I saw this post going viral on social media and shook my head after I finished reading it.
The post reads:
“So I was watching Gillie da kid podcast (MILLION DOLLAR WORTH OF GAME) last night .. old episode .. He said on his first date with his wife their bill was $150, he asked her can she pay for it, She did with no problem no questions, later that night after he dropped her off , he gave her $400 … she asked what was it for? He told her YOU had my back. I was testing you to see if I was F*** up out here ..could I count on you..
I wanted to see if she was after my pockets or my heart ..Then goes along to say this generation wants everything given to them and not knowing people motives or intentions.. before figuring out who they are as a person.. .
I knew Regina was solid from that day on .. almost 25 years together and I trust her with my life He mentioned that Regina has always been loyal to him and never wanted an extravagant lifestyle she even went to prison with me when i was arrested in 2007. She only spent 10 days in prison but never complained.. I did my time and hers .. because it was my fault with the whole situation.. her charges was eventually dismissed .. but she never brought it up. .. my life PARTNER.. my soulmate. .”
The post went viral with black men saying women like this don’t exist anymore and black women saying that they are tired of being dogged out, and ran through the mud by men.
While Gillie and his wife have been together for a minute, things have changed in the dating world. Black women are excelling, healing their femininity, making more money, and reaching greater heights of self-love while having higher expectations of men.
This is the real reason why so many people in the black community are single. If a man does not know how to treat a woman like the Goddess she is, then she will refuse to be in a committed relationship with him. Like who has time to go to jail for a man???
Meanwhile single men are not catching on and are continuing to feed into the narrative that women are second class citizens only good for what they do and how much crap they can take from a man.
Achraf Hakimi’s divorce: Wife seeks half fortune, discovers he owns nothing, say reports
Moroccan Footballer Achraf Hakimi’s marriage has gone viral, after his wife, Hiba Abouk, filed for divorce and demanded half of his property, several media reports stated.
However, in a surprising turn of events, the court informed her that her ‘millionaire’ husband legally owns nothing, as all his assets are registered under his mother’s name.
Achraf Hakimi, the Moroccan International and PSG player, received a staggering €1 million per month, but 80% of this amount is deposited into his mother, Mrs. Fatima’s account. The 24-year-old football star appears to have no property, cars, houses, jewelry, or even clothes registered in his name.
The couple began dating in 2018 when Hakimi was only 19 years old, and Abouk was 31. As they head towards separation, Abouk, now 36, anticipated receiving an equal share of Hakimi’s €70 million fortune. However, documents reveal that all of the assets are registered under his mother’s name, leaving Abouk with no legal claim to them.
In an unusual arrangement, whenever Hakimi needed something, he requested it from his mother, who then purchases it for him. This dynamic has allowed him to avoid registering any assets in his own name.
The divorce proceedings come on the heels of an investigation launched last month into allegations that the star defender raped a woman he had invited to his matrimonial home while his wife and family were in Dubai.
As the story unfolds, questions arise about the motivation behind Hakimi’s choice to keep all his assets under his mother’s name and the potential impact on the ongoing investigation and divorce settlement.
It’s interesting that social media is going crazy over this story. Most people are excited that a man was able to keep his money. I found it interesting that not many people wondered if she was a good wife to him. As a man should not take pride in not providing for his wife and kid.
However, I must say that a 31-year-old woman dating a 19-year-old man speaks volumes as to why possibly all of his money is in his mother’s name. That could be why he never trusted her. While on one hand it’s not cool to bond with your mother, and not with your wife, (in the bible it says cleave with your WIFE.) it’s also not cool for a grown woman to date a teenage boy.
I also noticed that Daily Mail ran the story, but only spoke abut Hakimi’s wife, and not the situation itself. That leads me to believe the story is false.
Pretty much the entire internet wondered how Bow Wow felt when his baby mama popped up kissing Diddy on a yacht.
Baller Alert recently caught up with Bow who dished on his disappointment with his baby mama Joie Chavis, after spotting her with the entertainment mogul.
During the lengthy interview Bow revealed that he had a conversation with both Diddy and Chavis, concerning their relationship.
“She knew better,” Bow Wow said around the 50-minute mark of the video below. “Me and her, we had our discussion about it, trust me.”
