John Boyega knows what he wants in a partner and is a bit surprised that other people actually have a problem with that.
PEOPLE MAG REPORTS: In an interview with British GQ published September 13, the Star Wars actor, 30, said that now that he’s in his thirties both work and his personal life are a “priority.”
“I’m 30 now. From 28, I just worked on getting peace and getting myself together,” he told the magazine. “Moving with honesty and transparency. No misleading. No lying. And being devoted to what I commit myself to.”
Now that he’s ready to think more seriously about finding love, Boyega said he’s specific in what he wants in a partner.
“I only date Black,” he said. “Then it’s about chemistry, personality, goals. Is there a synergy? Can I help you? Can you help me?”
Always thought certain reactions to preference would only occur if you belittle other people while expressing what you like. This would mean your preference is based on negativity. Yet all I have expressed is my love for cultural familiarity and the positivity I feel. Interesting
John Boyega Says It Would Be ‘Very Surprising to Me’ If Next James Bond Actor Is Black
He added, “I’m very disciplined in the type of women I speak to. They don’t want you in their business.”
Boyega said that he looks to his own parents, who have been together for 35 years, as inspiration.
“Being in the public eye, they would prefer if you had the wife and family,” he said. “It’s the ultimate PR package. But my parents have been together for 35 years. There’s nothing that this world can do in terms of pressure to make me be inspired by anything else but my parents.”
Last month, while appearing on SiriusXM’s Bevelations, host Bevy Smith asked the Golden Globe winner to confirm he likes “brown and thick” women.
“Well, we’ve got to be honest, you know, before I wouldn’t have said that at 27, 28. Now I’m like, ‘No, no, you’ve got to speak it into existence,'” Boyega explained. “Brown and thick, melanin levels past 75 percent. Thick levels. You have to be looking good.”
Boyega turned to none other than Robert Downey Jr. and Orlando Bloom for dating advice before his career took off with his 2015 debut in the Star Wars universe.
OWNING YOUR TRUTHS
“It was time for me to sit down with someone who’s been through the extremes of Hollywood and to be given some tips as to how to stay stable,” Boyega told GQ in 2017, explaining that the conversation quickly turned to the topic of women.
“And people advise you as a celebrity, ‘Make sure you get someone who doesn’t care about your career,'” Boyega noted.
The British actor disagreed with that take, telling his new mentors: “She has to care about it to understand it.”
The marriage between Safaree Samules and Erica Mena is officially dissolved.
According to TMZ, the judge signed off on the divorce September 12, after the exes came to an agreement through arbitration.
Among those terms … Safaree will cash out $4,305 a month in child support.
Erica filed for divorce in May 2021 and the two have been living separately since, sharing joint custody of their 2 young children.
The pair already unloaded their sprawling $1.3 million Georgia mansion in June. Erica will once again go by her maiden name.
Their entire relationship was on and off again. Many assumed that many of the couples online antics were simply for publicity. But it was truly their real lives playing out on social media.
Safaree would eventually come to the conclusion the marriage was his biggest mistake.
The “Love & Hip Hop” power couple were married for less than 2 years when Erica claimed Safaree was cheating while she was pregnant with their second child, and she allegedly trashed his stuff … effectively flushing the marriage for good.
Cheating shouldn’t be a surprise. If Safaree cheated on Nicki Minaj and risked losing his celebrity lifestyle, but of course she would cheat on Erica now that his fame is cemented.
It only makes sense. Often truly beautiful women have such high self-esteem that they feel like just because a man did something to the previous woman that doesn’t mean he will do it to her. Sometimes they are right. Sometimes they are wrong.
There is positive thinking, discernment of the spirit, rosey red glasses and there are also patterns. Either way love is a risk. Many people calculate their love on paper that looks good, yet the relationship still falls apart. Even when the relationship is deep in your heart, most people are not healed, dating representatives sent to help them heal higher parts of themselves.
It sucks, but most relationship comes to a fast end, especially in the celebrity world. Yet all relationships end eventually, even in death.
