Gold Digger: Wendy Williams’ Ex-Husband Files To Receive 2 Years Of Back Divorce Payments From Her

Talk Show host Wendy Williams is an American success story. She had the money, the fame, the man and the kid too.

She got everything that she came here for. But unfortunately for many women like Wendy, who are boss chicks, your man/husband isn’t always with you because he loves you. Sometimes he’s there using you as a long-range meal ticket. He will do everything to help you reach your goals. Then he will cheat and take your money and go spend it on the regular non-rich woman that he really wants to be with.

Like a feminine woman, who NEEDS him.

Which is exactly what Wendy’s husband, Kevin Hunter did to her. Even more he got another woman pregnant, and moved her into a house around the corner from Wendy.

But her guardian figured out how to stop paying Kevin alimony.

B*TCH BETTER HAVE MY MONEY

Since then, Hunter has largely remained out of the public spotlight. However, Wendy’s recent Lifetime documentary reportedly prompted Hunter to speak out and asks his ex’s estate where is his money at.

According to RadarOnline, a source alleged that Hunter was “blindsided” by the series and “deeply concerned” about the impact it would have on his ex’s legacy.

The Shade Room reports: Hunter, has reportedly made a new filing in court. According to The U.S. Sun, Hunter is apparently attempting to cash in on his ex-wife’s new funds.

According to the outlet, Hunter is demanding to receive two years of back pay from their divorce settlement. The 51-year-old reportedly asserted that the payments were agreed upon in the pair’s Marital Settlement Agreement in January 2020 after 22 years of marriage.

However, Hunter alleges that he stopped receiving payments from Williams when her legal guardianship began in 2022.

“I have not received my severance payments since January of 2022, which Plaintiff is required to make pursuant to the Matrimonial Settlement Agreement. This is an emergent matter because I rely on the severance pay for my living expenses and having been without this income for twenty-three months has affected me greatly,” Hunter reportedly informed the court, per RadarOnline. “Therefore, I respectfully request that the Court require [Wendy] to immediately pay all severance payments which may be due and owing at the time of this Court’s Order.”

According to TMZ, the pair agreed on a severance package at the time of their divorce finalization. However, the amount Hunter would receive from Williams was “confidential.”

PAY ME WHAT YOU GOT

According to The U.S. Sun, Hunter is also requesting authority “to execute documents pertaining to Wendy’s AFTRA Retirement Plan.”

Additionally, Hunter has also asked for access to Williams’ financial records, which he was reportedly “promised.”

“On December 8, 2022, I attended a mediation with [Wendy’s] counsel and [Wendy’s] New York court-appointed guardian attorney Sabrina Morrissey,” he reportedly stated. “In that mediation, [Wendy’s] counsel and Guardian agreed to provide statements to accounts and bank records they claimed to have gotten permission from the New York court to provide.”

However, Hunter reportedly alleges that those “out-of-court mediation” sessions with Williams and her guardian have failed. Additionally, he asserts that he has not been given access to the records.

“Since October 2021 I have tried to resolve this issue in multiple ways including previous motion and mediation, with no cooperation from the Plaintiff. As a result, I had no choice but to file this motion in this matter,” Hunter stated, per RadarOnline. “I would not have had to file this motion if the Plaintiff did not stop my severance payments and if the Plaintiff would have signed the Qualified Domestic Relations Order for the SAG-AFTRA Retirement Plan.”

According to The U.S. Sun, a source alleged that Hunter has reportedly been told that Williams has “no more money.” However, the ex-husband reportedly does not believe this.

To note, Williams herself even confirmed the sentiment during the ‘Where Is Wendy Williams?’ documentary which aired in February on Lifetime.

“I have no money,” Williams told the cameras. “And let me tell you something: if it happens to me, it can happen to you.”

Russell Wilson Explains How He Knew Ciara’s Son, Baby Future, Was To Be Raised As His Son From Day 1

Russell Wilson, has me wanting to be so rich and wealthy right now, so that I can start an awards show for fathers and give him FATHER OF THE YEAR AWARD. (That would make future really mad. lol)

If Wilson hasn’t already won your heart over by how well he treats Ciara, this story will definitely do it.

