When I heard about Will & Jada at the Oscars, I wondered if they knew something that other people don’t.
Like the freedom that comes from being with a mate who freely allows you to explore and find out who you are.
Personally, I am monogamous and don’t need attention from thousands of men. One at a time is enough for me.
Yet, I realize that when we are in relationships, we often hold our mates back from getting to know others of the opposite sex. I am wondering how much that plays into awakening and increasing consciousness.
I am not speaking sexually. As most women in open relationships are as asleep as they come. They often don’t feel they have much value.
But when it comes to Jada Pinkett Smith, not only does her name carry weight, but she holds value in the eyes of her husband, and even the man she had a entanglement with, singer August Alsina.
To many it’s obvious that Will may be coming apart at the hem. To others Will Smith simply protected his wife at the Oscars and allows her to have freedom.
WHAT IS FREEDOM?
The two celebrities have grown together over the years in marriage and both have had outside relationships with permission from their spouse.
The important part here is that Jada is married to a tall, handsome, wealthy, superstar man who protects and provides for her. On top of Jada not having to work, Will lets’s her do whatever she wants, including other men. Jada’s very value is in her divine feminine essence.
The reality is men these days want you to give up other men, work, cook, be submissive, let them cheat IN PEACE, work hard, do laundry, pay half the bills, humble yourself and pretend you’re not all that, despise shopping for luxury goods, and RESPECT him for all of that.
Sounds like a badd deal. Jada Pickett has it made. She even gets movie deals. Jada isn’t forcing any man to VALUE her. They just DO.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO HAVE A GOOD MAN?
One could assume that the yoni is just that good, but we all know that it isn’t that simple. It’s deeper than that. Jada has casted a spell over Will. Heck even 2Pac loved Jada. There may be something about Chris, but there is DEFINITELY something about JADA PINKETT SMITH.
Will Smith, 53, literally overshadowed his own first Oscars win by slapping Chris Rock for joking about Jada’s hair loss. After 25-years of marriage, and despite seeing other people in between, it’s obvious that Will is still madly in love with his wife, who is also the mother of 2 of his children, Jaden and Willow.
WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN INSIDE OF A MARRIAGE?
Will once said: “Jada never believed in conventional marriage.” So from the jump, Will was with it. Probably because he was already a huge celebrity on the television show The Fresh Prince of Bel Air, well before he married Jada who also had a walk on, guest-starring role on the show.
How many other women in this world do you know who are married to a WEALTHY MAN who can have ANY WOMAN HE WANTS, who allows his wife to simply be whomever she wants to be?
Jada even admitted on her Red Table Talk show that Will isn’t the greatest in bed.
Like how much more can a man take? Will tries so hard to make his wife happy, but clearly she’s unhappy with him. Even back when he tried to throw her a birthday bash that she hated. Which caused Will to rethink everything about himself.
WHAT IS LOVE INSIDE OF A MARRIAGE?
Oprah once questioned Smith on a line in his book, Will, that read: “Our time apart helped us both to discover the power of loving in freedom.”
He described their relationship as a ‘marital prison’, saying: “You love in freedom with everybody except your partner.”
He explained that while you allow room and space in your relationships with friends, this is often not the case with your partner – this was something the handsome couple looked to address.
JADA PINKETT SMITH IS GODDESS UNLEASHED
Now clearly, no one is going to say that Jada doesn’t love herself. Even suffering from alopecia Jada showed up on the red carpet and to the Oscars bald, with Chris Rock making a bad joke in relation to her hair. She is the one that revealed her alopecia to the world.
Jada Pinkett Smith is getting candid about her hair loss.
The 50-year-old actress, who revealed in 2018 that she suffers from alopecia, shared a video update with her followers on Tuesday.
“Now at this point I can only laugh,” she said in the short clip, pointing to a faint line of hair loss on her head that she said appeared “just all of a sudden one day.”
“Y’all know I’ve been struggling with alopecia,” she explained, adding, “look at this line right here…it just showed up like that. And this is going to be a little bit more difficult for me to hide, so I thought I’d just share it so y’all not asking any questions.”
