I am up late night working on getting a major course accomplished. Instead of doing the course, I started to create other things and in the process came across a post on Instagram speaking of Amber Rose being cheated on and embarrassed by her life partner Alexander Edwards.
The influencer accused her partner of cheating with 12 different women.
In that moment I felt for Amber. She’s such a beautiful soul. And the way she talks about men is absolutely divine. I know some of you will hate or call her a Bimbo or whatever. But trust me, she’s smart.
Anyway, Amber’s woe’s reminded me of my own past woes. The fear of being embarrassed in public by the man I love has caused me in the past to not get married. It’s also why I dumped every boyfriend I ever had no matter how amazing they were. I always saw the signs of the other women. For the most part I never had any solid proof…. I just knew.
Minus the abusive, now deceased ex….. He was a hot mess and a half.
Whenever I sensed that a man’s confidence was based upon him having multiple basic chicks in his life, I would lose a great deal of respect for him.
I want a man who values himself enough to not allow random women to have easy access to him.
Is it too much to ask, to actually have a man who believes he has royal balls?
Anyway, I am now wondering if this is a problem with the majority of boss chicks and why so many women who make their own money go unmarried.
I was on stage with Amber Rose a few months back on Clubhouse and she spoke about never getting married about. She said A.E. was her life partner. (I am only repeating this because it was said on a public forum) When Amber said that I thought it to be weird. But I always respect people’s choices and decisions.
I feel like when a woman doesn’t want to marry a man, there’s a lot of fear at play. Especially a woman of Amber’s caliber and beauty who can have any man she wants.
While most women would run to say “beauty doesn’t keep a man,” and laugh at how beautiful women get cheated on too, I believe the problem is really HEALING.
Is there something within us that attracts men who will cheat on an amazing woman in the spotlight, and embarrass her.
I know we’re supposed to put our men and husbands somewhat first. But we work hard to build our brands and businesses. It takes a certain kind of energy to show up in the world when you’re a boss chick. You need positive energy. You need a good man who pours life and love into you.
When we talk about protecting a woman I don’t believe that most men know that also means protecting her image and reputation by never making her look bad in public.
You know how good those women feel to know that they are sleeping with THE Amber Rose’s man? They feel like they are at her level, even though chances are they haven’t worked even half as hard to accomplish their dreams.
Is it too much to ask to be with a man who wants to do the work of healing and building wealth together? Someone who actually wants to love each other and raise beautiful kids in a healthy conscious household? Just as much as I want wealth, I also want real love.
Many would say “Well stop choosing high profile men.” But the truth is low profile men cheat and embarrass their woman too.
I get the need to experience sex with multiple people, but at some point, shouldn’t people want more?
Even more what’s not discussed is that, a woman can be just as beautiful and kind as she wants to be, but she’s headed for heartbreak when she engages in a romantic relationship with an unhealed man.
Unhealed men rarely ever value their woman.
Do men realize that us women are humans and we can only take so much?
God created Eve so Adam would have someone to love. Therefore we as women have to be fully loved by a man. We are delicate creatures who are often forced to be hard and deal with emotional pain that we shouldn’t have to, while tending to the household and kids too. Then everyone tells you to just pick your head up and keep going. Others tell you to never give your all. But the minute you’re afraid to give your all, something is wrong with you.
Beautiful, brilliant women actually have legit reasons for not getting married these days, and if we are to be perfectly honest, it has very little to do with money or finances. It has everything to do with a man’s heart and the way he treats his woman.
I want to see someone happy and in a good relationship. That is also my prayer for myself.
After four years of dating, the high profile romance between Alex Rodriguez and Jennifer Lopez has come to an end.
“This isn’t too surprising to anyone that has been close to them in recent months,” an insider tells Yahoo Entertainment.
Page Six, which was first to report the couple’s split, claims rumors that Rodriguez had cheated with Southern Charm star Madison LeCroy led to the breakup. (For her part, LeCroy told Andy Cohen on a January 2021 cast reunion that her alleged affair with an unnamed, very famous ex-MLB player who’s married was limited to interactions on social media.)
Before their split, the couple nicknamed J-Rod had often mentioned each other in interviews and were frequently seen with one another’s children. They had announced their engagement in March 2019, although they had postponed their wedding plans because of the COVID-19 pandemic.