From Day One Russell Wilson Knew Ciara & Baby Future Were Part of His Journey

During a conversation on the ‘I Am Athlete’ podcast with host Brandon Marshall. Russell shared that he met Ciara when Future was just nine months old. After praying on it, Wilson says God told him Cici and lil’ man were meant to be his family.

“When I walked in the room, I see lil’ Future, he’s nine months at the time and he crawls in my lap. It was like, ‘This is gonna be my responsibility.’ I remember leaving that night and God saying to me, ‘Raising this child is gonna be your responsibility.’ I said, ‘God, are you sure this is what you want me to do?’ He said, ‘Son, this is for you.’”

From the first night he met Ciara and Future, Russell Wilson says he knew they were his family. Was that thought scary? Wilson admitted it was but clarified that it was also an opportunity.

“Yes, scary in the sense of… not scary, but it was more so an opportunity. Like, ‘Okay, God, this is what you want me to do? You know, stepping in to raise a child with Ci.’ And realizing like, ‘Okay God, I know she’s the one for me, but also too, I’m going to take this responsibility as well? Okay. And I was ready for that.”

At the time, Wilson says he was ready to “help raise a child.” To him, it was “a gift” from God.

“Even Jesus himself, Joseph, was a stepdad. It wasn’t biologically his. I was like, ‘Okay God, you gonna give me this opportunity to love the way you love. Like the way you want us to love.”

So much so for the Red Pill men who advise women

Wilson Says He Treats Future Like His Own Child

According to The Shade Room,  Russell and Ciara got married in July 2016 in England. A few months later, in October, they announced their first pregnancy with Sienna Princess Wilson — who was born in April 2017. They welcomed their second son together, Win, in July 2020. They welcomed their third child, daughter Amora, in December 2023.

From early on in their relationship the public could see that Russell had taken a liking to baby Future, as he appeared in photos with the child all over social media.

From golfing, being on NFL sidelines to baseball sessions to most recently enjoying and NBA All-Star weekend together.

In his ‘I Am Athlete’ interview, the NFL player confirmed that what we see on the outside is exactly what’s happening inside their family dynamics. There is no differentiation in how he treats Future and his biological children with Ciara.

“No, I think that when you raising children and you’re married… you gotta love every single child as if they’re yours. That’s been the greatest gift of raising Future, Sienna, Win, and now Amora. It’s like, man, God gave me that opportunity to raise them and to love them and to care for them and teach them and to love them every day that way. And there’s no difference. I think, to me, it’s the greatest gift. Knowing that that’s my responsibility to raise all these four beautiful children all together. And we all come from blended family a lot of times… But to be able to be one, and that’s been the best gift raising these kids with Ci.”
As for having more kids, Russell is definitely here for it!

See his full interview below.

Husband Of Rachel Lindsay, The First Black ‘Bachelorette,’ Files For Divorce After 4 Years Of Marriage & Seeks Spousal Support

Husband Of Rachel Lindsay, The First Black ‘Bachelorette,’ Files For Divorce After 4 Years Of Marriage & Seeks Spousal Support

Another one bites the dust….. Male gold digger alert.

The husband ofThe first Black ‘Bachelorette,’ Rachel Lindsay, is headed for divorce.  On Tuesday, January 2, her husband Bryan Abasolo, filed for divorce after four years of marriage. The former couple met on season 13 of the reality dating series, ‘The Bachelorette,’ in 2017 and tied the knot in 2019.

More Details Regarding Bryan Abasolo’s Divorce Filing

Abasolo, a chiropractor listed the cause of their split as irreconcilable differences and their date of separation as Monday, January 1. (Yikes, bro barely waited a day.)

E! News reports that Abasolo, 43, is requesting to be awarded spousal support from Lindsay, who is an attorney.

Furthermore, the 43-year-old revealed his split from Lindsay with a post shared via Instagram on Tuesday.