Pinkett Smith, who debuted a buzzcut over the summer, captioned the video “Mama’s gonna have to take it down to the scalp so nobody thinks she got brain surgery or something … Me and this alopecia are going to be friends … period!”
Pinkett Smith’s latest hairstyle idea, however, is something with a little more sparkle.
“You know mama’s gonna put some rhinestones in there, and I’m just gonna make me a little crown,” she said in the video, pointing to the top of her head. “That’s what mama’s gonna do.”
Jada Pinkett Smith is literally Goddess Unleashed. She married a man who matched her desires.
I am not saying Jada is perfect, nor that you should look up to her or even desire an open relationship. Once again, I am monogamous.
Too many women, suppress and diminish their desires inside of a relationship, for the sake of “love” with a man who rarely ever suppresses his own desires. So many of my followers have messaged me or hired me as their coach, because they are unhappily married to a man who “won’t let them do the things that make them happy.” Sometimes that is as simple as having a career.
Every woman should understand herself, honor her desires, and Unleash Her Inner Goddess.
Sis has been busy. Just completed Day 3 of my Goddess Unleashed MasterClass. Many women say they walked away from the class with a Quantum Leap.
But alas, so many of my followers have asked me what are my comments on Tammy & Waka’s breakup. So here we go.
This week Tammy Rivera went on IG Live and ended up addressing video of her husband Waka Flocka saying “I need some chocolate on stage” when referring to a group of dancing women during a recent performance.
Tammy confirmed what many already thought: She and Waka Flocka Flame are going their separate ways, and ending their marriage.
The Love & Hip Hop Atlanta alum addressed the rumors that she and the Cali rapper have split.
“Y’all not gon’ Waka me to death with those damn questions, talking ’bout Waka and all that stuff,” said Tammy. “I said the man fine, him and Charlie good, we good, we are not together and that’s cool. We’re good. We’re in good spaces.”
Waka Flocka dodges question about separation rumors with his wife Tammy Rivera (Photo: @charliesangell/Instagram)
Rivera added that the two are still co-parenting their daughter, Charlie, despite them not being together and filming their reality show.
Back in December, Waka reposted another Instagram user’s message that reads, “How y’all wanna be married and don’t split the bills, but get a divorce and want half of his sh-t.” In the post, which he uploaded to his Instagram Story, he added a question box and asked his fans “How you feel about this.”
Tammy stuck with Waka through multiple cheating scandals. But at the end of the day, Tammy now has followers, fame, she’s on a tv show, and has a platform to be able to attract new high profile men and even create a profitable business.
Love definitely won’t last when people have a relationship with others outside of their marriage. But most women these days have a mindset of “Let him cheat” and they instead focus on the benefits package.
Tammy has greatly benefitted. She’s not losing at all.
But the bigger point is that, if it’s still not going to work, even if you allow him to cheat, perhaps it’s better to desire a man who will be faithful and give you the life of your dreams too…
Stylecaster reports: After his latest paternity scandal, social media users were curious to find out Tristan Thompson’s response to Khloé Kardashian and Trey Songz‘s recent outing together. The Good American cofounder was spotted spending time with her singer ex, who she dated just months before starting her relationship with Tristan. So, how did the basketball player react?
While the Chicago Bulls player, 31, has yet to officially weigh in on Khloé and Trey spending time together, he did share a rather cryptic message on social media following reports that the pair were spotted getting cozy at a party in Los Angeles. Tristan shared a lengthy quote to his Instagram Story on March 16, 2022, which featured a passage about no longer feeling “guilt” over “past” actions. “Let the past guide you rather than making you feel guilty,” the professional basketball player’s Instagram Story began.
“Let the future excite you rather than making you feel anxious,” the quote continued. “Let the present be a gift to you to feel alive rather than a curse that makes you live in the past or future.” Tristan did not explain the quote further, but he did add two speaking head emojis to suggest he agreed wholeheartedly with the message.