While he was bothered by seeing Chavis gleefully boating with the producer, Bow Wow added that Diddy apparently enlisted her to appear in a music video with him, which made him feel a bit better about the situation.
“Me and dude, we definitely had our rep, but I’ll keep that between us. We handled it the way we was supposed to handle it,” Bow Wow added, saying, “There’s a conduct and code men go by and everyone knows certain things are off limits. Wives and baby mamas is just some shit that, you know, you steer clear from.”
Despite the freak night, Bow carries a ton of respect for Diddy.
Last week, the “Let Me Hold You” hitmaker spoke on Math Hoffa’s My Expert Opinion and said Diddy came to him when he was getting clowned online during his attempt to transition from child star to respected artist.
Bow Wow said he attended a pajama party at Diddy’s alongside other celebrities like Snoop Dogg and Nelly, and the CEO pulled him aside.
“That n***a told me straight up: ‘Come here, don’t be doing no clown shit. The fuck wrong with you?’” Bow Wow recalled Diddy saying. “N***a, you know we don’t associate with no clown shit. You Bow, n***a. You better understand your brand and get out here and go to work. C’mon, man. You doing it to yourself. Go to work. Be quiet, lay low and go to work and watch what’s gonna happen.”
Bow Wow also credits Diddy with teaching him how to co-parent.
In the chat with the Shade Room Bow Wow promised that the mothers of his children will never want for anything. “My kid’s moms — you see I don’t even like to say baby mama or baby mother — my children’s moms they can call me for anything,” he told the co-hosts. “Imma get it done. If they out of town, if they in Miami, they need something, they wanna go out, no matter what it is. If it’s a function going on, they need to get in with they girls, Imma set it up. Sections done, bang, there it is. We family. I think that’s important.”
The “Like You” rapper went on to credit the Head Bad Boy in Charge himself, Sean “Diddy” Combs,” with helping him learn how to be a better father. “And I got that from Puffy, I learned a lot from Puff. He taught me a lot, being around him, watching how he moves and I’m always asking him questions like ‘How do you do it? How, how?’ And it’s a blessing, and it works well when it’s like that so it’s family, it’s a family affair. Like I said, I love them both, and I’m just happy I’ve got two good ones on my side. I’m done after this. No more for Bow.”
Honestly, there is nothing that Bow can do to Diddy, so I am glad that Bow felt like this situation was handled respectfully by Diddy. That’s what’s up.
Gospel music vet Kim Burrell expressed a major flex. She is claiming her music is therapy to Beyonce‘s ears … or at least it was when her marriage with Jay-Z was on shaky ground.
TMZ Reports: Kim’s confessional came in an interview with “We Sound Crazy!” back in October, but for some reason, this particular clip started making the rounds Thursday.
KB rolled the calendar back to 2017 when Jay recorded his last album “4:44,” a project riddled with apologies to Bey for his infidelities.
Kim provided background vocals for the highly emotional title track — a feature personally requested by Jay, as he came to align Bey’s bad moods with Kim’s music blaring through their house.
According to Kim’s convo … Bey even locked herself in a room for 11 hours while playing nothing but Kim’s music, but came out refreshed and ready to resume the marriage.
Jay allegedly said he just had to meet the woman who lifted his wife’s spirits and hence, the “4:44” collab was immaculately conceived!!!
Fans on social media grew upset with Kim for spilling the Carter family secrets, but she did note she and Jay spoke for “4 hours” … and there were certain details from the convo she would never share!!!
Bey having your discography on repeat isn’t a secret Kim wanted bottled up, it seems!!!
Either Jay & Bey didn’t have Kim Burrell sign an NDA or they were gracious and allowed her to spill the beans to promote her album sales.
Although she just wished her husband a happy Valentines Day forever and ever on Instagram, Eva Marcille, 38, has filed for divorce from her husband, after 5-years-of marriage..
According to the court documents filed on March 23, 2023, in the Superior Court of Fulton County, Real Housewives of Atlanta star Eva Marcille filed for divorce from her husband, Michael Sterling, 41. In the paperwork Eva cited her marriage as being “irretrievably broken.”