“If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I don’t like to put my personal affairs on social media and like to keep a safe space for our family. Many of you know me as a chiropractor, and also as a husband, my proudest role so far,” he wrote. “After more than 4 years of marriage, Rachel and I have made the difficult decision to part ways and start anew. My parents have been married forever and I’m a family man, but sometimes loving yourself and your partner means you must let go…”

Before concluding his message, Abasolo did with most celebrities do after making an attention seeking post.  He asked that the public “respect the spaces” of his and Lindsay’s family and friends as they figure out their “next steps.”

According to CNN, Rachel Lindsay has not responded to Abasolo’s court filing. Additionally, she has yet to address the matter publicly.

A Brief Look Back On Bryan Abasolo & Rachel Lindsay’s Marriage

In November, Abasolo and Lindsay spoke exclusively with E! News. At the time, they shared their plans to have their first child together.

Lindsay, 38, explained why she and Abasolo preferred to keep their marriage private.

“We’re always a hot topic. Whenever there’s a rumor about a Bachelor Nation person getting divorced, it’s my husband and I because we aren’t public with our relationship and that’s the exact reason why we’re not,” she said. “Because we realized a long time ago that so many people—the more you give them, the more opinions and judgments that they have. And so, we realized we needed to protect ourselves. So for us, we just post when we want to post. We’re together all the time. We’re just not putting it out there.”

To note, the last time Abasolo shared a photo of him and Lindsay via Instagram was for her birthday in April.

Meanwhile, the last flick that Lindsay posted of her and her estranged husband was in October.

Since then, Lindsay’s Instagram posts have mainly been centered around her work in television and podcasting. However, the 38-year-old did take to Instagram on Sunday, December 31, to share that 2023 has been “one of the hardest years” of her life.

“Definitely one of the hardest years of my life, but choosing to focus on grateful moments and carrying that energy into 2024,” she wrote in the caption of her Instagram post.

 

What Is Rachel Lindsay’s Net Worth?

The former attorney has a fortune somewhere between $1 and $5 million, according to various ​reports, with most pegging her net worth at around $3 million.

How Does Rachel Lindsay Make Money?

Rachel got her law degree from Wisconsin’s Marquette University in 2011 and headed to Texas, where she works as an active attorney.

She began her career on reality TV competing for Nick Viall‘s heart on season 21 of The Bachelor. While Rachel was eliminated in week nine, she was named the lead for season 13 of The Bachelorette before Nick handed out his final rose.

Viewers tuned in in droves to watch Rachel’s heartbreaking decision to break up with finalist Peter Kraus — who wasn’t ready for an engagement – in favor of Miami chiropractor Bryan Abasolo, who was prepared to ask her to marry him. He did just that at their final rose ceremony in Spain. The pair married two years later in an August 24, 2019, beach wedding in Cancun, Mexico. Bryan later filed for divorce on January 2, 2024.

As always, highly successful women should understand that YES, you can get a man to marry you. YOU HAVE MONEY, and men don’t have to provide for you. Therefore being with you is of financial benefit to them.   This is why femininity is important so that a high value woman can align with a high value man who provides, and doesn’t need her money. When HE marries her it’s because he truly wants to be with her, not due to financial benefits.

Atlanta Woman Finds Out Husband Of 27 Years Recently Married Another Woman

Atlanta Woman Finds Out Husband Of 27 Years Recently Married Another Woman

I came across the most fascinating post on Facebook…   The post can’t be found anywhere, other than in a few groups.

An anonymous woman went on Facebook telling all of her “friends” business inside of groups.  She says her “friend” learned that her husband of 27-years recently got married.

The story starts when said friend runs into the “friend” and begins to “catch up.”

The woman who was in mediation and set to divorce her husband and split the assets equally found out In October her husband had already moved on mentally, physically, spiritually and financially.

She learned her husband “Toney” recently celebrated a marriage to his new wife ‘Kwinettaion’ on September 9, 2023.

The wife found out while she was going through Toney’s financial paperwork that had been given to her by Toney’s lawyer. In the paperwork she noticed several Zelle payments to a “Kwinettaion.”  Like any smart woman would she goes to type the name into Facebook and BOOM, sees this wedding announcement for a chapel in Atlanta.

