docs seeking spousal support in their divorce … X says he simply doesn’t have the cash because a huge chunk of his income dried up during the pandemic.
According to TMZ, 47-year-old Xzibit says in new documents, he’s no longer the breadwinner he was before the divorce … claiming he hasn’t worked in Hollywood since 2019, isn’t getting any money from his cannabis ventures and lost tons of income when COVID scuttled the concert scene.
X who according to Celebrity Net Worth has a networth of $2 Million says in the docs he’s “struggling to make ends meet at the same time trying to uphold being a public figure, pay my own expenses and provide for my son.”
Xzibit paints Krista, 48, as someone who is doing just fine without spousal support … he says her recent income was around $175,000 a year and claims she’s living in their home with her new boyfriend and the man’s kids.
X says Krista’s boyfriend has been bragging about the digs on social media, filming a pilot in the home and taking down Xzibit’s artwork and recording plaques.
Xzibit says he asked Krista to agree to sell the home after she filed for divorce in February … but he says she only recently agreed to unload the property and now the housing market is starting to cool.
X says the home is estimated to be worth $3.7 Million … but he thinks they could’ve sold for a higher figure if she played ball earlier, and says they had to take out short-term loans to pay the mortgage pending a sale.
Oh, and get this … Xzibit claims Krista went behind his back to obtain a new lease on a 2021 Bentley and signed for the lease under his company name, Xzibit Inc., even though she’s not an exec there. He also alleges she forged his name on a check for the down payment.
X says he told Krista to return the Bentley because he couldn’t afford the car and insurance payments, but says she refused and hid the car for 8 months before it was repossessed in January … only a few weeks before she filed for divorce.
A day after his wedding Xzibit revealed how he never took women seriously before he met his wife, ” There was a time I thought I would NEVER get married. I thought that being single was the only way for me, not knowing that I was giving up more of myself to people who didn’t care about me or love me unconditionally. I had to do a LOT of growing up and over time came the maturity I needed to be able to make a commitment stronger than anything that I have done in my life outside of being a father to my two beautiful sons. Yesterday, I made my family complete.”
A few notes/lessons to take away from this story.
Imagine the line of women that Xzibit dealt with whose time was wasted… Another reminder that if he’s not ready, he’s not your guy.
This story appears to be a mismanagement of time, skills and resources. Once you’re on tv and large amounts of money is seemingly coming in non-stop it’s time to seek out good investment advice.
Once a man is tired of you, most times, he’s done taking care of you.
Men do a lot of things during their marriage. They lie, they cheat and deceive. Sometimes men even abuse women so she ends up wanting to take half from him in the end.
We don’t know if that’s the case with Xzibit.
When it comes down to marriage we see two things. We see masculine women who later must provide for their ex-husbands and we see masculine men having to provide for their feminine ex-wives.
Each person provides or is provided for based upon their own personal brand equity. Life doesn’t work the way it used to. Now days each person has to build their own personal brand and make it so valuable that your presence attracts millions of dollars.
This is a skill…
Not to mention, they always say how you get her is how you keep her. Xzibit knows the game. He can no longer afford to provide for his wife and keep her in the lifestyle he started her out at.
But at the end of the day, no married man should be able to claim he is struggling. That doesn’t make sense, unless you were unequally yoked. In this case having a boss chick as a wife is a better idea. She could show Xzibit right now how to get on the internet and make a few hundred thousand a month minimum.
Men want a feminine woman, so income to continue being the boss is important. It costs to keep every woman except the 50/50 woman who is the least valued by men.
Watching how the Wendy Williams show was snatched off the air, is something I never imagined that I would see. Neither did Williams’ ex-husband Kevin Hunter.
is revealing more about why he believes The Wendy Williams Show went off the air, and he includes himself as one of the reasons.
In a recent interview with YouTube personality Choke No Joke, Hunter said that the production company behind The Wendy Williams Show, Debmar-Mercury, was not interested in supporting Williams after her health became even more problematic.
“[The show] ended because of the negligence of her production company in regards to realizing how severe her health was,” he said. “And when you’re in a situation where [you’re] just busy trying to divide and conquer, [you] remove something instead of focusing on what’s really going on.”
“I mean everybody unfortunately got a chance to see her pass out on national television and it was mortifying and you would think after that happened they would have put certain things in place,” he continued. “In some sort of department to deal with any kind of crisis or any kind of help she may really need.”
Hunter said that the reason Williams passed out in that now-infamous clip from her Halloween episode was “a mixture of…her thyroid condition, being overworked, dehydration, and just not taking care of yourself.”
“Now luckily, soon after that, with the proper hydration and you know, getting her heart rate stable, she was fine,” he continued. “But it was a scary sign then, and like I said, you would think that from then, they would put certain things in place in case it gets worse.”
He also said it was “disheartening” for him to see so many guest hosts take over Williams’ purple chair when she was out tending to her health during the final season, calling it “a race for the seat.”
“It was real disheartening because most of the people would not reach out to see if you’re doing good,” he said. “When it becomes a race for the seat, you can’t take it. In any other business, you can’t just remove something that was great and just put something else there.”
Hunter stated that when he was working as Williams’ manager, he would make sure to protect Williams’ position by getting people in who would “fill that void properly,” such as suggesting Williams’ friend Nick Cannon host during a period of time when Williams was away during a prior season.
But what’s the most interesting is that Hunter addressed his part in the deterioration of Williams’ mental health. Toward the end of the show’s run, news came to light of Hunter’s relationship with his longtime mistress, including the birth of a child outside of Hunter’s marriage. Hunter said that Williams didn’t have enough time to process the changes in their relationship or focus on her sobriety.
“In a perfect world, Debmar-Mercury, in the midst of my situation with having a baby and getting through a divorce, with her situation of coming out of a sober house…they did not take or give her time that a person woul dneed going through the severe amount of crisis,” he said.
Quavious Marshall has always had a talent for manifesting the life he wanted. Just ask his mother, Edna. Even as a baby growing up in Athens, Georgia, the future leader of Migos already showed signs that he was divining his own future.
While understanding how to manifest the life of your dreams should be important to most, it’s not. What is important to people is that during an interview with GQ Hype, Quavo touched on the heated elevator incident with Saweetie.
“If I can ever speak on it, I never once in a million years want to do any harm to any woman, period,” he said.
In the video, Saweetie threw something at Quavo as the elevator doors opened. They were then doing a tug-of-war over an orange suitcase. Saweetie then fell and Quavo didn’t help her up.
“I don’t like what people think,” the Georgia native added. “When they saw the elevator thing they thought it was abusive, something crazy.”
Quavo is still single but isn’t quite ready to mingle. Even though he has been linked to Karrueche, he is focusing on himself.
“I want to establish [myself] as a human being before I step into any more relationships or anything that can steer me off.”
His mother Edna also chimed in about his love life. She said when she meets a love interest of his, she gives them some unsolicited advice.
“I try to tell the girls [he dates], ‘Y’all, just leave him alone if you want him to like you! Don’t have sex with him! Because if you do, he’s just going to go home’,” she said. “I try to tell them that, but they won’t listen.”
Quavo wasn’t happy with what she said at all.
“What did she say that for?” he responded. “My God.”
Saweetie revealed that had broken up via Twitter. She had claimed their was infidelity on Quavo’s behalf.
“Presents don’t band aid scars and the love isn’t real when the intimacy is given to other women,” she wrote.