Safaree is now dating Kimbella Matos and Erica seems to be healing and taking it easy. But I am sure she has a line of ballers waiting for their chance to date her and will give her way more than that lil $4,300 a month she gets from creating a family with Safaree.
All is well in Celebrity Land.
Wishing them both the best on this journey called LIFE.
NLE Choppa, 19, and his girlfriend Marissa Da’Nae ended their relationship and like most over-giving, heart-centered, unconscious women, the 27-year-old model is not handling the breakup well at all.
The couple hasn’t disclosed the reason for the split. However, Marissa is on social media pouring her heart out.
Despite man not agree on their age separation, the model shared a few tweets about the bond believes she shares with the rapper. She called the 19-year-old rapper the “best man” she ever had, along with saying she’s thankful to experience her softer side from being with such an enlightened man. (If you’re not aware, the kid is woke.)
Bryson was really the best man I’ve ever had. But we all have to learn and grow. As much as I try to show him I’m in his corner, some journeys he wants to take alone. I have built a family with this man, a relationship with this man, a deep meaningful bond.
We had understandings that other folks wouldn’t accept or understand or even agree with. This isn’t what we both wanted but here we are. He’s a great man and he’s constantly learning. I don’t know what’s for me next but I’m very thankful to experience this soft side of me.
Marissa then followed up by sharing an emotional video on Thursday. On Instagram live, she spoke about how hard it is coping with her new reality.
“I have [given] myself to one man for a year […] You go through so much with that person and my healing process, I can’t tell y’all how hard it is for me to sleep […] how hard it is for me to get up, and face reality because this was not my reality a week ago. I can’t tell y’all; how hard it is because I love so hard and I love harder and harder and harder every time and this one hurts the most because I really thought I was gonna marry this man,” she said in a video as she cried.
NLE Chopper Sympathizes With Ex-GF Marissa After Public Outcry
NLE Choppa is understanding of how his ex feels it seems. The rapper defended her emotional revelation on IG live after clips from the confession went viral.
Some people don’t know how to grieve, that’s something I have to understand. If they do it publicly, privately, or whatever atleast they letting there hurt out. That’s the detox. Understand that some people love hard, So certain things hit them HARDER !
Some people don’t know how to grieve, that’s something I have to understand. If they do it publicly, privately, or whatever atleast they letting there hurt out. That’s the detox. Understand that some people love hard, So certain things hit them HARDER !
At one point Marissa lost the child that they were expecting together. So it’s definitely been a journey.
According to the social media grapevine, Blue Face broke up with her because she wouldn’t let him cheat in peace. He wasn’t ready to settle down or be in a committed relationship.
I’m like, If one more woman cries about breaks down crying, cause she thought she was going to marry that man. Join The Club Sis.
When a man decided he’s done, they don’t give zero phucks. You can cry, tweet, let them know you still love them and blah, blah, blah.
They see the tears, but they don’t understand the pain. In their mind, you are a woman. Go find you a new man. It’s really that simple.
But women/especially when it’s you in the situation don’t see things that clearly. You lay there on the couch feeling like a part of you had died, heart broken wide open, still wanting what it wants. You may spend months or years healing, hoping, wishing and praying they come back.
While you are waiting, grab my book YOU CAN’T FORCE A MAN TO VALUE YOU – BECOMING A HIGH VALUE WOMAN & ATTRACTING YOUR DREAM MAN. Even married women learn something from this book.
Over the years, many things have been said about Steve Harvey’s relationship advice.
Whether you agree or disagree, what you SEE is that Steve Harvey love’s his wife. He’s obsessed with her.
His life has dramatically improved since he met her and he is happy.
Marjorey Harvey is one of the most honored women in the celebritysphere. She knows something. Even her daughter Lori Harvey has her pick at the cream of the crop of top rich celebrity men.
What they know is deep, feminine, Goddess self love. The kind of love that Kings and rich men fall in love with.