What could’ve gone wrong in this relationship?
Here are two things that I know off top:
After moving in together in 2017, Rodriguez and Lopez posed together for the cover of Vanity Fair. In a joint interview, they were more candid than ever about their relationship.
1. Ladies, Never move in with a man that you’re not married to. He will look at it as you already being married. So whatever you are holding back from doing, he will judge you for it. It also slows down the urgency. Living separately also helps you continue to appreciate your mate. Familiarity breeds contempt.
2. Long engagements are often pointless. Either you’re going to get married and let it play out for keeps, or you’ll keep dating and eventually focusing on what you don’t like about each other.
Personally I would not be engaged for more than a year.
One man who doesn’t seem to get tired of cheating and embarrassing his wife is pastor John Gray.
Gray took to social media to ONCE AGAIN apologize to his wife for merely “emotionally” cheating on her, with a mistress he was sending money to.
In a lengthy post on Instagram page, John revealed that he has relinquished his role as a pastor at Relentless.
He went on to pay tribute to his wife and made it very clear she is the only woman he has ever slept with.
A few months ago I sat down from leading at Relentless. My life wasn’t in order. Church isn’t first. My wife is. This is my wife. She is from God. She is a life giver. She is a kingdom builder.
Her name is Aventer. I met her at church. She was worshipping God through dance. Over time, she allowed me in her life and let me dance with her. She took my ring and said yes and we began our forever journey. What my dance partner didn’t know was that I was very much unfinished.
I never knew what consistent discipline, planning, leadership, manhood, or personal holiness in action from a man’s standpoint looked like. Living a shadow life, God was unwilling to let me die assuming I was whole. I failed to uphold the holy standard of God in my marriage. And I’m sorry. Although you are the only woman I’ve ever slept with, emotional unfaithfulness is just as wrong. Sin is sin. People want to minimize one sin over another, when it all can get you sent to hell.
My marriage forced me to face both of me. Flesh versus spirit. It is every man’s battle. Loving God isn’t enough. Preaching Jesus isn’t enough. Face yourself. Get delivered. Or hurt the ones who actually love you the most.
I started intense counseling (personal and for my marriage) in the summer. Scariest thing ever. Most necessary thing ever. I had no one to blame. My life is my responsibility. Admit your wrong. God deserves better.
My wife deserves better.
The pain I caused her is immeasurable. Seeing her name in blogs because of things I did broke my soul. So since I was the cause of public embarrassment, let me be JUST AS LOUD ABOUT PUBLIC HONOR. Aventer you are a miracle to me. I am sorry for the pain I have caused you. You name should have NEVER come up in any conversation in any negative way with anyone ever. I must do the work to earn your trust.
I’ve lived a life I’m not proud of in so many areas, but before I die, I will be the man God intended and the husband that Your heart can rest with. I’ll be the father my kids can be proud of. I’ll be the pastor Relentless can stand behind. I’m in the process and I will stay in it. May the man I am becoming match the vision God showed you. I love you.
I think men should get out all of their embarrassing behavior before they get married. People make mistakes and men of God are no different from any other men. But making a mockery of marriage isn’t cool.
Women are told to be loyal and stick by their man when they are said to commit adultery, like Hilary did for Bill Clinton. A woman is supposed to protect the family image. But at what cost.
Some women are born to be a man’s footstool, other women like Kamila Harris are not. I think every woman should start a business. Especially if you’re married to a wealthy man. It’s really easy to start a successful business and get clients when your husband is successful, because people will buy, simply off your husband’s namesake. So what’s the point of sitting around without your own finances, and letting people look at you as the dumbest woman on earth.
John does not want his wife. He even old his mistress that.
Via Yahoo:
“In addition to trash-talking his wife, Aventer Gray, as a spouse, he also made disparaging remarks about her mothering skills (claiming she didn’t cook and fed their son pizza every night) to this woman, some while his child was within the vicinity of these Facetime conversations.
This was not Gray’s first dance with the infidelity devil. In early 2019, stories broke about John Gray and another woman with whom Gray claims he only had an ’emotional affair.’ He apparently told the woman that he planned to leave his wife, didn’t love her, and “only married her because she looked good on paper.”