TMZ reports that Marcille didn’t specify any reason for the divorce in the paperwork but is asking for primary physical custody, child support, and an even spilt of their assets, given she has three minor children under the age of 10; Michael Sterling Jr, Maverick Sterling, and Marley Sterling. She also declared there was no possibility of reconciliation.
The divorce news shocked fans, as the couple seemed to be doing fine.
The Sterlings got engaged in December 2017 and exchanged wedding vows on October 7, 2018.
Eva says she should be the parent who has the final say on all decisions related to their kids, as she feels she’s the fit and proper caregiver.
When it comes to assets, Eva says she wants an equitable split of everything they’ve acquired in the marriage and any debts they’ve racked up.
Eva was previously linked up to singer Kevin McCall whom she accused of violently abusing her after she got pregnant with his daughter Marley. They broke up in 2015 and Kevin’s music career went brick.
This is very unfortunate to hear another union come to an end. We send our prayers to both Eva and her soon to be ex husband.
These stories make you wonder why so many marriages fall apart. We are constantly preaching to women to become better women, but perhaps certain men should work on themselves to become better men in order to accommodate the high value women they are attracted to.
Perhaps that is the only way to have healthy, long-lasting relationships. That and actually seeking therapy and counseling when the problems first begin, instead of letting it linger and throwing each other away.
Today a major news story broke in Hollywood. Creed actor Jonathan Majors was arrested for allegedly putting his hands on his woman.
At 4:44 PM TMZ reported that, Majors’ and his girlfriend got into an argument while in a taxi returning home from a bar in Brooklyn.
Sources said police were told the girlfriend saw another woman texting Majors, and she confronted him — trying to sneak a peek at his phone. The woman/GF claims this got Majors mad, and that he allegedly grabbed her hand and allegedly slapped her.
“We’re also told the alleged victim claims he put his hands around her neck during this. Our sources say the woman was dropped off somewhere and that JM spent the night elsewhere. It appears the girlfriend went to police the following morning (Sat.) and reported a crime.”
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Tough story. We shall say a prayer. 🙏
A major star like Majors cheating brings to light a good question.
Should a woman expect her rich, talented, celebrity man to be faithful?
Nia Long is getting her lick back and putting her newfound freedom in the face of her cheating ex Ime Udoka, who has such little control over his sexual urges at work, that he got suspended from his high profile NBA coaching position with the Boston Celtics.
Long has been exchanging flirty energy with a number of famous faces amid her single status. Last week, she broke necks at the You People premiere and had the streets talking about how she delicately held Omarion’s hand during a red carpet photo op.
This week she was spotted with Terrance J. in Dubai after a Beyonce concert.
We are all happy for Nia doing a little something to place herself into the spotlight again. However, Nia, 51, was with Ime for 13-years and never got married.
Not every woman wants to get married, but the truth is when a man is with a woman for 10+ years and doesn’t marry her he doesn’t want her.
Why wait till the cheating goes public and embarrasses you before leaving and owning your truth? Nia knows she could effortlessly get another man, but settled with an NBA coach.
There are way too many women in the world like Nia. It doesn’t matter how famous or wealthy a woman is, it’s still important to love yourself.
Jeff Bezos‘ girlfriend Lauren Sánchez shared a loving message for his 59th birthday.
On Thursday, the Emmy-award winning journalist, 53, honored the billionaire’s earthly milestone with a pair of romantic posts on her Instagram page.
The first featured a collection of photos from the couple’s relationship and the many glamorous adventures they have been on together — including images from their March 22 trip to Columbia and their October trip to Rome.
“Happy birthday to the man of my dreams, who lights up my world with his laughter and kind heart,” Sánchez wrote in the caption. “You have shown me that no great love is not bravely fought for. Thank you for always being by my side and for being the most loving and supportive partner.”
“I am so grateful for the memories we have made and the adventures yet to come,” she added. “Here’s to many more birthdays filled with love and laughter.”
Would Jeff still be the man of her dreams if he wasn’t a Billionaire? Chances are, yes he would be. High value men tend to over perform in every category, including matters of the heart and the ROMANCE department.
It’s a beautiful thing for a woman to meet the man of her dreams and enter into a beautiful, loving relationship with him. However a woman will only meet the man of her dreams when she stops settling for less than HIM.