Not every woman wants a rich man. At least not every woman will admit it.
For the Queens that do, it starts with self-love, deeply honoring yourself, and not being afraid to lose a man.
Steve Harvey recently reminded social media of how Marjorie came to living the good life.
On Sept. 3, Steve took to his Instagram account where he shared a resurfaced clip while recalling a time when he almost lost Marjorie.
In the 2018 video from Steve’s self-titled daytime television show, the comedian revealed that Marjorie gave him an ultimatum after she found out that he was entertaining another woman.
Although the exact timeline wasn’t provided, Marjorie revealed it occurred after Steve was freshly single following his divorce from his second wife, Mary Lee Harvey, in 2005. Following the remarks, Steve shared that Marjorie’s “small threat” came after she overheard him on the phone with an unidentified woman.
Without disclosing details about the conversation, he said, “What actually happened was, she was in my place in New York. My phone rang while she was over there asleep on the couch and the phone rang and it was a girl. I’m over there against the window at my desk talking but I hung up.”
Further in his speech, Steve revealed that he didn’t know that Marjorie had overheard the brief discussion and was stunned to find her packing in the middle of the night.
He said, “I didn’t know that she heard it, so I fell asleep and then I heard some noise in the hallway about three o’clock in the morning, and it was her with her coat on and her bags packed. She was rolling them up the hallway.”
Steve added that when he tried to address the situation, Marjorie claimed that she was going home because the comedian wasn’t serious about being in a committed relationship.
”I went in there; I said, ‘What’s happening?’ She said, ‘I’m going home. When you are ready for something special and real, you come get me.’ “
Toward the end of the video, Steve shared that following Marjorie’s ultimatum, he decided to give up his bachelor ways by breaking his phone and throwing it to the ground.
He said, “I took that phone. I snapped that phone in half at 3 o’clock in the morning and threw it on the ground.”
As fans viewed the upload, many applauded Marjorie for standing her ground and knowing her worth.
“My kind of girl… if I’m still available. Nothing less.”
“Bravo…know your worth, then add tax,,I admire this woman.”
“@marjorie_harvey you go girl, know you worth.”
“Because she had and still has standards! Well done @marjorie_harvey.”
“@marjorie_harvey I was just telling someone this story last night. I remember and think about this story so often as women were afraid to use our voice and walk away. Thank you.”
Many heard this story so many years ago. Maybe you did too. Maybe life happened and you forgot. Time to wake up.
Jesse Williams and his ex wife have been embroiled in a bitter child support battle the past few months, and Jesse continues to win and get the upper hand on his ex wife.
Recently scored another massive win against his ex-wife Aryn Drake-Lee after a judge decided to lower the actor’s payment to a little over $6,100 a month. The decision comes after the former “Grey’s Anatomy star” requested the amount be reduced by more than $30,000 following his exit from the hit ABC show.
According to legal documents obtained by RadarOnline.com, the 41-year-old and the self-sufficient real estate broker appeared in front of a court judge on Tuesday, Sept. 6, for a hearing on child support.
The outlet reported that before Jesse took the stand, people in the courtroom were asked to leave, and the judge announced that he would lower the actor’s child support payments to $6,146 per month when he is in town and has custody of his two kids. When the “Station 19” actor is away, he is ordered to pay Drake-Lee a total of $7,953.
Last April, a judge agreed to temporarily lower the star’s installments to $6,413, a significant drop from the $40,000 he was obligated to pay monthly for his two children, 8-year-old daughter Sadie and 6-year-old son Maceo.
In a letter filed by the seasoned Hollywood star, Williams claimed he was not making as much since leaving the drama series. However, he also accused his former partner of investing the monthly payments into “failed or failing businesses while failing to seek gainful employment despite having an Ivy League degree, speaking three languages, and having a wealth of competitive real estate experience.”
He continued, “non-income-producing experiments such as a restaurant, in June 2020, wellness and apothecary shops is contrary to our children’s best interests.”