Back in 2019, to cheers and praises from their congregation, Aventer Gray addressed her husband’s “emotional infidelity’” by turning on the other woman. She revealed that she ‘fought off’ this other woman with prayer and scripture, saying “so I’m supposed to leave my husband because you spoke to a place of brokenness that had not yet been submitted back to the Father?”
That’s the real reason, men want the girl next door. Cause a badd b*tch is only going to put up with that mess for so long, before she walks in the bathroom, showers, flat irons her hair, puts on makeup, pops on a cute lil black dress and some Phuck me Louboutin heels, and goes out and catches the next baller who will be smitten and in love.
It’s funny how people tell single women “That man simply didn’t want you.” But no one tells married women, “Sweetie, your husband doesn’t really want you. He’s with you just to keep his public profile in tact.”
To me, It’s not worth being with a man like John Gray. He would kill my sexual interest in him. People talk about single women so badly, as if a single woman can’t get married to a man who is always cheating on her and embarrassing her.
What’s dope in this world are the Queens that have men who are devoted to them and faithful.
Even more, if a man is going to cheat, why not have the mistress sign a contract to shut up and not ruin his reputation? Cause it’s not like these women are dating these men for love, like the wife did. These chicks are looking for a come-up, and to be known.
Seems like that’s what Dr. Dre did. We’re just now finding out about his mistresses.
And even though this particular story is so called “emotional” cheating, men need to understand that once you stick your penis in a woman, EMOTIONS become involved. Women are emotional creatures.
And before anyone gets too slick at the mouth. This woman IS benefitting. Gray bought her a $200,000 Lamborghini Urus truck. That luxury SUV is more than most women will ever get from their faithful or cheating husband.
Heartbreak is heartbreak. But it aches a lot less when you have shiny objects to go with it.
Either way, these days, marriage seems like something to do, to get the public and social media to value you. Very few people are actually in LOVING relationships with their soulmate.
And lastly his wife may be a Kingdom builder. Obviously she is. But a man can’t get to the next level with a wife who won’t put her foot down and check him about his behavior.
Lil Wayne was following one who person on social media. That person was his girlfriend, Denise Bidot, a plus size model from the Dominican Republic.
Wayne and Bidot went public with their relationship in June, not long after Wayne split with reported fiancée La’tecia Thomas.
Bidot immediately took to social media swooning over her love for Weezy F. Baby. To announce their romance, Bidot posted a series of photos to her Instagram Stories cozying up to the legendary rapper. She wrote at the top, “Somehow in the middle of the madness, something special happened. Us.” Her sentiment was followed by a black heart emoji.
The announcement was followed by months of affectionate posts. But apparently that romance ended fast.
On Sunday (November 1), the successful plus-size model shared a cryptic post to her Instagram Stories, suggesting they’d split.
The post read, “Sometimes love just isn’t enough.” She added a broken heart emoji to further illustrate her point. They’re also no longer following each other on Instagram. Bidot was literally the only person Wayne was following earlier this year, but that “following” number is now back to zero.
Bloggers are reporting that the break-up happened cause Lil Wayne endorsed Donald Trump.
Just had a great meeting with @realdonaldtrump@potus besides what he’s done so far with criminal reform, the platinum plan is going to give the community real ownership. He listened to what we had to say today and assured he will and can get it done. 🤙🏾 pic.twitter.com/Q9c5k1yMWf
Bidot is said to be an avid supporter of Joe Biden and Kamala Harris.
Truth be told, bloggers don’t know why they broke up. It’s simply just a story. Chances are that Wayne dumped her and not the other way around.
But the real story here is that Lil Wayne can’t seem to keep a woman. The rapper has spent his career funneling through woman after woman. Which is what most rappers do. They spend money on everything other than learning how to have a healthy relationship.
These rappers are good for getting your follower count up by dating them. However they aren’t good for your dream of getting married to the love of your life.
Cardi B and Offset know how to get some free media attention.
Rapper Cardi B filed for divorce from her rap star husband, Offset, on Tuesday (Sept. 15) after being married for three years, according to the Fulton County Magistrate in Georgia. The court documents obtained by Billboard indicate that Cardi is asking the court to award her primarily legal and physical custody of their child.