The Pristine Chapel Lakeside made a post on September 20, congratulating the couple and announcing their nuptial date.

Even worse, she learns that her husband and his new wife have been together for 5-years and have a 4-5 year old daughter together.

Prior to finding out, the husband Toney had talked his first wife into selling their $300K property and using the proceeds to pay off debts that she knew nothing about and pay for his wedding to his new wife.

Here are screenshots below of the story:


ALL of the original posts were deleted from the Chapel’s page, and the friend deleted her post, because she was talking in a GROUP, not knowing groups are not as private as you think they are and the wife found out, so she deleted the post. Yet schreenshos were taken.

Google also shows the Chapel once had a post up congratulating Kwinettaion.

Now the only reason I am writing this post is to give you ladies some game.

Toney has embarrassed two women, one of which is definitely a 6 figure boss chick in ATL (Kwinttation).  While I don’t know his last name (at the moment) Kwinettaion can’t hide because her mom gave her such a unique name.  Even though she has deactivated her FB page and went into hiding online, hoping this will all go away, it’s now picking up and going viral in groups.

This man Toney has left one BOSS CHICK and married another unsuspecting boss chick.  WHY? He’s using women for MONEY.

Another thing is how was he able to have a whole other family and a whole other life?  Probably because his wife trusted him, wasn’t spying on him and obviously wasn’t questioning his time away from her, which was plenty. She obviously never checked his phone. The friend even said she was a submissive, amazing wife.

Take what you want from this story, but being in a 50/50 relationship rarely works out for successful women. It allows men to use you.

Anyway 9/10, I would bet that Kwinttation is still married to him despite all of the embarrassment.

The embarrassment doesn’t belong to the women. It belongs to him, but like I said, we currently don’t have Toney’s last name…

Cassie Files $30 Milllion Lawsuit Against Sean P. Diddy Combs Accusing Him of Rape and Years of Abuse

Producer and hip hop mogul Sean Combs, one of the most prolific men in music history, was sued in federal court on Thursday by Cassie, an R&B singer once signed to his label, who accused Mr. Combs of rape, and of repeated physical abuse over about a decade.

In the suit, filed in Federal District Court in Manhattan, Cassie, whose real name is Casandra Ventura — and who had long been Mr. Combs’s romantic partner — says that not long after she met him in 2005, when she was 19, he began a pattern of control and abuse that included plying her with drugs, beating her and forcing her to have sex with a succession of male prostitutes while he filmed the encounters. In 2018, the suit says, near the end of their relationship, Mr. Combs forced his way into her home and raped her.

“After years in silence and darkness, I am finally ready to tell my story, and to speak up on behalf of myself and for the benefit of other women who face violence and abuse in their relationships,” Ventura – an R&B singer who goes by the stage name Cassie – said in a statement to CNN. “With the expiration of New York’s Adult Survivors Act fast approaching, it became clear that this was an opportunity to speak up about the trauma I have experienced and that I will be recovering from for the rest of my life.”

According to the NY Times, The suit depicts Mr. Combs as a violent person who, beyond repeatedly assaulting Ms. Ventura, asked her to carry his gun in her purse, and the suit suggests he was responsible for blowing up the car of a rival suitor. In one incident, the suit says, Mr. Combs dangled a friend of Ms. Ventura’s over a 17th-floor hotel balcony.

In naming additional defendants, the court papers assert that others who worked with Mr. Combs had helped him to control Ms. Ventura, at times by threatening her with retribution — like suppressing her music if she did not obey his orders — or by helping to conceal his behavior. The suit, which names Mr. Combs and a number of his associated companies as defendants, seeks unspecified damages.

According to Ms. Ventura’s suit, she was swept into Mr. Combs’s jet-set lifestyle not long after meeting him and signing with Bad Boy, which released her debut album in 2006.

But, the suit says, he soon began to assert an extraordinary level of command over her life. In addition to controlling her career, he paid for her car, apartments and clothing, and even had access to her personal medical records. According to the suit, the results from an M.R.I. scan she had — for memory loss, possibly caused by drug use or by a beating she said she suffered from Mr. Combs — went directly to Mr. Combs.