He added, “I am not trying to shirk my responsibility to support our children, but both parents have a duty to support the children, and Aryn has clearly refused to participate, insisting that I be entirely responsible.”
Drake-Lee tries to use the court system to get back at her ex
Williams and Drake-Lee met in New York City when the latter was still a school teacher. The pair ultimately tied the knot in 2017 but divorced five years later. The separation was finalized in October 2020.
The Grey’s Anatomy alum Jesse Williams filed papers against the real estate broker on February 8 accusing his ex-wife of “repeated violation of court orders” and “erratic, gatekeeping behavior” in court documents obtained by Us Weekly.
All this despite his “deeply connected, loving relationship” with his daughter and son. He alleged that his ex has taken the kids from their school and his home’s front yard on his custodial days. Not to mention, she ignores most of his FaceTime calls.
The actor went on to claim that the California native has “manic outbursts in front of the children”.Including in October 2021 when she allegedly screamed at him and “yanked Sadie from my arms like a rag doll” on Halloween.
He further alleged that Drake-Lee’s “unreasonable” legal filings and behavior are “a perpetual loop of the same disproven, unsupported tales and flagrant disrespect for the court’s orders”.
According to a TMZ report, one of Aryn’s many gripes was the fact that Jesse posts pictures of their children on Instagram. While most people find this type of thing to be doting and endearing, Aryn feels like Jesse is only posting pics to build public empathy.
Williams filed the documents in response to papers that Drake-Lee submitted in December 2021. She requested at the time to modify their custody schedule. Claiming that his work and other factors led to inconsistency and disruptions to their kids’ lives. She alleged that Williams had “demonstrated a lack of concern for [stability], often making decisions based on what’s most convenient for him at the time, rather than the overall best interest of our children.”
We’re about to have a boss b*tch conversation. This is for women who make 6-7 Figures. I am not interested in hearing the opinions of people who don’t get it. Do you and be happy.
On the surface what Jesse is saying is true. Aryan had a ton of time, money, and resources to build a successful business. Heck she had enough money to hire someone to build out her entire business for her.
I also totally understand Aryan. Sis had a plan and executed well. She got her man to the top, but Sis forgot about herself, because no one probably told her how life actually goes.
The thing about MEN is that most women don’t realize THEY ARE MEN. Most men are not going to deny themselves of happiness in order to make a woman happy that he is no longer in love with.
Aryan started life off by taking care of Jesse and financially supporting him while he worked on getting his acting career off the ground. She was successful in doing so.
It’s common basic b*tch sense to believe that because you’ve shown this man you care about him a great deal, and 100% have his back financially, that he is now going to return the favor, provide for you, and allow you space to rest in your femininity and figure out what kind of passion business you would like to start.
As you can see with Jesse, that is not the case. He is over it and really sticking it to her. Most women are basic b*tches to men because they have very little knowledge of men and they will also self-sacrifice and give to man who is supposed to be sacrificing and giving to her. (Successful women often have the least amount of sense when it comes to men…. We’ve all been there before healing.)
None of that is a good idea. Over-giving and being a masculine woman often breeds resentment and bitterness as we clearly see that being played out in this case.
Some attractive men understand that most women are asleep to deep self-love and unhealed in their feminine core. They get unsuspecting women who finance them, sex them, provide for them and make it easy for the men to stick around for a little while.
Once he is financially stable or as successful as he always wanted to be, he moves on to the next woman.
Men are men and most of them have a need to protect and provide. At least the rich ones do. Which is why they are rich. If you protect and provide for him, you can’t serve him as a man. You take his job and make him feel un-needed. Then he spends time with a woman who needs him, who chances are makes way less money than you and doesn’t have to deal with the broke version of him, because now you’ve made him rich.
If a man wasn’t a rich, successful PROVIDER man from the jump, chances are you can’t turn him into one. It has to be in him, not on him.