The couple was spotted celebrating the “Bodak Yellow” singer’s birthday together in October, with Cardi finally speaking out about their reconciliation shortly afterward via Instagram Live, telling fans, “You know how I be arguing with y’all on social media? That’s exactly how we are, between me and my man. So when people be saying I be doing s–t for attention, with this and that, no, I’m just a crazy bitch.”
“One day I’m happy, the next day I wanna beat a n—a up,” she affirmed. “I just be starting to miss [him]… It’s hard not to talk to your best friend. It’s really hard not to talk to your best friend. And it’s really hard to have no d–k.”
Now The “WAP” rapper — born Belcalis Marlenis Almánzar — filed to dismiss her divorce petition against Offset — born Kiari Kendrell Cephus — on Monday, per a Georgia court docket obtained by Page Six.
She filed to dismiss the case without prejudice, meaning she could refile at a later date if things take a turn.
Offset immediately followed up by posting a video of Cardi cleaning the bathroom, claiming that she HAS to clean. He told Cardi that she needs to stop lying on her song lyrics.
What’s funny is that men will gaslight you into thinking you’re “crazy” when you go off about them disrespecting you or not giving you what you want.
And you will indeed feel crazy, because ten minutes later you’re back in love again. Women are VERY loving creatures.
This is also why most high value dating coaches advise women to kill their emotions, when it comes to responding to male behavior. It’s instead better to remain quiet and ask for what you want.
It definitely works. You WILL get things, but that still won’t stop you heart from breaking or from him embarrassing you. When you’re a boss chick, money and gifts simply stops moving you after a while, when your spirit and soul isn’t being treated right.
Women are told to not seek RESPECT from a man, but such a mindset comes at the cost of a woman loving herself less and less. Everyone wants to be valued and respected.
What’s most interesting about this story for me is that, I didn’t think much of Offset’s video post, calling Cardi a liar. In my mind, even rich women with maids still do some cleaning. You can’t help but to. Offset posting that video was also a great way to generate more news coverage for the couple.
However, just like when fans found out that Jay Z cheated on Beyonce and started to look at her different and take away from her branding power, Offset is actually doing the same thing, according to these comments from social media users, who believe Offset to be a complete narcissistic control freak.
It’s quite obvious at this point, that Dr. Dre has BEYOND pissed his wife off.
She’s taken off the gloves, and she’s not playing no games. She’s going for Dre’s coins, cause he broke her heart.
Plain and simple.
If you think Dre has been a nice, sweet, faithful man to his wife of 20-years, think again.
According to new legal paperwork filed by Nicole Young, Dre has been cheating and having a good time with quite a few women.
SANTA MONICA, CA – OCTOBER 11: Dr. Dre (L) and Nicole Young attend the City of Hope Spirit of Life Gala 2018 at Barker Hangar on October 11, 2018 in Santa Monica, California. (Photo by Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for City of Hope)
DailyMail.com reports Nicole wants to force Dre’s ex-alleged lovers to testify under oath.
The women, singer Jillian Speer, model-turned-skin care entrepreneur Kili Anderson and Crystal Rogers, aka Crystal Sierra – who is known as the ‘Queen of Latin hip-hop’ – have all been named in the latest court filing in the bitter divorce.
But all three are fighting Nicole’s legal efforts to subpoena them as witnesses in the legal war with Dre after 24 years of marriage.
Kili and Crystal have set their social medias to private since the divorce started, but Jilian on the other hand is posting cryptic messages and getting her follow count up.
Young claims rampant and repeated marital misconduct and is fighting to overturn the prenup she signed before their wedding, which was featured on the HBO series “The Defiant Ones.”
Dre has denied claims he cheated during their marriage in the past, and according to court docs obtained by “Extra,” the three women have reportedly hired the same lawyer to fight the subpoena.
Meanwhile, Dr. Dre is waiting on a Los Angeles Superior judge to determine if the prenup that Nicole says Dre tore up in front of her after they married, as a romantic gesture, will still hold it’s weight in court.
Young filed for divorce in June, citing irreconcilable differences.