Mr. Combs also provided Ms. Ventura with “copious amounts of drugs,” including ecstasy and ketamine, and urged her to take them, the suit says, and often became violent, beating her “multiple times each year.” The suit says Ms. Ventura never went to the police because she feared it “would merely give Mr. Combs another excuse to hurt her.”

Here is a breakdown of the rest of the incidents:

Los Angeles in 2009 –  the suit says, Mr. Combs became enraged when he saw Ms. Ventura talking to another talent agent, then pushed her into a car and kicked her repeatedly in the face, making her bleed. According to the suit, Mr. Combs then had his staff bring her to a hotel room to recuperate for a week. She asked to go home to her parents, but Mr. Combs refused, the suit says.

The suit says that after seeing the violent repercussions of rejecting Mr. Combs, and the extent to which he would isolate her from her support network, “Ms. Ventura felt that saying ‘no’ to Mr. Combs would cost her something — her family, her friends, her career, or even her life.” And though she tried to leave Mr. Combs, the suit says he sent his employees to lure her back.

Cassie dated Kid Cudi

Early 2012 – Mr. Combs grew so angry about her dating the rapper Kid Cudi that he said he would blow up the rapper’s car. “Around that time,” the suit says, “Kid Cudi’s car exploded in his driveway.”

Through a spokeswoman, Kid Cudi confirmed Ms. Ventura’s account. “This is all true,” he said.

A few years into Ms. Ventura’s relationship with Mr. Combs, the suit says, he began coercing her “to engage in a fantasy of his called ‘voyeurism,’” in which she was directed to have sex with a succession of male prostitutes, while Mr. Combs watched, masturbated, took pictures and shot video.

According to the suit, Mr. Combs called these encounters “freak offs,” which involved costumes, like masquerade masks and lingerie. They continued for years, taking place at high-end hotels across the United States and in Mr. Combs’s homes. The suit says that he instructed Ms. Ventura to search the websites of escort services to procure male sex workers.

Drugs were supplied at these events, which Ms. Ventura’s suit says she took because they “allowed her to disassociate during these horrific encounters.”

According to the suit, Ms. Ventura would delete videos from these incidents that had been shot on her phone, but Mr. Combs told her he still had access to those videos, and on a flight once made her watch a video she thought she had deleted.

The suit says that as a result of these sexual encounters in different cities, Ms. Ventura was a victim of sex trafficking. The suit also accuses Mr. Combs of sexual battery, sexual assault and violations of New York City’s gender-motivated violence law.

Ms. Ventura’s suit includes several accounts of her unsuccessful attempts to escape Mr. Combs’s control.

In one example, the suit says that during a “freak off” at a Los Angeles hotel in 2016, an intoxicated Mr. Combs punched Ms. Ventura in the face, giving her a black eye. He fell asleep and she tried to leave the room, but Mr. Combs woke up and followed her into the hallway, where he threw glass vases at her, sending glass shattering throughout the corridor, according to the court filing. The hotel’s security cameras captured that incident, but the suit says Mr. Combs paid the hotel $50,000 for the footage.

The court filing says that in 2018, after Mr. Combs and Ms. Ventura met for dinner, he forced himself into her apartment and raped her while she “repeatedly said ‘no’ and tried to push him away.” After that, the suit says, she left him for good. Ms. Ventura married Alex Fine, a personal trainer, the following year and now has two young children. According to the complaint, her association with Bad Boy ended in 2019.

Ms. Ventura’s case, like other recent sexual assault lawsuits, is being brought under the Adult Survivors Act, a New York law that allows people who say they were victims of sexual abuse to file civil suits after the statute of limitations has expired. The one-year window to bring cases under this law ends next week.