Men say they want a woman that’s down for them before the come-up, but that stops in college. After that you have to accept a man for where he is. Once his POTENTIAL is up he’s a King, and if you have mothered him and provided for him, you may not know how to talk to that new King…
As far as her failed businesses, very few people will understand the huge amount of effort required to start a spiritual businesses that changes the world. Although she had everything she needed to be extremely successful, there is no telling the stress that she had to deal with that maybe caused her to lack clarity.
At the end of the day, now you understand WHY she’s bitter. It’s not about right or wrong. It’s about understanding your divinity. She acted like a masculine man financially during the relationship and now he sees her as such. He has no desire to make life easy or comfy for Drake.
The internet has accused Tory Lanez and Iggy Azalea of dating for quite a few months.
Now there is a rumor that R&B star Tory Lanez has impregnated rapper Iggy Azalea and they are expecting their first child together and Iggy’s second baby.
Congratulations are in order. Media Take Out has learned that hip hop star Iggy Azalea is pregnant – this time with rapper Tory Lanez’ baby.
Iggy already shares a child with a different rapper, Atlanta’s Playboi Cardi. This new pregnancy marks the second child by a rapper by the beautiful Iggy.
Iggy and Tory have been friends for some time, Media Take Out has learned. But the two began seeing each other romantically about 6 months ago. And the relationship went from 0 to 100 real quick, according to one of Iggy’s friends.
The insider explained, “Iggy and Tory are together, and they quickly fell in love, They’re trying to keep their relationship out of the public eye though – because Iggy doesn’t want to be associated with [the drama surrounding him and female rapper Meg Thee Stallion].”
Tory is currently facing charges for allegedly shooting Meg in the foot last year in Los Angeles. While Tory denies that he shot Meg, the Houston rapper is adamant that Tory fired multiple shots at her – and one landed in her foot.
So how does Media Take Out know Iggy’s pregnant? … her friend spilled the tea.
The friend told Media Take Out, “Iggy’s pregnant and she’s really happy. This is the happiest she’s ever been in her life.”
The pregnancy, according to Iggy’s friend is just 3 months along, so don’t expect to see the blonde beauty showing for at least a few more months.
But Tory is definitely out here repping for his soon-to-be babys mama. Over the weekend, Tory performed at a concert in Miami, and he was wearing an Iggy Azalea tour t-shirt.
Back in July, Tasha K claimed that Iggy & Tory were an item.
“Leaving the baby at home to go and chill with Black men who are accused of shooting Black women,” Tasha said of Iggy. ” Less competition for her. I truly say competition because she spent a great deal of money to look like this. This is not natural. You can’t argue with me … I’m sure she’s probably getting the vouchers for child care. So she can go out on day dates with Tory. Because she can’t go out at night because she can’t afford child care.”
Iggy responded to that on Twitter.
“Tasha watch your mouth & definitely keep my sons name out of it,” she tweeted. “I certainly DO have that good lawyer money, don’t get sued AGAIN, you have rent to pay baby.”
Iggy also stated that she and Tory often write songs together and go way back. The two were also seen cozied up in Miami in July.
Back in December 2021 Madonna hit up Tory about his “Pluto’s Last Comet” song on his 80’s Inspired. It was said to be eerily familiar to Madonna’s 1985 Hit, ” Into The Groove.”
Months later, in May of 2022 TORY LANEZ AND MADONNA SPARK DATING RUMORS AFTER GOING TO THE GERVONTA DAVIS FIGHT TOGETHER
I don’t believe this rumor. It looks more like Tory is strategically aligning himself with a certain kind of people in order to distract and move the conversation away from his drama with Megan The Stallion. That trial is set to start on September 14.
Regardless of what happens in your personal life, the business/brand must keep moving forward.
This publicity method appears to be working for Tory.
Ne-Yo is over his estranged wife Crystal Renay Smith who started her month off right and filed to divorce him on August 1 in Atlanta, Georgia. She listed the date of marriage as February 20, 2016 and the date of separation as July 22, 2022.
According to the divorce documents, Renay alleges that the “So Sick” singer recently fathered a child with another woman.