The former Sacramento Kings player’s cryptic post came just hours after reports claimed Khloé and her long-ago ex, Trey, were “getting close” again after years apart. Although Trey is a married man, the pair had some fans speculating if romance was on the table again after they reportedly spent the whole night talking together at an intimate party hosted by Justin Bieber in West Hollywood on March 12, 2022, according to Page Six. The Keeping Up With the Kardashians alum, 37, and the “Bottoms Up” singer, 37, previously sparked dating rumors in July 2016, just months before the reality star began dating Tristan, with whom she shares 3-year-old daughter True Thompson.
KHLOE & TREY BACKSTORY
“Khloé has always had a thing about Trey,” a source told The Sun on March 15, 2022. “She hooked up with him back in 2016 and they stayed friends even after it was all over.” The insider went on to note that the pair are offering their support to one another. “She’s lending him a shoulder to cry on, because she also needs one too—and she is carrying a lot of anger over the Tristan chapter, and how it ended,” the source added, referring to Tristan’s public apology for cheating on her after a January 2022 paternity test confirmed he fathered a third child with another woman.
WHEN TRISTIAN BRIEFLY FELT BAD
After paternity was Tristian went on to apologize to Khloé, noting that she didn’t “deserve” this situation. “You don’t deserve the heartache and humiliation I have caused you. You don’t deserve the way I have treated you over the years,” the athlete wrote at the time. “My actions certainly have not lined up with the way I view you. I have the utmost respect and love for you. Regardless of what you may think. Again, I am so incredibly sorry.” But is he still sorry? His latest Instagram Story might just suggest otherwise.
Khloe went and got all of that surgery to be pretty. Now she attracts better men, put still picks the worst of the worst. Trey has way too many women accusing him of things, for Khloe to be publicly dating him. Then again, The Kardashians are in the business of having blogs talk about them and staying in the news. AND what better person to make your cheating ex jealous, that to go hang out with another famous ex… So…… I’m just writing the news.
Kanye most definitely did not have a good day today. While most ex-wives are crying, mad, upset and bitter after a break-up, Kim Kardashian is a badd azz boss CELEBRITY chick who is living her BEST LIFE with a new man, and going on t.v. to tell the whole world about it.
Kim recently stopped by the Ellen Degeneres Show, to gush about her new relationship with Pete Davidson.
The reality tv star said that she has no idea what she’s doing, since she hasn’t dated since before Instagram existed, but she wanted to show off her new love on Instagram, so she did.
KIM KARDASHIAN GUSHES ABOUT SELFIES WITH PETE DAVIDSON
“I have the cutest pictures of us and I wanna be like omg we’re so cute, but then I’m like don’t be so desperate, don’t be posting so much, just give a glimpse.” Kim said. “But I don’t know what the right thing to do is. Like, I haven’t dated since before Instagram existed.”
Ellen commented that Kim has a whole new energy as of late, to which Kim said she’s found a new happiness since turning 40!
“It feels good. It feels good,” Kardashian said. “I mean I think it’s just in life. No matter what it is. I encourage my friends and the people in my life just to be happy. And I went for it, I was like you know what I’m in my 40’s like f*ck it. Just go for it. Find your happiness. And I went for it and I took my time. And it feels so good. And I wanna hold on to that forever.”
Mrs. West also clarified the rumor that Pete honored Kim by getting her name tatted on his chest.
Pete’s “Kim” tattoo, isn’t a tattoo. It’s actually a branding. Kim said he wanted something he couldn’t cover up and wanted Kim’s name scarred on him.
“Yeah he has a few tattoos, a few cute ones that he has,” she said. “But this one, the ‘Kim’ one isn’t a tattoo, it’s actually a branding because he wanted to do something that was really different. The other ones are like cutesie things. My favorite one says ‘My girl is a lawyer.’”
This Hollywood divorce is interesting to watch. Kim & Kanye moved on fast. Wondering if Kim was ever happy with Kanye. Seems like she gave him a chance and he blew it.
Also a lot of married women will be encouraged to get out there and date while going through a divorce; instead of sitting around sulking.
Pete Davidson is sick and tired of Kanye’s antics.
The comedian decided to address Kanye West’s never-ending social media attacks aimed at his girlfriend, Kim Kardashian, and her parenting choices in a text exchange shared to Dave Sirus’ account on Sunday morning.