In response, a lawyer for Mr. Combs, Ben Brafman, said: “Mr. Combs vehemently denies these offensive and outrageous allegations. For the past six months, Mr. Combs has been subjected to Ms. Ventura’s persistent demand of $30 million, under the threat of writing a damaging book about their relationship, which was unequivocally rejected as blatant blackmail. Despite withdrawing her initial threat, Ms. Ventura has now resorted to filing a lawsuit riddled with baseless and outrageous lies, aiming to tarnish Mr. Combs’s reputation and seeking a payday.”

Douglas Wigdor, a lawyer for Ms. Ventura, said the parties had spoken before the suit was filed. “Mr. Combs offered Ms. Ventura eight figures to silence her and prevent the filing of this lawsuit,” he said. “She rejected his efforts.”

Ms. Ventura’s case is the latest in a series of sexual assault civil suits filed recently against prominent men in the music industry, including Steven Tyler of Aerosmith, the executive L.A. Reid and Neil Portnow, the former head of the organization behind the Grammy Awards.

Mr. Combs, who in his career has variously been known as Puff Daddy, Diddy and Love, may be the most famous music executive of his generation.

Keke Palmer Accuses Ex-Boyfriend Darius Jackson Of Abuse In New Lawsuit

All is not well in KeKe land.

Huff Post reports: Actor and music artist Keke Palmer is accusing her ex-boyfriend Darius Jackson of abuse in court documents filed Thursday, according to multiple reports.

Palmer is seeking a restraining order and sole custody of their 8-month-old son in the filing in Los Angeles Superior Court. She claims that Jackson has engaged in several abusive acts over two years, including “destroying my personal property, including diaries and prescription eyeglasses, throwing my belongings into the street, throwing my car keys to prevent me from driving away, hitting [me] in front of our son, spewing profanities about me to our son, threatening to kill himself with a gun if I left him, harassment, and other physical and emotional abuse,” Us Weekly reported, citing court documents.

She also said he “trespassed into my home without my knowledge or consent, threatened me, then physically attacked me — lunging for my neck, striking me, throwing me over the couch, and stealing my phone when I told him I was going to call the police.”

Their son, Leodis “Leo” Andrellton, was born in February. In July, the couple drew widespread attention when Jackson posted on X (formerly Twitter) a public shaming of the new mom for her appearance at an Usher concert.

Jackson’s remarks prompted backlash from Palmer’s fans, and many speculated that his comments were an indicator that he was a controlling partner.

“It’s the outfit tho.. you a mom,” he wrote in his initial post over a video of Usher serenading Palmer.

In response to the suit Darius dropped a note on X.

Kissy's Thoughts

To hear this about KeKe is heartbreaking.  Initially I personally believed that Darius and KeKe came up with this brilliant marketing plan together when it came to the Usher incident.  As KeKe quickly responded with T-shirts that said “I’m a Mom” and said that she loved her man. She got all of the women on board by playing  a united front with him, despite the abuse.  Which is something many women do. Who wants to reveal such embarrassing info? Nobody.

However, if we are to speak truth,  the first sign that her mind wasn’t right is that she got pregnant by a man that she wasn’t married to. Although you would think celebrities would have more confidence, oftentimes they don’t, because they haven’t healed.  They make the same mistakes that every day women do. Even worse, KeKe has given this many an entire celebrity platform. His last X post has 15 MILLION VIEWS! off KeKe’s back. (This is how women get used up, by not knowing the game men run.)

Success and money keeps many women from going through the healing process.Therefore they operate in masculine energy in relationships and attract men who don’t seek to serve them.

As a celebrity KeKe can easily say to a man “I am rich and famous. What’s up? You want to get married or nah?” But like most simple women she fell under the spell without truly getting what she wanted, which is a GOOD MAN.

To attract a GOOD MAN a woman has to know her feminine worth outside of the money she makes.  Speaking of, KeKe has a music video coming out soon that’s a GIRL POWER song telling women that you are an asset to a man when you have successful ACCOLADES….

It’s a catchy tune and boss chicks will most definitely love the song.  Which is great. Just make sure you work on your femininity too.

Jada Pinkett Smith Reveals She and Will Smith Have Been Secretly Separated for 7 Years

Jada Pinkett Smith Reveals She and Will Smith Have Been Secretly Separated for 7 Years

Jada Pinkett Smith is revealing the truth about her marriage to blockbuster movie star Will Smith.