Now Neyo is playing hardball, demanding joint physical custody of their 3 children.
According to court documents obtained by RadarOnline.com, the singer agreed that his marriage is “irretrievably broken with no hope of reconciliation.”
Ne-Yo objected to Crystal’s request for temporary and permanent alimony along with primary custody. He said they should share joint legal and physical custody. The music producer said he should pay child support but scoffed at the idea of spousal support.
Ne-Yo said he is an “active and loving Father to his children.”
“[Ne-Yo] asserts that he is financially, physically, and emotionally capable of serving as a joint physical custodian of the parties’ three minor children alongside the [Crystal].”
Further, Ne-Yo asked for both parties to pay debts solely in his or Crystal’s name.
He demanded the exclusive use of the marital home in Georgia as “he has been solely responsible for the mortgage and maintenance of this property since the date of purchase.” The singer said he purchased 3 properties during the marriage and maintained them by himself.
Ne-Yo wants Crystal’s lack of contribution considered when the assets are divided up.
The singer admitted he is an established professional entertainer while Crystal had been “formally unemployed at times during the marriage.” Ne-Yo said Crystal’s image and earning potential “has benefited significantly due to her personal association with the Respondent and his career.”
As a result, Ne-Yo said, “[Crystal] possess the considerable ability to procure stable and consistent employment at this current time and following the dissolution of the marriage.”
The singer also wants Crystal to pay her own legal fees.
The two share three minor children Shaffer Smith Jr., Roman Smith and Isabella Smith. Crystal said she wanted primary custody of their kids with Ne-Yo being awarded joint legal custody.
In her petition she said she “is entitled to a divorce from [Ne-Yo] upon the ground that the marriage is irretrievably broken with no hope for reconciliation.” She adds, “[Ne-Yo] has committed the act of adultery.” Crystal accused her ex of having a baby with another woman.
Crystal demanded temporary and permanent alimony in both child and spousal support. She told the court she relied on Ne-Yo’s money to pay the bills since they agreed she wouldn’t work.
“[Crystal] requests that [Ne-Yo] be solely responsible for any and all debts and obligations independently acquired by [Ne-Yo] and that [Ne-Yo] hold [Crystal] harmless for any such debts or obligations,” the filing read.
Crystal’s petition demanded Ne-Yo cough up $25k to cover her legal fees.
On July 30, Renay shared a post on Instagram alleging NE-YO was unfaithful to her in their marriage and that the pair’s years-long relationship is now over. NE-YO, on his part, said he will not comment on “personal matters.”
“Eight years. 8 years of lies and deception,” Renay wrote in her post, which has since been taken down along with her entire account. “8 years of unknowingly sharing my life and my husband with numerous women who sell their bodies to him unprotected…every last one of them!”
“To say I’m heartbroken and disgusted is a[n] understatement,” her message continued. “To ask me to stay and accept it is absolutely insane. The mentality of a narcissist. I will no longer lie to the public or pretend that this is something it isn’t. I choose me, I choose my happiness and health and my respect.”
“I gained 3 beautiful children out of this but nothing else but wasted years and heartache,” Renay added.
Some men will continue taking care of their wife even when he’s no longer in love with her. But most men won’t.
While I honor women who are 100% feminine, have a husband who provides, and she doesn’t work, I had to start honoring my own personal beliefs.
When a man is IN LOVE with you, he will do anything for you. That’s the time to deeply relax into your femininity, rest, take a break and then come up with a well thought out business plan and execute.
It’s not the time to believe you made it and get knocked up with 20 kids. It’s the time to understand you’ve successfully created a great opportunity for yourself to financially thrive and build a legacy.
There must be a balance between yourself, your business, your children, your household, and the man you love.
When we see women like Crystal who get snatched from the strip club into the exact rich, celebrity life she dreamed of, initially she’s grateful and will accept any behavior from a man. But the longer she stays, the more kids she has, the more she falls deeper in love and becomes invested.