The 28-year-old comedian, who has used Dave’s account in the past — recently to share a few kind words following the death of comedian Bob Saget — demanded Kanye take his public battle somewhere else and meet him ‘face to face’ instead of airing dirty laundry online.
Pete began the text exchange referring to his new moniker Skete before sharing that he was actually in bed with Kanye’s estranged wife as he shared a thumb’s up selfie showing off his arsenal of tattoos while casually laying down.
‘Yo it’s Skete, Can you please take a second and calm down. It’s 8am and it don’t gotta be like this,’ Davidson wrote. ‘Kim is literally the best mother I’ve ever met. What she does for those kids is amazing and you are so f***ing lucky that she’s your kids mom.’
Kanye quickly came back with: ‘Oh you using profanity, Where are you right now?’
Davidson didn’t miss a beat as he texted West: ‘In bed with your wife.’
Trying to throw mental health issues around as if he didn’t struggle with his own, Kanye wrote: ‘Happy to see you’re out the hospital and rehab.’
The Saturday Night Live comedian fought fire with fire as he responded: ‘Same here. It’s wonders what those places do when you go get help. You should try it.
He added: ‘I’m in La for the day if you wanna stop being a little internet b**** boy and talk.’
‘You don’t scare me bro. Your actions are so p**** and embarrassing. It’s so sad to watch you ruin your legacy on the daily.’
Kanye wrote back: ‘You’re more than welcome to come to Sunday Service.’
‘Why don’t we meet after Sunday service and saints game … I’ll be at the BHH we can have food and talk it out in my room. Privately one on one. Man to man,’ Davidson wrote.
‘What you are doing to your family is dangerous and going to scar them for life. Please handle these matters privately bro I beg you.’
West’s mind was one-tracked back to his gospel series and he wrote: ‘You wanna see me, Come to Sunday Service.’
‘This isn’t public dude. I’m not here for pictures and press. Which is obviously all you care about,’ Pete continued. ‘My offer stands. I wish you’d man up for once in your life.’
f Kanye’s verbal attacks against his estranged wife and her boyfriend, Pete offered West a helping hand on a possible new journey toward mental wellness.
‘Let me help you man. I struggle with mental stuff too. It’s not an easy journey,’ he wrote. ‘You don’t have to feel this way anymore. There’s no shame in having a little help. You’ll be so happy and at peace.’
Davidson wrote that Kanye had no idea what was going on behind scenes as Pete pleaded with his fellow comedians and even his employer to not make jabs at the rapper even though West continued to belittle Pete online.
‘You have no idea how nice I’ve been to you despite your actions towards me,’ he wrote. ‘I’ve stopped SNL from talking about or making fun of you which they’ve wanted to do for months. ‘I’ve stopped stand up comedians from doings bits about you cause I don’t want the father of my girls kids to look bad out there.’
‘I have your back even though you treat me like s*** because I want everything to be smooth.’
‘But if you continue to press me like you have for the past 6 months, I’m gonna stop being nice.’
Some women learn about 50/50 relationships the hard way.
Kelly Clarkson is the latest female celebrity to learn the repercussion of marrying a man who mostly married you because you’re financially well off.
She settled her divorce from Brandon Blackstock.
On Wednesday, a judge signed off on a settlement between the singer and her ex in Los Angeles Superior Court.
According to court documents, Clarkson has agreed to pay Blackstock spousal support totaling $115,000 per month until January 31, 2024, with the exception that those payments would end should Blackstock remarry before that date, or if either party dies prior to it.
Lucky her. She only has to pay him for 2 years, which equals a little more than $2.5 Million.
The talk show host will also have to pay her ex $45,601 per month in child support. Both the spousal and child support payments were to begin on Feb. 1, 2022.
“Child support shall continue per statute until the Minor Children reach the age of eighteen, or, if still attending high school full-time, until the Minor Children graduate from high school or reach the age of 19, die, marry, become self-supporting, emancipated, or further order of Court, whichever event shall first occur,” the documents state.