It’s amazing what women put up with, until one they get tired, feel used up, and feel like they wasted their time. For most women, they go on about their business empty-handed. But for married women, they file for divorce and go for half.
NBA YoungBoy, 21, currently has 5 kids, and is said to have another woman currently pregnant.
Should the public simply be happy for women in toxic relationships and say nothing?
I’m just going to say, Congrats! 🙅♀️
Cause lord knows we are haters if we speak any real truth. And we also know in the black community that toxic relationships are the norm and quite acceptable to the sleeping folks. And we have to stay out of people’s business. Cause how dare ANYONE tell a black woman that she deserves better.
On Monday’s Dancing With the Stars, the “Ride Wit Me” artist dedicated his Villains Night dance to girlfriend Shantel Jackson, before delivering his highest-scoring performance of the season.
Speaking with ET’s Lauren Zima after the show, Nelly reflected on his relationship, and comments he made during the episode about how much he loves Shantel.
“She’s great. She’s really dope. We have a great time, and we understand each other,” shared Nelly.
In a video package that aired just before his Freddy Krueger-inspired Argentine tango on Monday, Nelly said the song they’d be dancing to — The Weeknd’s “Can’t Feel My Face” — was one of his and Shantel’s favorite songs.
“I would not want my life to not have Shantel in it,” Nelly said in the DWTS video package. “We’ve been seeing each other for five or six years. Any time you can connect with somebody like that, it works out for the long run. She’s sweet, beautiful, and the more we got to know each other, she’s just as beautiful inside.”
Nelly also confirmed, when asked by Daniella, that he feels Shantel is “the one.” Speaking with ET, Nelly explained exactly what made him so sure of that.
“We have so much in common,” Nelly shared. “She grew up in the inner city, she knows what it’s like to go through certain things in life when you grow up in the inner city.”
“She’s very driven, very passionate about the things she does and she doesn’t accept anything but wanting to be better,” he added. “And that’s what I love. That’s exactly what I love.”
However, when the subject of possibly getting engaged came up, Nelly played a bit coy and simply said, “We’re working towards it.”
“When we know, I’ll tell you,” he added.
As for their Argentine tango that paid homage to Freddy Krueger, Nelly and Daniella pulled off a fantastic number that earned the pair three 9s from the judges for a total of 27 out of 30, which is the pair’s highest score of the entire season.
It’s been 5-6 years. Nelly has had an entire unprotected sex scandal in the back of the tour bus, cheating scandal on Shantel.
Now he says they’ve been ‘SEEING EACH OTHER FOR 5-6 YEARS’, and that he can’t imagine his life without her.
What more is he waiting on?
After embarrassing that woman like that his announcement should be that they are engaged.
It’s obvious that a person will continue to grow and evolve over the years, and you’ll get to know them on a deeper level. But by the 5-year-mark you definitely know that person enough to know if you want to marry them. What is he WORKING TOWARDS?
You either want to be with someone or you don’t.
I sense something behind the comment, and behind the scenes there are some problems. Something isn’t right….. He likes her kindness and having her around. But he doesn’t seem to actually VALUE her as the woman of his dreams.
And for him to save they have growing up in the inner city in common……. I’ll just let ya’ll let that sink in. Commonalities in relationships needs to be deeper than that. It’s about the spirit and the purpose of the two individuals in the relationship. It’s not about bounding over trauma backgrounds.
Not speaking badly of Shantel, but she’s definitely playing the PICK ME game, instead of the “N*gga you’d better pick me before another n*gga wife’s me” game!
That is why it’s important for a woman to always work on getting her own money, so that she can CHOOSE any many she wants, instead of waiting on THE MAN OF HER DREAMS to look at her as THE WOMAN OF HIS DREAMS.
The wrong man will slow down your dreams and goals. You will end up on a man’s time clock instead of your own, if you don’t institute your own value.
Cassie learned that lesson the hard way with Diddy, but luckily she recovered fast once he released her and fell in love with a man who married her ASAP.
My advice here is to definitely not put your life on hold for a man. It doesn’t matter if he’s rich or famous. You only get one life to build your dream. In order to get a man to marry you, you have to go within and also increase your manifestation skills. Women have more control than they often realize.
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