Eventually she builds a name for herself and wants RESPECT. Those of us who have large, visible online brands can’t afford to be disrespected by a man’s infidelities.
Once she’s popular, she will no longer keep putting up with his ish, due to public embarrassment.
Thinking of the Wendy Williams situation. She was willing to keep the man until the public found out that he’d bought a house down the street for his public mistress. It’s the public eye and humiliaton that often forces women to love themselves and own their truths.
In each case, a man is only going to treat you the way you let him. Kim Kardashian and Jennifer Lopez are two women who don’t play.
Someone once told me that there is something wrong with a woman who doesn’t trust a man to 100% provide for her. That woman did that, until years later she started her business and retired her husband.
I disagree. There is everything right with a woman who doesn’t trust a man to provide for her forever. After all it’s really God providing through a man. Sometimes it’s time to get a new man. The more financially stable and independent a woman is the better choices she has in men; when she works on her femininity too.
In this case despite coming up off of Neyo’s name, Crystal hasn’t done much for her business brand. Chances are the judge will grant her at least $25,000 a month. Divorce laws are made to stop men from completely wasting a woman’s time. As he can always go get a younger woman, as reports say he already has.
Crystal will probably get on a reality show and create more income. At the end of the day, the embarrassment pays. Yet there are non celebrity boss chicks who make a ton of money and are married to every day men.
Sidenote: It’s funny that people have been calling Neyo gay for years. Meanwhile he’s been having sex with multiple women without a condom, according to Crystal.
Months after ending her relationship with Travis Kelce, Instagram Influencer Kayla Nicole realizes she wasted 5-years of her life waiting on a man to marry her.
The Savage x Fenty ambassador recently took to TikTok and spoke on how she thought she would be getting married after five years of dating the Kansas City Chiefs tight end.
The caption in the video says:
“You’re not stupid Kayla….No, I am actually……Thought I’d get wifed after dating for 5 years….that’s 1,825 days.”
Nicole had to sit and watch as her good friend, Brittany Matthews, get married to Patrick Mahomes, have a child, and then get pregnant with a second one while her relationship never progressed.
In March, Kayla recalled meeting Kelce for the first time when she took part in an “ask me anything” on Instagram.
“He had been following me and insta-flirting for a few months,” Kayla, 30, wrote when asked how she met the 32-year-old Chiefs player. “All double taps and no dm. Soooo after a little liquid courage and a pep talk from @iqueenb (something along the lines of ‘WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR’) I dm’d him on New Years.
“Slid into that thang like it was third base, idk baseball so not sure that’s the best analogy, but ya,” she continued in a separate Instagram Story. “Anywho … lesson here is making the first move might be your best move sis.”
Months ago she shut down a viral rumor that they broke up because Kelce made her pay half the bills
Kayla has since deleted an Instagram tribute to Kelce, which she shared earlier this year after the Chiefs’ season ended in an AFC Championship loss to the Bengals.
Guess it’s time to move on.
Kayla is a beautiful, hard-working woman. Yet like most every day women and celebrity women, she has very little understanding of how men work.
A marriage with a man has to be negotiated.
When you are young, you’re willing to go with the flow and let a man lead the direction of the relationship. When you are a wise woman you get with a man who is leading the relationship where you want it to go, based upon your unspoken strategy. Which is what Kayla should of had when she jumped in him DM’s being easy.
Kayla knew she wanted to get married the whole time. But she was willing to suppress her desires for 5-years. Men often do not marry women who suppress their own feelings and emotions. They definitely don’t marry the woman who chases. Such a woman fails to put herself first. Kayla failed to reverse the game on him once she had him.
She placed more value on him because he’s an NFL star than she did on herself.
These day every woman should invest in a dating coach so that she can get what she wants faster. That will eliminate 25-years of trying to figure it out on your own.
Either way she’s winning, because she has our attention.
Hopefully she peeps game and has a strategy with the next inbox she pops in. Cause keeping a man’s attention and getting him to do what you want him to do is a whole new ball game.