Clarkson and Blackstock agreed to share joint legal and physical custody of their two kids. River Rose, 7 and Remington Alexander, 5. However, documents note that Clarkson will have primary physical custody of their kids in Los Angeles. Blackstock also has two additional children from another marriage,
Clarkson filed for divorce in June 2020 after nearly 7 years of marriage. Their marital status was terminated in August 2021.
The two wed on October 20, 2013 after meeting him at a rehearsal for the Academy of Country Music Awards in 2006, People reported. The star was on hand to sing a duet of “What Hurts the Most” with Rascal Flatts. Blackstock was the group’s tour manager at the time.
The singer and talk show host has filed paperwork to change her legal name from Kelly Clarkson to Kelly Brianne. Brianne is the star’s middle name.
Women these days want love so badly, that they will buy it by dating/marrying a man who is mostly with her for her financial status.
Most women take very little time to understand the dynamics of the way a man thinks and his needs. Women need to understand that YES you can get married to a 50/50 man. But he doesn’t love you for you. Therefore he is going to TAKE from you. Real men would never financially take from a woman.
Women work so hard these days, just to avoid getting a feminine coach and give half of their money to a man. Cray!
Like what man doesn’t want a rich woman? Does he still want you if he has to provide for you?
How many men love talking to you on the phone for free? Would he still want to talk to you if he had to pay?
Maybe she and Mary J can do a duet together called “Finally Learned My Lesson.”
Khloé Kardashian Is Being Called Out For Saying That Blaming Women When Men Cheat Is “Really Hurtful” Years After Publicly Blasting Jordyn Woods Over The Tristan Thompson Scandal
Speaking out about the subject of cheating in a new interview with Variety, Khloé Kardashian said that she finds it “really hurtful” to put the blame on a woman whose partner has cheated.
“If your significant other is doing something wrong, for the woman to be blamed, that’s always been really hurtful for me. I’ve never quite understood that instead of there being some sympathy,” she said.
“I’ve never quite understood that instead of there being some sympathy or like, ‘Wow, that must really suck to have to go through that.’ And not only go through it, but then go through it so publicly,” she continued.
“I don’t even care if people have sympathy. I just don’t understand why there’s so much finger-pointing — like it must be me. That’s a heavy thing to carry,” she added.
Khloé’s point about not blaming women and instead holding men accountable for their actions is extremely valid. However, many have taken to Twitter to criticize the comments in light of her infamous treatment of Jordyn Woods back in 2018 during the cheating scandal with Tristan.
If you need a quick refresher, Jordyn — who was Khloé’s sister Kylie Jenner’s best friend at the time — shared a kiss with Tristan at a house party. She maintained that he’d been the one to kiss her and denied that things had gone further between them.
Khloé was quick to place blame on Jordyn rather than Tristan, accusing her of “lying” and being the sole reason her family “broke up” in a harsh public tweet after Jordyn gave an interview about the incident.
“Why are you lying @jordynwoods ?? If you’re going to try and save yourself by going public, INSTEAD OF CALLING ME PRIVATELY TO APOLOGIZE FIRST, at least be HONEST about your story. BTW, You ARE the reason my family broke up!” Khloé tweeted at Jordyn in March 2019.
And things really erupted in Season 16 of Keeping Up With the Kardashians, which aired months later. In it, Khloé and her sisters Kim and Kourtney — who were all in their 30s at the time — made a huge point of lambasting Jordyn, who was 21.
In one episode filmed in the days after the news broke, Khloé can be seen sitting around with her sisters and best friend Malika during a girls’ getaway in Palm Springs while FaceTiming TV personality and business mogul Kimora Lee Simmons for advice on the situation.
Kimora says: “I just think, you guys, cannot let people take advantage of you like this… That’s your baby daddy, whether you’re with him or not. You cannot allow this kind of disrespect.” Khloé responds, “F*ck these h*es.”
The sisters then FaceTime their mom, Kris Jenner, to let her know that they were planning on publicly dragging Jordyn — essentially, they wanted her to be scared of them.
“We have built-up, pent-up frustration,” Kim tells Kris. “Kimora Lee was like, ‘You guys look weak as fuck. You need to get the world scared of you and you need to set the tone.’”