In a new interview about her memoir “Worthy” the Girls Trip star revealed that she has been separated from The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air for seven years.

In 2016 the couple decided that they would live completely separate lives, yet remain married.

Yet when gossipers disclosed that the two were separated or in an open relationship, both Will & Jada denied the rumors. Jada says she wasn’t ready to tell the world yet.

While fans are just learning the news now, Jada confirmed to Today that she and Will have been apart since 2016. As for the reason they kept things quiet?

“I think just not being ready yet, still trying to figure out between the two of us how to be in partnership and in regards to how do we present that to people,” Jada told Hoda Kotb in an interview released Oct. 11. “And we hadn’t figure that out.”

She also shed some light on what led them to part ways.

“Why it fractured, that’s a lot of things,” the actress added. “I think by the time we got to 2016, we were just exhausted with trying. I think we were both stuck in our fantasy of what we thought the other person should be.”

And while Jada said she considered divorce, she ultimately decided not to file.

“I made a promise that there will never be a reason for us to get a divorce,” she said in the interview, which is part of Jada’s Story – An NBC News Special that will air Oct. 13. “We will work through whatever, and I just haven’t been able to break that promise.”

What’s interesting here is that Jada and Will are experiencing the same problems many couples go through. The reality of who the person is versus who you want them to be. They’ve gone through all types of high profile counseling sessions and still no fix.

The advice I give couples who work with me is to stop focusing on the negative things about your mate. If you love your mate, amplify their good. As the problems you see in them are really just a reflection of your own mindset and beliefs about yourself.

For Jada, she never wanted to marry Will in the first place. For some reason Will refuses to divorce her and move on with his life.

Many couples stay married even though the relationship is fractured. Through Will & Jada it is obvious there is no point, other than for business purposes. But the LOVE won’t ever come back as long as the couple is in denial.

Real freedom comes from knowing what you want, getting it, and then appreciating it. Your partner can neither give you feelings of freedom or happiness, unless you first give those things to yourself. Jada doesn’t have it, because she doesn’t know what she wants.

This is something many of my clients discover in a soul alignment session. CLARITY is the answer.

And if a couple is not going to get divorced, then dating other people definitely isn’t helping. As long as someone in the relationship has outside sex to escape to they can’t fully commit to healing.

Gordon Thornton Opens Up About His Divorce From Mia: She Married Me For My Money

Gordon Thornton Opens Up About His Divorce From Mia: She Married Me For My Money

The upcoming season of Bravo TV’s The Real Housewives Of Potomac promises a juicy divorce scandal storyline. Mia Thornton‘s soon-to-be ex-husband, Gordon Thornton, is making some serious allegations, claiming that she’s leaving him just as he’s facing financial troubles.

Gordon who was once worth $100 Million, recently disclosed to TMZ that, given his age of 71 and his undergoing prostate cancer surgery in New York, he gave Mia, 38, a “hall pass” as he understood he couldn’t fulfill her sexual needs.

According to Gordon, he knew “there’s going to come a time when [he] won’t be able to satisfy all of [Mia’s] needs,” which is why he gave Mia the green light to find “what you need elsewhere” as long as she obeyed his “two rules…”

Gordon admitted that he knew, due to his age and recent prostate cancer surgery, that he wouldn’t be able to satisfy Mia sexually.

The 71-year-old’s rules included: “Don’t give me a reason to look for it” and secondly, “Keep the kids out of it.”

Gordon said he told the RHOP star, “As long as you do that, I’m fine.”

He had hoped that honesty would be part of the deal, but he’s discovered that Mia has been secretly seeing someone else. He’s urging her to be straightforward about her reasons for ending their marriage.

Gordon insists that Mia’s behavior is starting to impact their children, which is why he’s breaking his silence. He emphasizes that, aside from co-parenting their kids, he wants no further association with Mia.

The man was obviously a sugar daddy who financed her lifestyle. That’s it, that’s all.