Khloé adds, “To f*cking Kylie’s fucking best friend who’s sat on a gold f*cking shitting throne. Like, this shit is so f*cking whack that these f*cking b*tches think they can go ahead and f*ck our men.”
And the Good American founder went on to face another huge wave of criticism after calling Jordyn a “fat fucking asshole.” Fans were especially confused at the derogatory comment in light of Khloé’s own struggles with insecurity and body image, which she’s been open about for years.
At the time, while fans initially understood Khloé’s hurt in having been betrayed by a close family friend, her behavior was largely criticized online. Numerous users expressed their disappointment in her for solely blaming Jordyn and not Tristan, with the topic remaining a huge talking point on the internet to this day.
Perhaps in light of all the backlash, Khloé ended up walking back her comments about Jordyn, instead tweeting that the cheating was “Tristan’s fault.” She wrote: “What’s been harder & more painful is being hurt by someone so close to me. Someone whom I love & treat like a little sister. But Jordyn is not to be blamed for the breakup of my family. This was Tristan’s fault.”
And with all this in mind, fans are now questioning Khloé’s stance about blaming women for the actions of unfaithful men, arguing that she did not have the same take throughout the scandal with Jordyn and Tristan.
Quoting Khloé’s comments directly, one fan wrote, “ma’am did you not drag Jordyn Woods,” before adding, “The Hypocrisy.”
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Echoing a similar thought, one person tweeted: “did khloe and her sisters not blame jordyn woods for something khloe’s ‘significant other’ did ???? the hypocrisy.”
One thing for certain though. Khloe runs a bag up EVERY TIME a n*nja cheats.. So although the cheating is embarrassing for a minute, Khloe’s pimp hand as a boss chick is strong. So don’t sleep on Sis.
Elsewhere in the interview, Khloé revealed that Tristan’s recent paternity scandal will be addressed in her family’s upcoming Hulu show, The Kardashians.
Here is the thing about cheating men. Yes, the woman does get blamed. You get blamed for continuing to be the woman who chooses men who cheat on you.
Even men laugh at women who get cheated on. You think men would understand, but they don’t. In a man’s eyes when a man cheats on a woman, the woman is a pretty bad judge of character.
For Khloe to be in the position she is with the level of wealth that she has, she is not the greatest at choosing men. She faires no better with men than the girl who works the counter of McDonalds. Khloe can afford healing and a relationship coach.
Some would say Khloe’s ails is because she continues to choose men in the spotlight, specifically athletes. Kim on the other hand chose Kanye West, and as crazy as you may want to call him, he worships the ground Kim walks on and always has.
The thing about most men is they really don’t get that much attention until they are with a popular or beautiful woman. Once that attention starts to come at them, they can’t handle it. They relish in it and decide to have fun. They care more about their carnal desires than their woman being respected. They don’t care if the woman they claim to love comes out looking like a fool.
P.S. The key isn’t for women to be afraid of you. It’s for your man to be afraid of cheating on you for fear of losing you. Men aren’t afraid to lose Khloe…. At least not the ones she chooses. I bet Steve Harvey is too afraid to lose Marjorie.
The latest hottie to make the gossip blogs is non other than Rick Ross’s new girlfriend Hamisa Mobetto. While she’s indeed a very attractive woman, her current looks are not the talk of the town.
What some have began to focus on are alleged pictures of Hamisa with darker skin.
The Tanzanian socialite is best known as the ex-girlfriend of Diamond Platnumz, a superstar singer in Tanzania is being accused of bleaching her skin over the past decade.
According to MTO Ross and Hamisa have been a couple for almost a year now.
The two are so serious that, according to MTO News sources, Rozay is paying ALL of Hamisa’s bills in Tanzania and flying her to his Atlanta mansion a couple of times a month.
The two also frequently fly to Dubai, where they vacation together while Ross takes her on shopping sprees.
Well MTO says that while Hamisa has always been beautiful, shel used to be dark skinned and has magically transformed to a different complexion.
Interesting to say the least. Skin bleaching is quite the norm in Africa.
Two months ago, Hamisa posted this video, showing the couple going out on the town.
